colonexstacy Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 One week ago today I had one of the worst experiences of my life. I have not posted about it simply because I have been debating how to go about it because I do not want to be banned from this site. I still don't believe I know all the proper procedures and rules for this site. I have decided to go ahead and tell what happened because if I do not I would be remiss. I absolutely cannot remain silent anymore and allow the possibility to happen to another one of you gentlemen the experience that I had with Alex. And I am not going to offer the pm me for details. The anger I have at myself is almost palpable. There were too many red flags and yet I went ahead and went through with it. His communication in setting up the appointment was awful. After a few texts between us I decided to hire him in spite of the numerous delays in his communication. We had the appointment set and then he did not show. He called me the next day elaborating that he had partied too much tonight before and he really needed to get his life together.The anger I have is because I keep questioning to what extent will I put up with crap just to experience a hot man. I have self-worth and self-esteem and at the same time still possess an amount of insecurities. I hired him. He showed up. I have never seen a more fabulous body. I was getting excited in my groins just when he walked in the room and hugged me. Then he asked for the money up front. Suddenly that excitement in my groins became very soft. We all know that this is a sign that he will probably stay for 15 and 20 minutes and just do a rub and and tug then get the hell out. What happened next hurt my spirit and has left me in a position in which I could not call legal authorities. I don't think anybody could call regarding what happened to the police because of the text messages that would be giving away what I was paying him for. I handed him the $350 and he hugged me again then he said he needed to use the restroom. He told me to get undressed. I did. He came out of the restroom not once looking in my direction and opened the adjacent door to the hall and fled. He robbed me of $350. I hope that what I am posting here will remain here as a warning because his appeal in the pics as well as first glance in person is astounding. I can't help but wonder however how many other men he has done this too which would explain how a body like that has no reviews. Alexco on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com chadLA, Tactile Daddy, SpadeKing and 5 others 2 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 9 minutes ago, colonexstacy said: One week ago today I had one of the worst experiences of my life. I have not posted about it simply because I have been debating how to go about it because I do not want to be banned from this site. I still don't believe I know all the proper procedures and rules for this site. I have decided to go ahead and tell what happened because if I do not I would be remiss. I absolutely cannot remain silent anymore and allow the possibility to happen to another one of you gentlemen the experience that I had with Alex. And I am not going to offer the pm me for details. The anger I have at myself is almost palpable. There were too many red flags and yet I went ahead and went through with it. His communication in setting up the appointment was awful. After a few texts between us I decided to hire him in spite of the numerous delays in his communication. We had the appointment set and then he did not show. He called me the next day elaborating that he had partied too much tonight before and he really needed to get his life together.The anger I have is because I keep questioning to what extent will I put up with crap just to experience a hot man. I have self-worth and self-esteem and at the same time still possess an amount of insecurities. I hired him. He showed up. I have never seen a more fabulous body. I was getting excited in my groins just when he walked in the room and hugged me. Then he asked for the money up front. Suddenly that excitement in my groins became very soft. We all know that this is a sign that he will probably stay for 15 and 20 minutes and just do a rub and and tug then get the hell out. What happened next hurt my spirit and has left me in a position in which I could not call legal authorities. I don't think anybody could call regarding what happened to the police because of the text messages that would be giving away what I was paying him for. I handed him the $350 and he hugged me again then he said he needed to use the restroom. He told me to get undressed. I did. He came out of the restroom not once looking in my direction and opened the adjacent door to the hall and fled. He robbed me of $350. I hope that what I am posting here will remain here as a warning because his appeal in the pics as well as first glance in person is astounding. I can't help but wonder however how many other men he has done this too which would explain how a body like that has no reviews. Alexco on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com First of all thank you for sharing this with us! I'm sure this isn't the first time he does something like this, if you and others report him to RentMasseur they'll figure it out how to banned him from the site. Cliff, Wanderoz and chadLA 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 17, 2023 Author Share Posted May 17, 2023 4 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: First of all thank you for sharing this with us! I'm sure this isn't the first time he does something like this, if you and others report him to RentMasseur they'll figure it out how to banned him from the site. I totally neglected to mention I did inform the website. I have been in contact with one of the headmasters and I believe he is in Germany. I sent him the text messages also because believe me I texted Adam after he left and he had the audacity to tell me something came up. That alone will more than likely get him banned. The guy is not very bright and thank God he sent me that text that something came up. marylander1940 and Wanderoz 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 1 hour ago, colonexstacy said: I totally neglected to mention I did inform the website. I have been in contact with one of the headmasters and I believe he is in Germany. I sent him the text messages also because believe me I texted Adam after he left and he had the audacity to tell me something came up. That alone will more than likely get him banned. The guy is not very bright and thank God he sent me that text that something came up. even if he's banned he might be able to come back to the site but using an alternative method of payment and not his CC. you seem like a very polite guy, I'm sure most clients aren't as nice as you're. This was his loss... possibly he doesn't have the skills/attitude for this business or he's nothing but a scammer. colonexstacy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tactile Daddy Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 23 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: even if he's banned he might be able to come back to the site but using an alternative method of payment and not his CC. you seem like a very polite guy, I'm sure most clients aren't as nice as you're. This was his loss... possibly he doesn't have the skills/attitude for this business or he's nothing but a scammer. I doubt it. Different method of payment, different name, different ad, different photos, different IP address. It can be done, but too many hoops to jump through Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, Tactile Daddy said: I doubt it. Different method of payment, different name, different ad, different photos, different IP address. It can be done, but too many hoops to jump through I was making the case for the OP @colonexstacy to report him. Hopefully he's not too bright as @colonexstacy says and won't be able to figure it out. I don't want to turn this thread into payment methods, he will certainly need his own pics and similar stats to create a new profile IF he's banned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capitano Posted May 17, 2023 Share Posted May 17, 2023 Isn't this theft or fraud and shouldn't you file a police report? Or complaint about internet-based fraud? My 2c. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 4 hours ago, Capitano said: Isn't this theft or fraud and shouldn't you file a police report? Or complaint about internet-based fraud? My 2c. Let me ask you and I mean this an all sincerity would you file a police report? As I stated in my original message I did not do that because what we were setting up to do is still considered illegal in this day and age. The day that one can pay for this type of conduct was out legalities has yet to appear but I believe it is on its way. I would have been arrested if I would have reported this for procuring.Yet I would be intrigued as to what you would do? Maybe there's a different way I could have handled this and I was just too stunned. Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capitano Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 If he did this to you, he probably does it routinely. I wouldn't be surprised if he does this in cases of more legitimate massage. I don't see why you should necessarily describe all the details of the (even say erotic) massage that you were promised. An interesting avenue might be to file a small claims case, it requires some work but it might be gratifying to get him, and to definitely scare him. flclerks.com WWW.FLCLERKS.COM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 10 hours ago, colonexstacy said: He robbed me of $350. I’m sorry this happened to you. but, tbh - you got off easy. That “masseur” has no reviews and it’s basically hiring an unknown person who has already confessed to having a drug problem, meaning he missed your first appointment because of “partying”. You’re lucky he didn’t cause you any bodily harm or steal other stuff that would be harder to replace. Every time we hire it’s a risky proposition. My thinking is to try to minimize the chances for something to go wrong and at a minimum, the hires need to have a few recent 5star reviews. It’s not an exact science and plenty could go wrong - but, it’s less likely. I also have a hard no policy with any drug use mentioned in profile or indicated at any point in communication - that’s just asking for trouble. The police are not an option. You’re hiring someone to do something technically illegal. Viceroy10 and chadLA 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 1 hour ago, SouthOfTheBorder said: I’m sorry this happened to you. but, tbh - you got off easy. That “masseur” has no reviews and it’s basically hiring an unknown person who has already confessed to having a drug problem, meaning he missed your first appointment because of “partying”. You’re lucky he didn’t cause you any bodily harm or steal other stuff that would be harder to replace. Every time we hire it’s a risky proposition. My thinking is to try to minimize the chances for something to go wrong and at a minimum, the hires need to have a few recent 5star reviews. It’s not an exact science and plenty could go wrong - but, it’s less likely. I also have a hard no policy with any drug use mentioned in profile or indicated at any point in communication - that’s just asking for trouble. The police are not an option. You’re hiring someone to do something technically illegal. I agree with you totally and I thank you. I was grateful immediately that he did no physical harm. And I will never hire anyone without reviews. If I ever hire at all. starman05 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 2 hours ago, Capitano said: If he did this to you, he probably does it routinely. I wouldn't be surprised if he does this in cases of more legitimate massage. I don't see why you should necessarily describe all the details of the (even say erotic) massage that you were promised. An interesting avenue might be to file a small claims case, it requires some work but it might be gratifying to get him, and to definitely scare him. flclerks.com WWW.FLCLERKS.COM I live in Michigan he in florida....so small claims is not an option. I thought it necessary for the details to illustrate the severity of the occurance and I stand by that. Capitano 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 11 hours ago, colonexstacy said: Maybe there's a different way I could have handled this It’s simple. Insert this code into your program….. 10 Never 20 Pay 30 Upfront 40 Goto 10 + ButchAtl, starman05, colonexstacy and 2 others 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ EVdude Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 19 hours ago, colonexstacy said: I have never seen a more fabulous body So is the guy in the pictures the same guy that showed up at your door? If so, very surprising as he’s all over social media as “Alain”. Has almost 75,000 IG followers. SpadeKing and Capitano 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 18, 2023 Author Share Posted May 18, 2023 19 minutes ago, EVdude said: So is the guy in the pictures the same guy that showed up at your door? If so, very surprising as he’s all over social media as “Alain”. Has almost 75,000 IG followers. I'm searching him on IG but can't find him.....there are several as Alain and I dont see one with the numbers you mention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TracerMain Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, colonexstacy said: I'm searching him on IG but can't find him.....there are several as Alain and I dont see one with the numbers you mention. EVDude must have meant this guy. Was this the same person that showed up to meet with you? Because the photos used in his rm ad are also in this Instagram account. So it’s either a different person using this guy’s photos (which needs to be reported to this actual guy, and you also have much stronger case for RM to actually ban the fraudster’s ad), or the same person and needs to be called out! Edited May 18, 2023 by TracerMain SpadeKing 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 8 hours ago, colonexstacy said: And I will never hire anyone without reviews. If I ever hire at all. don't let that guy ruin hiring for you - just learn from it & try again we all make mistakes & we're all learning starman05 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpadeKing Posted May 18, 2023 Share Posted May 18, 2023 7 hours ago, TracerMain said: EVDude must have meant this guy. Was this the same person that showed up to meet with you? Because the photos used in his rm ad are also in this Instagram account. So it’s either a different person using this guy’s photos (which needs to be reported to this actual guy, and you also have much stronger case for RM to actually ban the fraudster’s ad), or the same person and needs to be called out! Probably a different guy. Browsing through this person’s IG, it seems like he’s in Europe. OP - you could use this to further your case with RM admin and get the ad banned. Use of fake photos is a definite bannable offense. Swazca, Capitano and MikeBiDude 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colonexstacy Posted May 19, 2023 Author Share Posted May 19, 2023 UPDATE....I NEED ADVISE. MORE INFORMATION HAS BEEN OVERWHELMING. First of all I'm so grateful to all of you and those who have private message me about this. I am stunned I have sat here for the last hour going through all of the social media that you men have led me to and it turns out the guy that came to my hotel is in fact NOT this guy. THE RESEMBLANCE IS UNCANNY. I NEVER EVER EVER WOULD HAVE EXPECTED THAT YOU WASN'T THE REAL PERSON. I am so taken aback by all of this that currently I rationally do not know what my next move should be. I will continue to work with rm. I just can't believe it and suddenly it makes sense. Why would a thief put his images on a website. And I do need to write the real person and tell him that his images are being used. I am literally blown away. Thank you all I'll check messages in a day or two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Client1985 Posted May 19, 2023 Share Posted May 19, 2023 (edited) I'd like to offer this.... leave this in the past, look forward. I've spent many days/hours going over an unfavorable situation. Got me no where other than deminishing my self esteem. It sucks that kind of person exists but that's on him. There are other equally attractive guys in the business that are ligit, caring, and uplifting. Edited May 19, 2023 by Client1985 Tactile Daddy, SouthOfTheBorder and + ButchAtl 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauderdaleLawyer Posted May 19, 2023 Share Posted May 19, 2023 I’ve never seen him on in Lauderdale. It looks like he’s in West Palm. Is that where ya’ll met? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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