Whadda ya think, professionals?

[stevekorgman]

I'll try to make this brief - I hired a well-known, experienced escort in Indy recently. He only does outcalls - I emailed him and asked to recommend a hotel NEAR his residence for HIS convenience (about 25 miles from where I live). We exchanged emails, confirmed the date, time and location. Even the morning of the date, I sent him an email and he replied confirming once more. The date was set for noon - I arrived at the hotel at 11:15 and checked in. He appears to be a GQ kind of guy, intelligent, well-bred; he had told me previously that he liked Corona Light. So I brought a 6-pack of beer on ice, some pretzels/chips, some lightly scented candles, a small stereo with HIS favorite artist on CD. I normally don't do this, but what the hell, I enjoy a nice environment as well. So the room is set, I'm freshly showered, the music is playing, etc. I told him I would call him about 11:45 with the room number. About 11:40, my cell rings - I say hello - he says, "This is Jim (made-up name) I can't make it - don't check in." And he hangs up. What the ...? I immediately call back. Goes to his voice mail. I say something like, hey, things happen at the last minute, I understand, yada yada, call me back, we'll postpone - I have the room for all day/night. I wait. No response. I wait. I call back in 20 minutes - voice mail again. I repeat the message, and this time, I'm slightly firmer in telling him that I'm a business guy, too, and I understand that emergencies happen (still giving him the benefit) and please call me - or email me (I had my laptop with me). An hour goes by. Nothing. I call back and leave another message - that I'm gonna kill a couple hours at a movie and I'll call back around 5 pm. I call back at 5, voice mail again. And no email. I give up, and check out. I am out $75 plus the snacks (by now I've had a few of MY beers). Since then, no email, no phone messages, nothing. And this dude continues to advertise on M4RN - he advertises specials almost daily, and the text makes out like he's the best ever, and how WELL he treats his clients. Yeah, right. So, guys, where did I screw up? The hell of it all is that I'd love to hire him, but my guess is that once he realizes "who" I am, and that he stood me up, he'd probably do it again. Thoughts? Thanks.

[+ ArVaGuy]

As a client, I would say be glad you are only out $75.00.

 

Having had a similar experience where a guy I hired did not show at the appointed time, I called him and learned he "fell asleep on the couch". Then he embellishes the story a bit more and says he's on his way. My inclination was to tell him not to bother but the little head was doing more of the thinking at the time.

 

The guy shows up and he's nothing like the pics on M4Rent. This wound up being one of the worst experiences I ever had in hiring. I consider it a lesson learned and won't make the same mistake in similar circumstance again.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Steve,

 

Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I can imagine how you might feel really upset about this.

 

I don't know how busy is the escort scene in your area, but may I ask why is it that you are still thinking of meeting with an escort who stood you up, didn't take your calls and refused to give any kind of answer or explanation?

 

In my personal experience, with the young, inexperienced escorts in my area, whenever an escort advertises "specials" almost everyday it can only mean two things: That he is not as busy as he might want, or that he will try to pack as many clients in a day as he can, neglecting the quality of his service.

 

In this particular case, it is pretty easy to imagine what's the case.

 

Besides, do you really want to be intimate, and close, and sexual with a guy with whom you are angry? I would find it really difficult to enjoy myself in that situation.

 

I know that sometimes it is hard to give up a fantasy with a specific person, (hell, I still obsess about hiring this or that escort), but the only thing that sounds sane in my mind, is to move on, count your losses, do better research and make sure that your next experience is more fulfilling, respectful and fun.

 

Happy hiring!

[stevekorgman]

Juan, excellent reply and advice. In my area as of today, there are 5 pages worth of escorts on M4RN - I guess my reasons for considering hiring him again are simple: he's hot, he's rea$onable and he has had great reviews Hoo-Boy. But your advice is right on target; I will not yield to lust; I will not, no sir, I ain't a-gonna' do it ... sigh

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..IF the Opportunity still exists, REVIEW him as a "No Show"..

 

This "Fantasy" is never going to be a "Fun Reality" The way he seems to do Biz!

 

Move On Fast, the sooner you Hookup with someone else, the better for you.

 

It's Your Dime, Plenty of Guy's HAVE THE TIME! :P

[Guest skrubber]

Excellent reply Juan.

 

Recently I have been stood up by an escort I previously hired three times in a row. Once he was in NYC and forgot, the next two times he had problems getting a ride. Extremely hot young man but if he ever calls me again I'm afraid I'll have to deny him and I was not out any money.

[soccerjock624]

Honestly, being an escort, i dont get have many clients and I know what it feels like to be stood up by a client, so i try and be as poilite and honest about anything that might come up. I mean in all honesty a simple phone call of a minute or two isnt going to waste anyones time, especially if they planned their day around it.

[Guest Adono]

You would be doing us a service if you named this no-show. Either write a no-show review or just here in the forum.

[stevekorgman]

I sent a very detailed "no show" review before the Hoo-Boy site died - a day after the incident; it was never published. I re-sent it in late July, again, not published. If someone will tell me what the protocol is for identifying this "fine" gentleman, I'll be glad to post it. Geez, even today he is STILL advertising. Grrrrrr ...

[Funseeker 22]

>I sent a very detailed "no show" review before the Hoo-Boy

>site died - a day after the incident; it was never published.

>I re-sent it in late July, again, not published. If someone

>will tell me what the protocol is for identifying this "fine"

>gentleman, I'll be glad to post it. Geez, even today he is

>STILL advertising. Grrrrrr ...

 

You could add his name to this thread.

[stevekorgman]

His "stage name" is Matt Kincaid (reviewed in the Indiana section here) - goes also by "fratstud4all" on M4RN

[Brok Austin]

Thats what you get for not hiring Brok Austin. I am familiar with several of the Indy circusscort clowns and i think this stunt has been pulled with several other clients that i,personally have heard from. Dont feel like you have been victimized or singled out. This seems to be the attitude and practice of several of Indys escorts They usually have some undesireable adictions that alter brain and penis functions . Good luck in your future selections.

[Brok Austin]

by the way Dont think for a moment those escorts on the review site are not having friends write the reviews or they themselves do it on a friends computer.

[Brok Austin]

Dont bother posting a review on M4RNow The escorts have the option of deleting reviews every 30 days. it doesnt seem to serve any purpose. Brok

[Reed]

I had the same experience with this escort some time ago and I submitted a "no show" review. I've been amazed at the glowing reviews that this guy has had. He apparently is inconsistent in his reliability...if his reviews can be believed.

[KY_TOP]

>His "stage name" is Matt Kincaid (reviewed in the Indiana

>section here) - goes also by "fratstud4all" on M4RN

 

I was stood up by the same guy over a year ago. I've also heard from a couple of people that have told me they also got stood up by him. I've never tried to hire him again even though I am in Indy very often. I think no-show reviews aren't posted anymore??? If he doesn't he should reconsider on this guy who has a habit of it.

[twinkboylover28]

The worst is when you drive over 2 hours (one way) and it's a no-show.

 

Once, I bought these very expensive (front row) concert tix at $800/pair and it was a no show.

 

I feel for you.

[rickyricardo]

And this dude continues to

>advertise on M4RN - he advertises specials almost daily, and

>the text makes out like he's the best ever, and how WELL he

>treats his clients. Yeah, right. So, guys, where did I screw

>up? The hell of it all is that I'd love to hire him, but my

>guess is that once he realizes "who" I am, and that he stood

>me up, he'd probably do it again. Thoughts? Thanks.

 

 

OMG... sir.. "you didn't screw up anywhere" the only thing I could say is you called him way too many times after he gave you such a discrespectful cancellation. Yes I say 'RESPECT" it goes both ways. I don't care what happens, you can call or email the person with a decent cancelation,try to do it well in advance. Now if something happens all of assuden an emergency, You still can say "hey i had a dire emergency have to cancel, I apologize but i will get back with you when I can". You dont' have to give all the details, at that point you find out if the client got a hotel which he lost out on the money to see you, you should try to reschedule if he is interested and take the $75 off your fee to meet him. This would at least show you are a real professional. I always say there tons of guys in this business , not all are truly professional do not have work ethics. But "RESPECT" is something everyone should have, an this guys technique in my opinion is lack of respect.

 

Ricardo "Ricky" Milos

http://85.158.9.33/newphotos/28/53/2897053_850590.jpg

[Rick Munroe]

Ricardo, were you able to stand up without having the leather chair attached to your body? That pic reminds me of one sticky Brooklyn summer when I was a kid where I almost had to be surgically removed from my grandmother's plastic-covered sofa.

 

http://www.laurencemillergallery.com/images/krims_exhibition4.jpg

 

(That's photographer Les Krims's naked Jewish mother on her plastic-covered sofa in Brooklyn in the 60's...before my time but it looks just like my grandmother...except Grandma had nicer tits.)

[Guest RandyRon]

>Ricardo, were you able to stand up without having the leather

>chair attached to your body? That pic reminds me of one

>sticky Brooklyn summer when I was a kid where I almost had to

>be surgically removed from my grandmother's plastic-covered

>sofa.

>

You think plastic covered sofas are bad? My mother had a sofa upholstered in some sort of nylon that acted like Velcro. If you sat on it nude, it latched on to all the hairs on your ass/legs and ripped them loose when you stood up. Rick, you and Derek both would have had to go to the emergency room for treatment. :+ :+

[+ deej]

My family never had plastic-covered furniture. I think Mom learned from the seat covers she insisted on when they bought a car.

 

As uncomfortable as they were in the summer, they became as hard as concrete in winter and then they'd crack. Then they were uncomfortable AND had lethal sharp edges. :o