Providers removing erotic, & current clientele not liking it.

[DWnyc]

12 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

To some cops, all gay men fall into the "specific individuals" category. Especially in the red states where they do it.

It's no different than when cops raided gay bars. They just find another justification to get rid of gays.

Yup wouldn’t really fly in New York or San Francisco but it might in some rural areas or states (or countries).

 

 

[DWnyc]

Related,  I’ve been asked when actually meeting a provider whether I’m interested in p n p - even if I’ve said no or kept quiet when planning. And they’ve clarified they know some clients don’t want a written or potentially recorded verbal trail.  I know this triggers some here, but it’s also reiterating the point that use by clients and providers is more widespread than profile listings / initial back and forth may suggest. 

And more generally that you can often get a sense of a provider’s general vibe without specifics listed.