Seeing married provider partners individually

[dbar123]

A few years ago I saw an escort at his place and had a fantastic time. Two weeks later I unknowingly booked his married partner. When I showed up at the same apartment I was a bit amused to find that the appointment was almost a carbon copy of the previous encounter. I subsequently started seeing both together which is a lot of fun.

The funky issue I have is that I occasionally only want to see one of the two which makes it a bit awkward since I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Any suggestions on the best ways to broach this?

[BuffaloKyle]

Little bit confused. So they have separate ads? Is that how you booked both separate the first time? My first thought is I wouldn't get too hung up on hurting someone's feelings. You're paying for their service so I'd just hire the guy you vibe with and enjoy better. But if you can't host and need to go to their apartment then might be best to just move on totally from them and find someone else. Then it could indeed be awkward. Even if the other guy wasn't there if he showed up before you left.

[marylander1940]

Is not a big deal... many or most married gay men have open relationships. I guess there are also escorts who are married to another escort. 

[Simon Suraci]

Totally fine. It need not be awkward. If you like one of the married providers better, you’re contributing to the same household income. They’re happy, you’re happy. Nobody cares. We providers don’t take these things very personally.

One time I was meeting up at at traveling masseur’s rental apartment to join him for a 4-hand massage for one of his clients. One of my regular clients was walking out of the complex as I was walking in and we recognized one another naturally.

It wasn’t awkward for me, but maybe moreso for my client that was leaving. I didn’t care that my client was hiring an out of town guy. It happens. It’s normal. My regular client continued to hire me for massage and more. It was fine. Even if he stopped hiring me in favor of someone else, I wouldn’t care.

In fact, I regularly refer clients to other providers I know when I can see someone else might be a better fit for whatever reason. Clients and providers appreciate me facilitating a better match. Sometimes the client still hires me for certain things and then hires the referral for other things. I see no conflict. If I can help my clients meet their needs, it’s a win-win even if I miss out on short term earnings. The goodwill I put out into the world comes back to me many times over.

[56harrisond]

 

[JourneysEnd]

By far the worst duo I ever had was with two escorts in Birmingham who were a couple and obviously massively more into each other than me.

[+ DrownedBoy]

I do wish there were more partnered duos out there. I had a really fun couple I liked meeting, but they broke up.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I was visiting another city last year and looking around for some fun - I came across a couple of guys that I like the look of, and chatted with one, then a few days later chatted with one of the others - when I started talking about my interests he suggested I do a 3 sum with guy number 1 and him, said that guy number 1 brought out the Dom in him - as I was looking for 2 doms.

The encounter worked out really well, I got exactly what I was looking for, and it was hot to be tied up and watch these two hot men enjoying each other - and we all had a great time together.

 

My only issue was that they were taking G although the encounter - and I find it a little off-putting - but that can happen with anyone