Beware of VJJOCK

[Jostar]

I saw this guy 

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On his hotel we started doing the session and i put my clothes on chair. 20 minutes in the session i go to the bathroom for a quick piss. As soon i got out. I saw his hands on the pockets of my jean trying get my wallet. I told him wtf are you doing, he said that my pants fell off the chair. Their no way my pants could fall of the chair i made sure so it won't off the chair. I told him he a thief and I ended the session right there. He was trying to convince me that he was just picking my pants up from the floor. I told him why where you grabbing my wallet on the pocket of the jeans. He kept making excuses. I got dressed and left what out paying him. Beware of this guy. 

[Jostar]

1 hour ago, Marctraveler said:

Wait- what?? Did he actually steal anything from your wallet? So you spent 20 minutes into the session and left without paying? I wonder who’s the real thief here… 

I’m surprised he allowed you to get dressed and leave without paying him. 

I caught him on the act with his hands on my wallet of the pocket of my pants. I took my pants and checked my wallet nothing was taken out. Has Is it that my pants are the only thing that fall on the floor. I have a system were I put my pants first on the chair then the underwear on top, the socks on top of the underwear and lastly the shirt on top of sock. None of these things are on the floor, only the pants that where he mess up and i caught him. He try to make excuses and I wasn't hearing not of this. I got dressed and he was apologizing. Once I walk out the door he didn't do anything but kept saying am sorry. Am surprised he didn't try to stop me but regardless am getting out and not paying jack for that. 

[+ Pensant]

When I host, I always hide my wallet and other valuables (car keys, watch) before the provider arrives. Of course, I don’t do this with regulars. Over 20 years, I’ve never had anything stolen.

[+ Pensant]

8 hours ago, Marctraveler said:

I’m surprised he allowed you to get dressed and leave without paying him. 

Perhaps because of this:

I am vers, but naturally am more on the bottom/submissive side of things

[BonVivant]

1 hour ago, Pensant said:

When I host, I always hide my wallet and other valuables (car keys, watch) before the provider arrives. Of course, I don’t do this with regulars. Over 20 years, I’ve never had anything stolen.

Trust but verify. Always be careful with those you don’t know. I did have a watch stolen. Always use the safe. Once you know them, then you can be care free. But even that’s no guarantee. One of my trusted steady eddies found my checkbook; stole two checks…. He wrote himself a few hundred dollars. Called him out; reported it to the bank. I let him off; didn’t want to ruin a life. But that was it. Never ever again saw him. Cut him off. 

Edited July 19, 2023 by BonVivant

[rvwnsd]

3 hours ago, Pensant said:

When I host, I always hide my wallet and other valuables (car keys, watch) before the provider arrives. Of course, I don’t do this with regulars. Over 20 years, I’ve never had anything stolen.

 

2 hours ago, BonVivant said:

Trust but verify. Always be careful with those you don’t know. I did have a watch stolen. Always use the safe...

I do the same. However, given @Jostar was at the escort's hotel, it sounds like hiding the wallet/putting it in the safe wasn't an option.

 

10 hours ago, Jostar said:

... am getting out and not paying jack for that. 

Not going to argue with wanting to get out of the situation. You have to do what feels right and what is required to protect yourself.

On 7/18/2023 at 7:30 AM, Jostar said:

 

On his hotel we started doing the session and i put my clothes on chair. 20 minutes in the session i go to the bathroom for a quick piss. As soon i got out. I saw his hands on the pockets of my jean trying get my wallet. I told him wtf are you doing, he said that my pants fell off the chair. Their no way my pants could fall of the chair i made sure so it won't off the chair. I told him he a thief..

Asking what he was doing with his hand on your pants pocket is reasonable, but I wouldn't call him a thief. Escalating an already charged-up situation could lead to violence and harm. While I hope you (or anyone else reading this) don't experience something like this again in the future, should it happen again, sticking to the facts (his hand is on the pants pocket that holds your wallet) is the best approach. 

 

[secgoo]

Yet again this site proves it's invaluable to it's community.

Whilst there is a lot of focus on providers ensuring their safety, clients need to ensure theirs too. Thanks for reporting.

I hope you have positive experiences you can report here soon.

[Jostar]

3 hours ago, BonVivant said:

Trust but verify. Always be careful with those you don’t know. I did have a watch stolen. Always use the safe. Once you know them, then you can be care free. But even that’s no guarantee. One of my trusted steady eddies found my checkbook; stole two checks…. He wrote himself a few hundred dollars. Called him out; reported it to the bank. I let him off; didn’t want to ruin a life. But that was it. Never ever again saw him. Cut him off. 

That also a scary thing when a regular will go that far to ruin a relationship. Be careful at their