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14 hours ago, Senpa said:

I was afraid for my safety as he seems like the type to be physically aggressive if I did not give donation. I valued my life at the moment over my bills. 

That really sucks. So how did you end up seeing his partner? If you had a bad experience with one person I would definitely not see their counterpart if you knew that in advance. I would certainly not go back to the scene of the "crime" if it was at the same place.

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I was notified about this post, so let me clear this up, because some people love making wild accusations whenever their own lack of communication or basic social skills gets exposed.

Just like “Project X” above, the meth head I walked out on after arriving for a massage and he tried to turn it into a party while literally blowing meth in my face. Some guys love to smear providers when they don’t get their way. It’s tired at this point.

First: Thompson and I haven’t been together for over two years. I don’t know what his space looks like now, and I can’t speak for him. 

Second: I’ve been traveling Central and South America for the last nine months. Outside of this work (which I do enjoy with the right clientele), I’m a master professional scuba diver, and I’m starting school again in January as I continue toward my PhD. I wanted to adventure before classes resume.

Third: Before returning to Chicago, I went to Atlanta to collect my dog, who barely sheds.

And while I don’t have my old private massage studio anymore (where my dog never set foot), I now see select clients in my new residence, and if you look at my X or Bluesky, where I make video collaborations only with content creators, it’s very obvious I work in an extremely clean, controlled space, on a professional table, with an incredible view.

Some of you are wild and hate being called out for your own behavior. When you get checked, you sprint to forums like this out of spite. Predictable.

“Afraid for your safety”?

If you’re talking about Thompson, that’s hilarious. He is literally the most non-confrontational person alive.

Me? If you’re a decent human being, you get my full respect.

If you act like a twat, by text or in person, I’m not shy about calling out disgusting behavior. Most of these so-called “experiences” people complain about boil down to who THEY are as a person.

And “Beefy dude” not sure how my prices are “all over the place” when they are written clearly on my profile:

$150 therapeutic

$200 sensual

$300 erotic

Now, when someone texts me asking for things far beyond what I offer, and yes, people really do send messages like “slap me, cum in my face, and shit on my bed” I shut that down. Sometimes with “sure, $3000 upfront” just to make the nonsense disappear.

Then suddenly I’m “inconsistent”? Right.

Take accountability.

Communicate like an adult.

Stop projecting your own mess onto providers who are being clear about what they do and don’t offer.

And lastly, I don’t discriminate based on looks. I go by energy and kindness. Yes, I’ve said I like white haired older men before, but the ones who truly get the best of my time and energy are the decent, genuine, respectful ones.

That really shouldn’t be that hard to grasp. 

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On 11/26/2025 at 6:49 AM, LewisLMT said:

Stop projecting your own mess onto providers

Judging by what you read on this board, it seems there is a percentage of messed-up customers. Perhaps it's the nature of the beast. Some gay men don't know how to behave. It's a shame, because the bad apples tend to spoil everything for everyone else.

Thank you Lewis for having the courage to post here. I loved reading what you had you to say.

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On 11/13/2025 at 2:11 PM, MRK said:

That really sucks. So how did you end up seeing his partner? If you had a bad experience with one person I would definitely not see their counterpart if you knew that in advance. I would certainly not go back to the scene of the "crime" if it was at the same place.

I don’t believe people are defined by their counterparts, and deserve benefit of the doubt regardless if the experience was good or bad. People can be polar opposites even by association.

I booked both of them separately in different locations. I took the time to know details of Thompson and TrueLMT on a personal level during my session. Which is why I knew they established a relationship and saw TrueLmT’s dog during my visit. At one point they offered 4hands, but nevertheless they have an established history. 

 

On 11/26/2025 at 5:49 AM, LewisLMT said:

I was notified about this post, so let me clear this up, because some people love making wild accusations whenever their own lack of communication or basic social skills gets exposed.

First: Thompson and I haven’t been together for over two years. I don’t know what his space looks like now, and I can’t speak for him. 

Second: I’ve been traveling Central and South America for the last nine months. Outside of this work (which I do enjoy with the right clientele), I’m a master professional scuba diver, and I’m starting school again in January as I continue toward my PhD. I wanted to adventure before classes resume.

Third: Before returning to Chicago, I went to Atlanta to collect my dog, who barely sheds.

And while I don’t have my old private massage studio anymore (where my dog never set foot), I now see select clients in my new residence, and if you look at my X or Bluesky, where I make video collaborations only with content creators, it’s very obvious I work in an extremely clean, controlled space, on a professional table, with an incredible view.

Some of you are wild and hate being called out for your own behavior. When you get checked, you sprint to forums like this out of spite. Predictable.

“Afraid for your safety”?

If you’re talking about Thompson, that’s hilarious. He is literally the most non-confrontational person alive.

Me? If you’re a decent human being, you get my full respect.

If you act like a twat, by text or in person, I’m not shy about calling out disgusting behavior. Most of these so-called “experiences” people complain about boil down to who THEY are as a person.

Take accountability.

Communicate like an adult.

Stop projecting your own mess onto providers who are being clear about what they do and don’t offer.

And lastly, I don’t discriminate based on looks. I go by energy and kindness. Yes, I’ve said I like white haired older men before, but the ones who truly get the best of my time and energy are the decent, genuine, respectful ones.

That really shouldn’t be that hard to grasp. 

I will say, during my visit with you in Chicago, I had a singular bad experience that I had wish was better. That is not to say that the quality of service you provide in general wasn’t good. It was quite memorable for me to even post in an open forum.  I just had wish there wasn’t dog fur on my clothes after our session at that time and maybe now it definitely sounds like your dog no longer sheds anymore or switched diets. You have my benefit of doubt. 
 

I also wish I wasn’t standing the entire time, while I was being serviced. I did not communicate ahead of time if the service would be on the bed or massage table. I had made a fair assumption that all services provided on rentmasseur and rentmen would be performed on a comfortable surface.  It should’ve been a given expectation but it was my mistake for assuming that. I will take accountability for not asking ahead of time if our session would be conducted comfortably on a bed or massage table, and if there were different rates for that. It was a bit harsh to conduct the session standing up on the cold hardwood brown floors in your apartment. Even when I had asked if we could migrate to your bed or a massage table, you said no. You keep your bed separate from business, which I respect, but you could’ve at least thrown some cushion, pillows, or even towels on the floor, and I’d be a happy camper. I had already made the effort to travel to your apartment, and maybe you just had a bad day or something. You’re a strong guy, after reading your interests, I understand now that I’m definitely not your type which may allude to your treatment of this interaction in particular as I represent another paycheck (which is totally okay!) I was afraid to leave just based on survival instincts and how the interaction went. There’s always an element of uncertainty, and fear for safety when walking in any unknown territory in my opinion. So of course, my guard is always up, and that is what I assessed at that time. You probably are a very nice gentleman who’s harmless to flies, but am I going to background check this? No way. You are a clearly college educated, and care for your clients to even address these trivial comments. And you are on your way to upskilling your life and getting higher education in PHD. Mad respect. It’s just with out of all my experiences so far, you were the only one that did that to me, and made me stand up the entire time. I hope you take this as constructive feedback and not personally. After hearing your response, I feel for you. 
 

I would not mind getting a do-over session with you, as I genuinely believe this one experience does not define you in particular. I agree with kindness going along way and energy reciprocating. I can’t speak for the others but accountability is definitely fleeting. 

If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to meet with you once again, if you’re ever in my city or vice versa. Maybe then, you’ll have a chance to quell my fear for safety for just you alone. I spent way too much time transferring my thoughts here but I genuinely hope for your continued success and improvement. 

Edited by Senpa
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On 11/3/2025 at 10:48 AM, Senpa said:

His partner is Thompson and he’s based in Chicago. I’ve seen both of them separately. Both on the pricey end and it was a bad experience for both. 

Let me tell you, I traveled to his place in Chicago, and there was dog fur everywhere. He did not clean his bedroom, clothes were all over the floor. It’s fine. He refused to provide service on any comfortable surface such as a bed or a massage table, we did everything standing up. I’ve never in my life received service having to stand up the entire time. Not to mention, dog fur was also located on his body. I was also shortchanged on time.
 

worst experience I’ve ever had. Your mileage may vary greatly from mine. But I’m not a fan.

 

How the HELL do you do a massage standing up?

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On 11/26/2025 at 6:49 AM, LewisLMT said:

I was notified about this post, so let me clear this up, because some people love making wild accusations whenever their own lack of communication or basic social skills gets exposed.

Just like “Project X” above, the meth head I walked out on after arriving for a massage and he tried to turn it into a party while literally blowing meth in my face. Some guys love to smear providers when they don’t get their way. It’s tired at this point.

First: Thompson and I haven’t been together for over two years. I don’t know what his space looks like now, and I can’t speak for him. 

Second: I’ve been traveling Central and South America for the last nine months. Outside of this work (which I do enjoy with the right clientele), I’m a master professional scuba diver, and I’m starting school again in January as I continue toward my PhD. I wanted to adventure before classes resume.

Third: Before returning to Chicago, I went to Atlanta to collect my dog, who barely sheds.

And while I don’t have my old private massage studio anymore (where my dog never set foot), I now see select clients in my new residence, and if you look at my X or Bluesky, where I make video collaborations only with content creators, it’s very obvious I work in an extremely clean, controlled space, on a professional table, with an incredible view.

Some of you are wild and hate being called out for your own behavior. When you get checked, you sprint to forums like this out of spite. Predictable.

“Afraid for your safety”?

If you’re talking about Thompson, that’s hilarious. He is literally the most non-confrontational person alive.

Me? If you’re a decent human being, you get my full respect.

If you act like a twat, by text or in person, I’m not shy about calling out disgusting behavior. Most of these so-called “experiences” people complain about boil down to who THEY are as a person.

And “Beefy dude” not sure how my prices are “all over the place” when they are written clearly on my profile:

$150 therapeutic

$200 sensual

$300 erotic

Now, when someone texts me asking for things far beyond what I offer, and yes, people really do send messages like “slap me, cum in my face, and shit on my bed” I shut that down. Sometimes with “sure, $3000 upfront” just to make the nonsense disappear.

Then suddenly I’m “inconsistent”? Right.

Take accountability.

Communicate like an adult.

Stop projecting your own mess onto providers who are being clear about what they do and don’t offer.

And lastly, I don’t discriminate based on looks. I go by energy and kindness. Yes, I’ve said I like white haired older men before, but the ones who truly get the best of my time and energy are the decent, genuine, respectful ones.

That really shouldn’t be that hard to grasp. 

@LewisLMTI appreciate your very detailed response and for clearing up a lot of information  I re-read your profiles and prices saw many different prices. HOWEVER, I wasn't paying attention to the dates (earlier years obviously lower than current).

I sincerely apologize for missing that and calling it out

I believe you have been in my city.  I  will keep an eye out for sure

Posted (edited)
5 hours ago, BeefyDude said:

How the HELL do you do a massage standing up?

 I’m not engaging with that message any further because the story they’ve now written contradicts itself several times and doesn’t line up with reality. It’s impossible to do a massage standing. 

I’ve never offered 4-hands with Thompson. I have in the past with another clinically trained therapist because our skill and techniques matched. Sadly he is no longer in Chicago. I’ve never done a session on a “cold hardwood floor,”  for every single booking my massage table is set up with a carpet under, my studio was fully carpeted. Pictures of both set ups confirm.  

Their original post implied I was physically aggressive. Now their “survival instincts” kicked in… yet somehow they also want to meet again? That alone tells me this narrative isn’t grounded in truth.

if I was fearful for my wellbeing you best believe I’m staying away from the psycho. 

Even the details keep shifting:

– first it was my clothes “all over the floor,”

(I don’t leave and personal  belongings on the floor especially in my massage space) 

– now it’s their clothes “on the floor,”

(Is that where they decided to place them? Even though it was previously mentioned witnessing so much dog fur everywhere?)

I have tables and desks and chairs in all my spaces that client lay there belonging on. The floor is a bizarre choice. 

At this point, it’s clear they’re rewriting the experience to fit whatever point they are trying to make. I’m not giving that energy any more of my time.

I wish you them well, but no I’m definitely not interested in meeting again.

Edited by LewisLMT
Posted
18 minutes ago, LewisLMT said:

 

 I’m not engaging with that message any further because the story they’ve now written contradicts itself several times and doesn’t line up with reality. It’s impossible to do a massage standing. 

I’ve never offered 4-hands with Thompson. I have in the past with another clinically trained therapist because our skill and techniques matched. Sadly he is no longer in Chicago. I’ve never done a session on a “cold hardwood floor,”  for every single booking my massage table is set up with a carpet under, my studio was fully carpeted. Pictures of both set ups confirm.  

Your original post implied I was physically aggressive. Now your “survival instincts” kicked in… yet somehow you also want to meet again? That alone tells me this narrative isn’t grounded in truth.

Even the details keep shifting:

– first it was my clothes “all over the floor,”

(I don’t leave and personal  belongings on the floor especially in my massage space) 

– now it’s your clothes “on the floor,”

(Is that where you decided to place them? Even though you previously mentioned witnessing so much dog fur everywhere?)

I have tables and desks and chairs in all my spaces that client lay there belonging on.

At this point, it’s clear you’re rewriting the experience to fit whatever point you’re trying to make. I’m not giving that energy any more of my time.

I wish you well, but no  I’m definitely not interested in meeting again.

In my defense  I said that BEFORE i saw your other msg

Posted
22 minutes ago, BeefyDude said:

In my defense  I said that BEFORE i saw your other msg

No worries BeetDude, I was just addressing the continued ridiculousness of the other person. I hope you have a beautiful day. 

Posted
13 hours ago, BeefyDude said:

@LewisLMTI appreciate your very detailed response and for clearing up a lot of information  I re-read your profiles and prices saw many different prices. HOWEVER, I wasn't paying attention to the dates (earlier years obviously lower than current).

I suspect that when you say "I re-read your profiles and prices saw many different prices" you are referring to the "Rate paid" indicated by reviewers. 

When I see a rate paid in a review that does not align with the massage therapist's posted rates, I assume that the reviewer included any tip amount they may have added on or there was an additional service provided.

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