warning signs

[PileDriver]

i have regulars who have stood me up, some on multiple occasions, if a deposit was involved it was refunded, no questions asked...all great guys. and i'm willing to be flexible for them. i have canceled too at the last second and depending on the relationship even then paid in full for a missed assignation. just to let everyone know where i'm coming from. but then there are those guys, and the signs are there...some show up and demand payment in full but can't perform, some cancel at last second and keep the deposit, some show up but then the entire session is one of demands and disappointment...sometimes bait and switch, sometimes looking at their phone rather than being present...etc.

So I have my warning signs...too often i ignore them. What are other peoples experiences?

The reason I ask is that for the past year there has been an uptick in bad escort behavior from where I stand and play. Including an uptick in escorts aggressively blaming any issue on me. Sorry, not the case. 😇

[+ DrownedBoy]

When you encounter bad escort behavior,  just post it in The Deli. The market can only weed out problems if information is shared.

[acks0104]

Agreed with DrownedBoy. I feel like I'm pickier than most when it comes to hiring and pretty exclusively hire guys that have already been vetted by others. You can definitely get lucky with new guys on the scene but I feel like those just starting out are the ones with most issues.

At the end of the day it's all going to be hit or miss. If something feels like it's going to be off, listen to your brain and not your penis.

[marylander1940]

6 hours ago, PileDriver said:

i have regulars who have stood me up, some on multiple occasions, if a deposit was involved it was refunded, no questions asked...all great guys. and i'm willing to be flexible for them. i have canceled too at the last second and depending on the relationship even then paid in full for a missed assignation. just to let everyone know where i'm coming from. but then there are those guys, and the signs are there...some show up and demand payment in full but can't perform, some cancel at last second and keep the deposit, some show up but then the entire session is one of demands and disappointment...sometimes bait and switch, sometimes looking at their phone rather than being present...etc.

So I have my warning signs...too often i ignore them. What are other peoples experiences?

The reason I ask is that for the past year there has been an uptick in bad escort behavior from where I stand and play. Including an uptick in escorts aggressively blaming any issue on me. Sorry, not the case. 😇

Sir, you've been very unlucky on your picks... At the same time I must say very few times deposits have been refunded. 

Btw stood up is a powerful expression. 

Edited November 29, 2023 by marylander1940