Breath Control

[Guest PeterJ]

I see that several escorts now include breath control amongst the services they provide. Please could some kind escort explain what is involved, and how this is done

[Luv2play]

I don't think you want to go there. A friend of mine did and he's dead now. x(

[Guest PeterJ]

I appreciate what you say. I was not planning to experience it, but I would still be really interested to know how escorts operate breath control. There are several experienced escorts who provide this service, and I would really love to hear about the methods that are used. Is a mask always used, or is it done by closing the nose and mouth? Do tell me.

[JT Brooklyn]

Peter. IMHO Your best bet..Contact someone who allegedly does this!

 

Personally, "Not Breathing" With or without Help, usually means One Thing! That you don't need an explanation for!

 

IMHO of course...

 

:P

[Juan Vancouver]

There's breath control... and there's breath control.

 

Peter,

 

This is a very interesting subject, in my opinion. And I am glad that you asked. Even if I do not advertise breath control, nor would be tempted to do it with a client, I have quite a bit of experience with it.

 

There are several types of breath control, and while some of them are very dangerous, some are totally harmless.

 

For purposes of explaining them beter I am going to attempt to name the two different types, although I don't know if in the sub-world of breath control they are called that. In my opinion the two types of breath control are the restrictive, and the controlling.

 

The restrictive type is as the name might suggest, finding different ways to restrict the passage of air into the lungs, creating different levels of asphixia. From self-asphixiation, to the Master sitting on your face blocking with his body all air passage, this is the type that you might want to stay away from. Many people go as far as trying to go unconscious and come back. Some can't come back and are not among us to explain their experience. -"Children, don't try this at home!"- My take is that no matter how good this might feel, if this is the last thing I might feel in my life, it is simply not worth it.

 

The second kind, and the type that I was introduced to without knowing anything about, is the pure controlling type. The goal of it is achieving total submission of the controlee, by allowing the Master to direct the rythm, depth and quality of air flow into the lungs. Also, when performed skilfully a mild form of hyperventillation happens, that becomes a very intense high that many compare with a drug high, created only by breathing. (Daunting, isn't it?)

 

There are many ways in which the Master can control the Submissive's air flow. The easiest one is to have the Master covering the nostrils, and then putting his mouth on the Sub's mouth, he starts to breath into the Sub. He decides when to breath in and out, he decides when to get new fresh air from his own nose, without ever allowing the Sub to breath on his own. It takes only trust from the Sub, and relaxation. If the sub doesn't fully allow the Dom to breath for him, nothing will happen. But if he does, the sensation will be really difficult to explain.

 

The first time that I stumbled upon breath control was with a gorgeous guy that I knew was into leather and all that. We were in the middle of a very torrid session when he started kissing me really deep and passionately. All of a sudden, -just by kissing and touching bodies!- I started feeling how a strong orgasm was approaching. I couldn't understand what was going on. (I mean he was a superb lover and really hot... but an orgasm by kissing?!) I became aware that we were breathing in perfect unison, almost as if we were connected... and then the dry orgasm came.... and came... and came.... It might have lasted for 5 minutes. (Well, perhaps 2 or 3.) My legs were totally weak, my body was convulsing, until I finally broke the kiss and tried to come back to planet earth, which took me a few minutes. When I looked at him and he was just holding me, smiling, all I could think of was finding out what the hell he had done to me.

 

It was really simple; in the middle of a kiss he managed to cover my nose with his hand, and started breathing for me. I am very acommodating, and love to get in-synch with my lovers, so the rest was easy.

 

I was hooked.

 

That night all we did was breath control, and I couldn't believe what the body can feel just by sharing the most precious source of sustenance. And the dry and real orgasms are the most intense. Ever.

 

My only recommendation is to try it only with someone who really knows what he is doing. Otherwise, you are going to get bored, irritated and are going to think that it does nothing for you. Also, if someone tries to convince you that if breathing feels good, not breathing feels better... run. Run as fast as you can. Not breathing is simply too risky.

 

Be careful, Good luck, and happy breathing!

[Guest PeterJ]

RE: There's breath control... and there's breath control.

 

Hey. Many thanks for your full explanation. I am sure that the system of controlled breathing, is also a situation when it is the feeling of being controlled, that is the turn-on, as much as the actual activity itself.

[Guest zipperzone]

RE: There's breath control... and there's breath control.

 

For my money I;ll just stick to plain old fashioned sex, thank you very much. You know what I mean - fucking - sucking - rimming!

[Guest bernardff]

RE: There's breath control... and there's breath control.

 

Good on you Juan

information

not opinion

thanks for sharing your experience

Bern

[Rick Munroe]

There is another form of breath control: Derek loves to jam his cock down a guy's throat and make him keep it there, telling him to relax and keep breathing while Derek holds his head all the way down on his cock. That's how I learned how to deep throat. }(