OUCH OUCH OUCH OUCH OUCH

[Seven]

Okay.. help is needed, please.

 

Does anyone know of a product (over-the-counter) that can be appplied to nipples that would make them less sensitive, to say---a client who likes to bite a bit too hard?

 

Inquiring minds would like to know before scheduling again.

 

 

Seven

 

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[ted]

I would suggest you open your mouth - assuming it isn't otherwise occupied, and if it is momentarily stop - and say something like - lighten up a bit with the teeth, and then proceed with whatever you both were doing. Usually works wonders unless you(or he) is into S&M, and even then most people will respect the others wishes. Communication goes both ways.

[whipped guy]

As a person who gets involved with pain in a variety of situations I could not agree more with Anton and Ted.

 

The classic medical example of what Anton alludes to would involve the patient who takes anti-inflammatory agents (be they steroidal or non-steroidal) to relive pain from medical conditions such as a pulled muscle, bursitis, tendonitis, etc. Frequently the patient is misinformed into believing that the situation is cured when it is only most likely being masked. Very often the result is over exertion and further injury to an already compromised situation. As Anton rightfully states there are exceptions to every rule and no more so than in the field of medicine. At times anti-inflammatory agents can actually help heal a situation, but very often the effect is simply one of camouflaging the condition. Consequently, it is very important to listen to what your body is trying to tell you.

 

Still, to answer your original question, an OTC topical numbing agent very often containing benzocaine or lidocaine (found in certain shaving creams, LMX4, dibucaine, nupercainal, dentocaine, anbesol, etc.) would probably achieve the results you wanted… However, you would not want to do anything that would either result in any type of injury or place yourself in a situation that would cause bleeding which could have catastrophic results.

 

Still, as Ted noted, communication in such situations is the best solution for a successful encounter.

 

Remember to always play safely and sanely.

[Rick Munroe]

"Watch the teeth" or "Go easy on that," coupled with a smile and a friendly pat on the head ought to do the trick. ;-)

[whipped guy]

Actually the use of “safe words” might be another alternative so as not to disturb the mood and flow of the scene.

 

For example, if the client gets a bit too aggressive you might work it out in advance that the key word is “cherry”… that by saying something like, “That’s making my nips feel cherry red… Oh Yeah! It feels so good” would actually mean to back off and cool it. Conversely, when the guy finds your comfort zone you may work it out by saying another word such as “chew” in which case you might say, “Yeah! Chew those tits! Get tough! Chew!” that would signal that he is right on target and can continue at that level.

 

It’s really a physiological game but more importantly is all about mutual respect… a definite two way street.

[whipped guy]

Re: It’s really a physiological game...

 

In the above post I obviously meant “psychological game” as opposed to “physiological”… my brain and the two fingers I type with are not always in synch!

[Seven]

Oh, I totally agree about the communication---I should have (and will, next time) been clear about what feels good and what doesn't.

 

Seven

 

 

 

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[JakeSamers]

A buddy of mine was having trouble with his scrotum being to sensative (yeah it sounds stupid... don't laugh). His doctor gave him a cream that when used over time reduces sensativity. The only problem is while you are aplying the treatment it is painful. The cream has a chemical in it that slowly fries the "feelers" on the surface of the skin.

 

 

http://home.earthlink.net/~jakesamers-m4m

[bigguyinpasadena]

just slapem hard upside the head and say"maybe your mama likes that sort of thing but I sure don't"works every time!

[Seven]

My thoughts exactly.

 

Then they can use the pain reliever.

 

 

 

Seven

 

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