NYC Providers who orgasm

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[rvwnsd]

On 1/14/2024 at 8:01 PM, Trick said:

For those who want the provider to know that they’re expected to cum, how do you word it so it doesn’t sound like you’re treating them like a robot but you really want them to cum.

In my first RM message, I describe what I want to do with a provider. This includes asking * the provider to cum. Sometimes, a guy will tell me that he can't always cum with a client and other times a guy will say he doesn't always cum with someone he has met for the first time. That lets me decide whether or not to hire him.  When texting, my first message asks whether it is an OK time to text. My SECOND message outlines what I am looking for.

* "expecting" a provider to cum: I don't phrase it as an expectation. Typically, I say something like "...a huge turn-on is when a guy cums. Love to swallow, play with it, and sometimes get a facial." 

 

 

 

 

[LookingAround]

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I have never in my life cum more than once in a day. I had no idea that a) it’s possible and b) there would be a desire to. I’m seeing a provider today for two hours and I’m going to try my damndest to come a second time. My mind is blown by this thread. 

Remember there’s a lot of marketing going on in this thread. 

[MmM]

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I have never in my life cum more than once in a day. I had no idea that a) it’s possible and b) there would be a desire to. I’m seeing a provider today for two hours and I’m going to try my damndest to come a second time. My mind is blown by this thread. 

When I was a teenager, I used to be able to come 2-3 x successively. The load becomes smaller and smaller of course. Alas, now once a day is the most for me. Even then 2 days in a row and I will need some respite. I have a Grindr buddy in his 20s and he comes a second time right after the first! 

[Hot4latin]

Some things can’t be orchestrated prior to the meeting, especially if this is your first time around with a provider. I had a four-hand massage today with a couple who did not commit to 💦 when I setup the appointment. But sure enough when we got to the fun part, an offer of an extra 50 produced a load from both of them.  Gently negotiating in the moment often pays off. 💦💦

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I think any escort who enjoys the sex will WANT to blow his load. 

That doesn't always mean he can in the moment.  Shit happens and if someone says they can't, there's no reason to put more pressure on him...  It won't help the situation.  So much about sex is mental that translates to the physical.

The same can be said for clients who can't get hard or cum.  Most times, the more they try, the worse the problem becomes.  You just have to stay calm and realize that we can't always force a round peg into a square hole.