411 on Cuban Boy?

[dutchal]

Rentmen ad seems to be gone.

[Hhuu]

5 hours ago, dutchal said:

Rentmen ad seems to be gone.

His Rentmasseur ad is still up. Also, I noticed he and Lohanbro seem to be always traveling together. They are probably boyfriends with each other.

[dutchal]

14 hours ago, Hhuu said:

His Rentmasseur ad is still up. Also, I noticed he and Lohanbro seem to be always traveling together. They are probably boyfriends with each other.

They're both offering incalls at the same NYC address.

[FLJock]

On 11/11/2024 at 5:34 PM, Hhuu said:

His Rentmasseur ad is still up. Also, I noticed he and Lohanbro seem to be always traveling together. They are probably boyfriends with each other.

This tracks.  I saw Lohan last week and when I got to the lobby CubanBoy was downstairs, waiting.  Had I known he was dating another massage hottie I would have waited.  

[Thelatin]

I’ve seen him a few times, the communication is a bit rough but he’s a hottie.  The massage is ok, but he makes up for it with the extras.   He had me twisted in pretzels pounding the hell out of my ass for the last 30 minutes.  Great top - no complaints here….

[Hhuu]

1 hour ago, Thelatin said:

I’ve seen him a few times, the communication is a bit rough but he’s a hottie.  The massage is ok, but he makes up for it with the extras.   He had me twisted in pretzels pounding the hell out of my ass for the last 30 minutes.  Great top - no complaints here….

Did you initially hire him for massage?

[Thelatin]

41 minutes ago, Hhuu said:

Did you initially hire him for massage?

I did - but it’s been my experience that massage generally turns into more if they like you and want repeat business.

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 5/6/2024 at 4:35 PM, Capitano said:

Tip even if the service is shitty?!

I suggest having the exact amount whenever seeing someone for the first time, precisely for this reason.

And if someone is an exceptionally assholesque, as in blocking you, deleting your review, or not delivering what they promised, they deserve a fake appointment from another number that you cancel 15 minutes into it, with a message of your choice. Think of this as community service. They need to understand that there are consequences to scamming their clients.

Community service? I love this. And believe me I've done my part with community service. I'm not above revenge. Lol

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 6/27/2024 at 5:39 PM, 7829V said:

SPANISH

Hola David, no te conozco, ni nunca he contratado tus servicios. Sin embargo, me basaré en lo que dice tu anuncio. En primer lugar, el precio: puedes cobrar lo que consideres adecuado, pero si alguien está cobrando $200 por un masaje, es implícito que podría haber algún tipo de servicio extra. Además, en tu anuncio confirmas que estás ofreciendo servicios eróticos y sensuales. Estás en una plataforma donde, obviamente, el 95% de tu mercado busca algo más que un masaje terapéutico.

Respecto a las fotos, solo muestras tu cuerpo, sin camisa, flexionando el bíceps, mostrando tu espalda, etc. En ningún momento muestras una cama profesional de masaje, una loción profesional de masaje, o algo que se relacione con tus servicios supuestamente profesionales. Si deseas que tus potenciales clientes no se confundan, envía el mensaje correcto desde el principio y cambia tus fotos. Creo que el error es tuyo. Estás enviando un mensaje completamente equivocado por todas partes.

ENGLISH

I don't know you, and I have never hired your services. However, I will base my comments on what your advertisement says. First, the price: you can charge whatever you think is appropriate, but if someone is charging $200 for a massage, it implies that there might be some kind of extra service. Additionally, in your ad, you confirm that you are offering erotic and sensual services. You are on a platform where, obviously, 95% of your market is looking for more than just a therapeutic massage.

Regarding the photos, you only show your body, shirtless, flexing your biceps, showing your back, etc. At no point do you show a professional massage table, professional massage lotion, or anything related to your supposedly professional services. If you want your potential clients not to be confused, send the right message from the beginning and change your photos. I think the mistake is yours. You are sending a completely wrong message in every way.

I can't even believe that you had the audacity to say half of what you did here. You claimed that if somebody charges $200 for a massage that implies more than massage? How in the world do you even suggest this to this man? The implications are not existent other than in your mind. You are transferring expectations and experiences from other providers onto this man. I learned a long time ago when somebody says they offer sensual massage as well as erotic to simply ask for them what is their understanding in the difference between the two because I have experience providers who have different interpretations. It is up to you to indicate what you are asking for rather than booking an appointment from the point of view that what happens is going to be a guessing game and then you're unsatisfied because somebody doesn't deliver what you fantasized. I find what you have said here unappealing and unfair.

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 7/2/2024 at 1:33 PM, Swazca said:

So you used a mattress first. Remarkable. Lotion not oil, the lotion that was in your AirBnb. You worked for 35 mins total not 60-mins. You were late to the front to come and get me. You rubbed the same spot with your forearms over and over. That is not a massage by any means of the definition. You are correct that you do not speak English. We can take a step further that you're in the United States earning income without a Work Visa which means you're violating our tax laws. But I will let others decide the type of person you are based on your combative responses.  
 

I never asked you to escort when messaging you, I did not ask you to escort during the massage, or after. I was completely respectful of your boundaries. What I was expecting was a full body massage, however, that is not what occurred. You barely provided a lower back rub with your forearms for 35-minutes. You didn't massage my upper back, arms, legs, glutes or any other area. Absolutely no attention was given to any other area. That deserves to be said on Rentmasseur so others know your poor service.  
 

$220 for mediocre service for 35-mins of barely working is the issue at hand.  

Combative responses by Cuban boy? Oh my God. Sister it is you who are combative. We all have experiences that are good and some not so good which is why we have this site. I recommend you go to Grindr since you have an ax to grind.

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 7/2/2024 at 6:26 PM, CuriousByNature said:

I've been following the conversation in this thread and the other one that is now locked. Just a few things to consider, perhaps:

1. The amount that a massager requests from a client is for his time, not for specific activities beyond a massage. It seems that@cuban_boy has been pretty clear what the limits of those activities are for him, and that should be respected by anyone who contacts him.

2. I don't see anything in@cuban_boy's profile that would suggest anything more than a massage, with the exception that he notes that he is HIV negative and on PreP, which could lead some people to believe he is open to additional activities. But this does not mean he is open to other activities - he may just prefer to indicate what the profile template is asking, rather than leaving it blank.  

3. I don't think that@Swazca was necessarily looking for anything more than a massage based on what he has written in the threads - he has indicated that the reason he tipped is not because he expected more. I can understand this. I still give a small tip even when I am not fully satisfied by an experience, such as the service at a restaurant, because I just find it awkward not to give some tip for the time and effort the person has made.

4. The biggest issue I see is the possibility that@Swazca paid for a full hour of massage, and apparently only received 35 minutes. Since the masseur is being paid for their time, it is only fair that the full hour be given - otherwise a smaller fee should be requested by the masseur in those specific cases. Everyone has their good days and their bad days, but if the massage is shorter than agreed to, I don't think the full fee should be expected.

5. It is also the client's responsibility to indicate whether or not the massage is meeting their expectations during the massage. If a masseur is only concentrating on one area, or using only one method of massage, the client should let the masseur know that other areas need attention too. I have only seen an RMT a few times, and only when I've had an injury. I've never had a problem indicating that the massage is either too light or too deep, or if the area being massaged needs to be expanded. In every case the RMT has appreciated that info, and has modified their pressure or mode of massage to improve the experience. Only the client knows how the massage is feeling, so the client needs to let the masseur know if the massage is meeting expectations. Masseurs are not mind-readers.

6. I agree with those who noted that English is not@cuban_boy's first language, and that makes it very difficult to express nuances clearly. He's trying to express himself in a language that he is not fluent in, and we all need to appreciate that fact.

Anyway, those are just a few thoughts. It's good to have a forum where a client such as@Swazcacan share their particular experiences, and where a masseur such as@cuban_boy can share their side of the situation too. Unfortunately these back-and-forth dialogues can get nasty - especially when others get involved. Hopefully this post of mine does not contribute to that!

Finally, I just want to wish@cuban_boy and@Swazca the best going forward. 

I very much appreciate what you wrote here. As far as English and Cuban boy I think he has heads above some of these others on here who supposedly speak English fluently.

[Swazca]

21 hours ago, TakeOneForTheTeam said:

Combative responses by Cuban boy? Oh my God. Sister it is you who are combative. We all have experiences that are good and some not so good which is why we have this site. I recommend you go to Grindr since you have an ax to grind.

Interesting how all your posts all align in starting shit with the posters.  Each and every one.  Sounds like you enjoy immersing yourself in drama that speaks volumes about the type of person you really are.  What a life you must live. 

[Boaxxx]

On 11/12/2024 at 7:31 PM, Thelatin said:

I did - but it’s been my experience that massage generally turns into more if they like you and want repeat business.

Good for you. Maybe you need to share you stats and pics for the rest of us to understand what it takes to get full service. 😉

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

2 hours ago, Swazca said:

Interesting how all your posts all align in starting shit with the posters.  Each and every one.  Sounds like you enjoy immersing yourself in drama that speaks volumes about the type of person you really are.  What a life you must live. 

Oh crushes your delusional. I've never argued with any of the posters on here. I had some less than desirable encounters with providers who I have critiqued. But you just did is classical projection but oh I thank you for however because you just reminded me I want to go listen to Mozart speaking of classical. 

[Cooper]

Administrator’s Warning 

Gentlemen, Let’s stop the bickering and return to topic. Thank you. 

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 7/3/2024 at 8:44 PM, 7829V said:

This is not me writing... this is AI writing.
I asked AI to analyze the interaction and make suggestions.

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Cuban Boy could have handled the criticism better by being more receptive to client feedback and showing more empathy towards their concerns. While his responses were professional and explained his perspective, acknowledging the clients' feelings and offering solutions or improvements could have demonstrated a more customer-centric attitude. A balanced approach that combines professionalism with empathy can often lead to more positive outcomes in handling criticism.

Here are some examples of rephrased responses from Cuban Boy to make them friendlier and more positive:

Original Response

"I charge what I do because my services are worth it. If you don't like it, you can go somewhere else. I can't please everyone."

Suggested Response

"I appreciate your feedback on my pricing. My goal is to provide high-quality services, and I understand it may not fit everyone's budget. I'm always looking for ways to improve and hope to offer something that meets your expectations in the future."

Original Response

"I'm sorry you had a bad experience, but I did my best given the time constraints. I can't always accommodate last-minute bookings."

Suggested Response

"Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm sorry to hear it wasn't what you hoped for. I strive to accommodate all clients, but time constraints can be challenging. I'll work on better managing these situations and hope to provide a more satisfying service next time."

Original Response

"I don't speak English very well, but I try my best. If you have issues with that, there's not much I can do."

Suggested Response

"I appreciate your understanding as I continue to improve my English. Communication is important, and I'm always working on it to provide the best service possible. Thank you for your patience and support."

Original Response

"My prices are non-negotiable. If you can't afford it, that's not my problem."

Suggested Response

"Thank you for your input on my pricing. I aim to provide value for the cost, and while my prices are set to reflect this, I understand budget concerns. I'm committed to delivering a great experience that justifies the investment."

These rephrased responses aim to acknowledge clients' feelings, show empathy, and offer constructive solutions or improvements.

 

 

Oh my god this is my first experience on here with AI. It has come to this. Nothing is sacred.

[TakeOneForTheTeam]

On 7/4/2024 at 9:52 AM, CuriousByNature said:

Hey @cuban_boy and @Swazca 

Sorry to see that you are both still pretty upset about things.  Maybe best to just agree that each of you have a very different opinion about the situation and move on from there?

Just a thought...

 

Honey I came across this through this morning and not since fifty shades of Grey have I been this enthralled with hint of  sexual proclivities. He is in Detroit now and I was on the fence. Only wonder if after everything he has read here and written himself if he is developed more professionally.