newdad Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 Curious to hear recommendations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 I had a lot of fun in a bath house in Tokyo. I feel like I posted about it but I don’t recall the name. I loved it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 12 minutes ago, newdad said: Curious to hear recommendations You might want to search in the Destinations > Africa/Asia/Australia forum. There's a recent thread about Tokyo massge there. You might want to put your question there with a new thread name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 24 Kaikan! thomas and + db66 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Vespa Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 24 kaikan + 1 More diversed clientele. Many tourists. Get to sample different nationalities so to speak. thomas and Dr.Daddy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted January 30 Author Share Posted January 30 8 hours ago, John Vespa said: 24 kaikan + 1 More diversed clientele. Many tourists. Get to sample different nationalities so to speak. Are Tokyo bathhouses pretty similar to how patrons at US bathhouses do their song and dance? Just wondering if there are certain things that are different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parsu Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 Here are some information Gay sauna and gay onsen in Tokyo Marc in Calif and newdad 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 7 hours ago, newdad said: Are Tokyo bathhouses pretty similar to how patrons at US bathhouses do their song and dance? Just wondering if there are certain things that are different. Not in my experience. The guys are there to fuck. The Shinjuku location has four floors. Bottom has lockers, wet areas, and cubicles. The upper floors are "sleeping" rooms. Wall to wall bunks for sex. Guys go there late evening and spend the night since most trains stop running at midnight. The times I've spent the night sex goes on until very late/early. Once guys start to fall asleep they're still open to blow jobs, pretending not to wake up. I've also been woken up with a guys mouth on my dick many times there. + Vegas_Millennial and thomas 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted January 30 Author Share Posted January 30 7 minutes ago, EastbayMike said: Not in my experience. The guys are there to fuck. The Shinjuku location has four floors. Bottom has lockers, wet areas, and cubicles. The upper floors are "sleeping" rooms. Wall to wall bunks for sex. Guys go there late evening and spend the night since most trains stop running at midnight. The times I've spent the night sex goes on until very late/early. Once guys start to fall asleep they're still open to blow jobs, pretending not to wake up. I've also been woken up with a guys mouth on my dick many times there. Wow. Sounds like it's more intense than the western counterpart. How would you describe the guys there during your visits? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 Mostly Japanese. Mid 20s to mid 40s. In my experience, the "song and dance" problem is limited to US bathhouses. European, Asian, and Latin American saunas are a lot more open and friendly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted January 30 Author Share Posted January 30 11 minutes ago, EastbayMike said: Mostly Japanese. Mid 20s to mid 40s. In my experience, the "song and dance" problem is limited to US bathhouses. European, Asian, and Latin American saunas are a lot more open and friendly. Can you elaborate on the "song and dance" you've experienced in the US? Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 If you've never been to a Japanese onsen or sauna there is a protocol too follow. The first lobby is where you take off your shoes and put them in the small lockers. Don't go to the counter with your shoes on. There are vending machines where you pay based on what you want (regular, private room, length of stay...). Get a ticket there and hand it to the guys at the counter. They'll give you a key for the large locker, towels, and onsen wear. You'll also get flip flops which you should wear to be polite. In some places you'll see extra flip flops outside the toilet rooms. Wear them while you're taking a piss then put the other ones back on. In general the guys who work there are friendly unless it's really busy at the counter. The ticket machine are bilingual. But they really hate it when westerners don't take off their shoes in the first lobby. newdad, thomas and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastbayMike Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 Just now, newdad said: Can you elaborate on the "song and dance" you've experienced in the US? I'm sure you know. Attitude, detachment, afraid to return a smile.... newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 30 Share Posted January 30 31 minutes ago, EastbayMike said: I'm sure you know. Attitude, detachment, afraid to return a smile.... Not taking no for an answer, staring after you’ve asked them to stop, lingering around you once you’ve made it clear you’re pursuing other opportunities. newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parsu Posted January 31 Share Posted January 31 Song and dance in a gay sauna? Really? It's hard for me to imagine what that would be like, as I haven't visited any gay saunas in the US yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted January 31 Share Posted January 31 10 hours ago, newdad said: Can you elaborate on the "song and dance" you've experienced in the US? + Vegas_Millennial, thomas and + azdr0710 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYC_Lover Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 (edited) On 1/29/2024 at 6:18 PM, newdad said: Curious to hear recommendations I spoke to someone I know who lives there and 24 Kaikan in Shinjuku Nichome is the big gay bathhouse that's mostly busy Friday and Saturday nights and Tokyo eagle blue is the big western friendly bar. Start there and see how the night goes. They have sex parties at D-light and Aisotope some weekends for events as well but you have to check Instagram as to when that is happening. My friend gave me a good tour of the things to see there and we ended up there on a weekend when the special events happened i'll ask him to link more information on here because he lives in Japan part of the year and speaks the language so he knows his share on the Tokyo vibe. Google Maps MAPS.APP.GOO.GL ★★★★★ · Gay bar Google Maps MAPS.APP.GOO.GL ★★★★☆ · Gay sauna AiSOTOPE LOUNGE - 新宿二丁目のクラブイベント AISOTOPE-LOUNGE.NET 新宿二丁目の遊び場AiSOTOPE... Google Maps MAPS.APP.GOO.GL ★★★★★ · Night club Edited February 16 by NYC_Lover newdad, Marc in Calif and thomas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted February 16 Share Posted February 16 On 1/29/2024 at 4:18 PM, newdad said: Curious to hear recommendations What time of year are you planning to visit Tokyo? Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Axiom2001 Posted February 17 Share Posted February 17 (edited) On 1/29/2024 at 4:18 PM, newdad said: Curious to hear recommendations Check out gaycities.com. (Tokyo). I just went there and saw information regarding a sauna that has three locations in this city. Edited February 17 by Axiom2001 newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted February 17 Author Share Posted February 17 23 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: What time of year are you planning to visit Tokyo? This coming week + Coolwave35 and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted February 18 Share Posted February 18 20 hours ago, newdad said: This coming week Be sure to report back with your favorite places! newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted February 19 Share Posted February 19 Baths (onsen) and sex clubs are two very different things in Asia. Make sure you realize that and behave accordingly. Japan is one of the only places I've seen discriminatory entrance behavior at gay sex clubs. They will openly turn you away for any number of reasons, including long hair, feminine behavior, lack of muscle, tattoos, not being Asian, etc. It is what it is. Just don't be shocked if they single you out and you don't get in. Have a plan B. thomas and Marc in Calif 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted February 19 Author Share Posted February 19 4 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Baths (onsen) and sex clubs are two very different things in Asia. Make sure you realize that and behave accordingly. Where does bathhouse fall under between those two? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted February 20 Share Posted February 20 On 2/19/2024 at 1:08 PM, newdad said: Where does bathhouse fall under between those two? What bathhouse are you comparing to? Some have great shower, bath, and scrub facilities with very little sex, while others mostly exist solely for sex with few amenities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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