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Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - MikeAustin: Superior TOP in Hell’s Kitchen or for Travel

 

Don't let his size fool you.  Just explain you're new to this and he will be patient and make it pleasant.  He did for my first time.

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I have a couple of recommendations but also a few general notes from a lifelong bottom. 

  • Older guys (35 and up) tend to be more experienced and more patient
  • If you don't have toys, get them and start playing. Start small and use all the lube. 
  • Bottoms always need more lube than most tops think we do, and creamier lube, whether silicone or water-based, will feel better
  • With an escort, it's your time. Be very open about your experience and what you want, and do your best to relax. 
  • If you're going to douche, finish that up at least 2 hours before you plan to play. If I do it closer than that, I find that I'm more sensitive. 

Okay, here are my guys: 

Jonah Wheeler - He's more average-sized in the dick department but is amazing in bed. He's vers, so I think he appreciates what bottoming is like. He's also a fun, sensual, and all-around great lay. 

Nick Halden - He does a massage, fucking combo that is really sensual, relaxing and very pleasurable. Also, more of an average penis size and also vers. 

NYWolfman - He's a bit older and has a big thick dick. But he is there to please the bottom. I suspect he's similar to Mike Austin in that way. He knows what he's doing, and your pleasure is his priority. 

Happy bottoming! 

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20 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I have a couple of recommendations but also a few general notes from a lifelong bottom. 

  • Older guys (35 and up) tend to be more experienced and more patient
  • If you don't have toys, get them and start playing. Start small and use all the lube. 
  • Bottoms always need more lube than most tops think we do, and creamier lube, whether silicone or water-based, will feel better
  • With an escort, it's your time. Be very open about your experience and what you want, and do your best to relax. 
  • If you're going to douche, finish that up at least 2 hours before you plan to play. If I do it closer than that, I find that I'm more sensitive. 

Okay, here are my guys: 

Jonah Wheeler - He's more average-sized in the dick department but is amazing in bed. He's vers, so I think he appreciates what bottoming is like. He's also a fun, sensual, and all-around great lay. 

Nick Halden - He does a massage, fucking combo that is really sensual, relaxing and very pleasurable. Also, more of an average penis size and also vers. 

NYWolfman - He's a bit older and has a big thick dick. But he is there to please the bottom. I suspect he's similar to Mike Austin in that way. He knows what he's doing, and your pleasure is his priority. 

Happy bottoming! 

In addition to what KensingtonHomo wrote, I'd advise that you use your fingers to begin loosening yourself.  Begin with two fingers--play around--then use all of them plus your thumb.

Also, remember to give yourself a good dousing at least two hours prior to play.

Lastly, I went to the websites of J. Wheeler, Nick Halden, and NY Wolfman, and from the three, my choice would have to be the latter.  One of his vids had me getting hard w/o my touching myself, for I would have loved to have been the bottom who was receiving his pleasure.

 [I love receiving a nice-sized cut or uncut cock while lying on my back; that's when the top can really reach all points of your "tight Chunnel."]

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  • 2 weeks later...

man.....before, for me bottoming, it always was a pain in the BUTT ....🤣......until.....

 I discovered that if:

1-I "inject" a little water based lube into my hole.

2- I get topped first lying on my left side,

3-sniff some poppers........

The "thing" goes all the way in with almost no pain.....a little pain at the beginning, and then.......woof, what a pleasure!!!.....no dick feels big enough at that moment!!!!.....

I love squeezing them at this point as hard as I want and when I want.

now the top can breed me in any position he wants until he shoots his "babies" all the way in!!!!

But big thick dicks....not good for me.....maybe I will try again following these rules.

but interestingly, some small and thin cocks hurt me more than thicker, bigger ones.

Maybe it depends on the shape of the guy's cock?....the curvature? the cockhead shape? on the mutual attraction or chemistry?.....or the top guy's fuck "style"???

A lot of variables here LOL....😄!!!!

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I've never been with this guy, but I would be drawn to him especially for a first-time outing. I agree with the advice above about older guys and lube.
 

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