Repeat customer rates?

[Guest Havan_IronOak]

In my many years of seeing guys in NYC I have had several guys tell me at parting that they had a good time and that if I call them again it will be cheaper. However I am a big fan of variety (OK I'm a dog) and haven't ever done much repeat business with the same guy.

 

Now that I'm living in a smaller town I have started seeing the same guys more than once. So far none of them has mentioned any kind of reduced rate for return engagements.

 

Now, I'm NOT haggling about prices and I AM paying the rate we established at the beginning but honestly, when the decision is between seeing someone new and someone I've seen before the rates do factor into the decision.

 

What's the proper ettiquette for inquiring about rates for return engagements?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Just ask

 

The worst that someone can say is 'no' and usually if you're a repeat client (and a good one at that), i'd think an escort would be more than willing to cut you a deal. Guys that i see more than a couple times a month definitely get a discount and it's something i discuss with them beforehand to make sure they understand why.

 

Understand that if you cut down on seeing a particular escort who's giving you a break, you'll most likely end up back at normal rate. With everything in this industry, just make sure to keep the lines of communication open. That's most important.

 

 

BN

[JT Brooklyn]

"More Than a couple Times a Month"! They better get a Discount or they really aren't very Smart..

 

Neither would the Working Guy be, in the Long Run! Variety is the Spice of Life, Especially in the Larger Markets!

 

They are Moving Up from "Client to Sugar Daddy" Status hooking up more than Once a Month with the SAME Guy to begin with! LOL

 

:P

[+ purplekow]

I have to disagree with those opting strictly for a wide variety of guys. While the anticipation of a new partner is exciting, someone with whom you have been, can find those particular spots that need coaxing without instruction or fumbling. Since I am fairly imaginative, I don't find myself falling into a rut of sameness even with frequent rehiring. I feel like I know the guys I hire and like them and that they are dependable and know how to deliver the goods. One escort (now passed on) I hired regularly was able to make me come by kissing my neck in just the right spot without any other touching. The first time he did it, I was amazed and when I asked him how he did it, he told me that he had seen me react time and time again to being kissed right there and he just decided to see if the reaction ever wore out. Turns out my self control gave out before the neck did.

Another benefit of having a regular guy, occasionally my libido is high but the bank account is low. And similar to Wimpy in the Popeye cartoons, I was able to say: "I will gladly pay you Tuesday for an orgasm today".

[JT Brooklyn]

purplekow.. IMHO. There are those who CONNECT above the waist, and there are those who only CONNECT below the waist. That's where Variety comes into Play, for alot of Guy's..

 

Some "Working Guy's" are not really Repeat Customer Types, Believe it or not. Some don't do Overnite's for that reason also. Or IF they do, they don't do them very well, after the Sex Rounds are Over! LOL :P

[2hard2tame]

Well, imo and exp...

75% of my work is repeat clients. I prefer those as to new dates. Quality over quantity any day for me.

As said above, getting to know some one well enough requires at least 3 dates. By that point, if you dont know how to give max happiness, you might as well quit. Another good thing, is that you can rely on XX amount per month.

 

 

The cons.

 

well, again in my experience, long time repeat clients can become not so good if you are not careful. Sometimes people tend to become attached and expectations change. No longer is it a professional agreement, it becomes personal. as I said, expectations change. People can assume things change over time. Bluntly, clients can make the mistake of thinking that they should get free time and negate the original deal. I have lost more than a few long time friends because of this reason. Friendships get in the way. At that point, I just suggest the person finding another service provider and if wanted, suggestions on who.

 

 

But, thankfully more often than not, things tend to stay honest and fair. I work hard at satisfaction and pleasing my friends on dates.

[Guest Havan_IronOak]

>Some "Working Guy's" are not really Repeat Customer Types,

 

 

I think that goes for "clients" as well, (there's a reason its called wanderlust) but really its a matter of chemistry. I have met a few guys over the years where we clicked and I've asked for repeat engagements.

 

However as a rule I find variety very appealing. A big part of the appeal for me is meeting someone new.

[+ purplekow]

>>Some "Working Guy's" are not really Repeat Customer Types,

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>I think that goes for "clients" as well, (there's a reason its

>called wanderlust) but really its a matter of chemistry. I

>have met a few guys over the years where we clicked and I've

>asked for repeat engagements.

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>However as a rule I find variety very appealing. A big part of

>the appeal for me is meeting someone new.

 

 

Clearly a different strokes for different folks discussion here. For me, sometimes, like Christmas, i enjoy opening up a tightly wrapped new present and learning how to play with the new toy but a lot of the time, i just want something fast and easy and familar and sure to satisfy.

 

As far as expectations go, I don't expect anything with regard to an agreed upon price. I would never say no to frequent flyer benefits but I never play that card myself.

[2hard2tame]

Key word. "tight"

 

*smirk

[JT Brooklyn]

2Hard..Well said..Sometimes Client's can definitely become Too Attached and Expectations do change. That's a Fine Line, only the "Experienced and Mature Working" Guy's know how to walk, having HAD TO walk it several time's in their Career's.....

 

Unfortunately some Client's being just that A CLIENT, do not realize just what the situation is becoming, in THEIR minds. This is where the "Variety" Type's are ahead, NO Attachments Period. IMHO of course.. :P

[Guest manrent1]

I love BOTH - the repeats and the wanderlust.

 

I have a guy here in Boston that I see probably once a week at least - we also travel together sometime.

 

I pay him once a month and that covers our appointments for the month.

 

We agreed on a monthly rate and it's worked well for both of us.

[JT Brooklyn]

man...Deep Pockets must be Great! LOL :P

[Guest manrent1]

Hey JT - I find for me the deep pockets aren't the issue - it's finding the right quality escort to use them on!!

 

The guy I have here in Boston is the cream of the crop so to speak! Former Gaiety dancer that has it all.

[+ Tygerscent]

Ya.... there is a fine line here. I have repeat Clients that I will on occassion give a free session to... That is our own personal time free from business and time to show my appreciation for them without the business implication to show them I appreciate them as a person and concetrate on just the two of us as Valued Human Beings. I will have the occassional instance where a Client will meet with me a few times then call to meet again and just before meeting or at the door say.... "This is free time now right because we are Friends?" Sometimes this might happen in mutliplicity where I have already given a free session to another Client or had a longtime Client at a Granfathered rate when I was charging less.... suddenly I am wondering how to pay my bills.

Trips over seas or even continental, investing personally into a future after Escorting, (we all move on eventually), holidays where Clients are not interested in hiring... These are all factors in real life.

Sometimes Clients may not take into consideration that this is how some of us pay our bills and afford a living. They may request birthday, holiday, repeat client discounts and not take into consideration that the Escort is trying to afford a living and that other Clients may be requesting the same discounts. It's not a judgement on anyone but factors in Life and aspects of the business. My best Clients are the ones who understand that I am not exclusive to them, that I have to provide myself a living, respect my time and I am Always generous with that. I have already had instances where a Client will feel disgruntled that I do not call them daily or get angry wondering that I may be with another Client. This happens! I am just being Honest here.

It's a two way consideration... Respect and Consideration for both Client and Escort. An Escort should provide outstanding and fair service and the Client should understand that the Escort IS an Escort, not exclusive, trying to earn a living, can not offer discounts at any desired moment every time, has other committments that may extend beyond Escorting, (like cleaning the house, paying bills, traveling, lack of access to email or cell in some areas, with another Client, other career considerations, showering, recharging). That is not saying that the Escort is heartless or inconsiderate but that we are two Human beings who have the similar needs of paying attention to bills and Family etc... It is wrong to objectify each other as sexual "things" though I can understand where the industry, being based on such Intimacy, can lead to the relaxed sense allowing such objectification and exaggerated expectations.

Communication is Paramount but also a bit of Honest personal understanding... your personal Honesty with yourself about any given situation.

On the other hand, as I write this, I understand that this is in part simply idiology. The world is not different and people are in different places in their lives. Ther will, most likely, always be Escorts and Clients with unrealistic or exaggerated expectations. It is the Escort's obligation and goal to know how to handle the situations appropriately and with kindness, compassion, understanding and discretion. We are Human beings, not perfect and capable of learning and teaching. Growth and a mutually rewarding experience is the bottom line. We are sharing parts of our lives together and this is not to be taken lightly.

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[Guest manrent1]

Tygerscent - excellent respone - interesting and right on in my opinion.

[+ Tygerscent]

Gotcha... have to keep in perspective that other people hav a very wide variety of thought processes going on... so, take as many into consideration, one at a time, as is appropriate. P.S. Christmas unwrapping can be loads of fun... pun intended~ but A personal intent to share equally, mutually on levels that opportune ongoing interest and personal fulfillment can last a lifetime... just a consideration.... perhaps not your suit but beneficial for others perhaps.

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