Text/Phone

[boinllanview]

So I communicated via text with a visiting escort earlier to secure  date and time and asking when we can speak on the phone as I had already left a few voicemails.His response was he does not do calls as he thinks it takes away from any client he may be seeing at that time as well as his 9-5 job.Now keep in mind that he is a very well reviewed provider whom I have seen on prior occasions and we have spoken on the phone b4 as well.I frankly don't care for the constant texting back and forth and would much prefer having a 5 or 7 minute conversation and it honestly has pissed d me off.I have actually not reached out to several quality providers because they stress in their ad "text only no calls".So my question is am I making  too much out of this or should I move on if he chooses not to speak on the phone.Thanks for your input  guys

[DWnyc]

The question is what are you seeking from the phone call especially if 5-7 mins - that’s a long time! - 7% of an hourly session! A provider would likely say I can answer whatever questions he has in a few texts and if there’s more he’s too much work!

See the discussions constantly on here with providers complaining that even a couple of texts back and forth with potential clients drive them Nuts when added up over the day. 

While I’ve met a couple of providers who actually insist on a call before meeting (likely to “sound me out” for temperament) I’ve found most express a strong preference for text which has always made sense to me - for efficiency and discretion. 

Culturally I think we have moved away from calls to texts in most admin comms and I’d say good luck finding providers willing to invest the 5-7 mins you think it will take. 

 

[Jamie21]

Texts can be answered when you have time, and discreetly if in company. Calls (unless a time for them is planned) are often made when you can’t answer because you’re with someone or in the middle of something and you can’t speak openly.

 I prefer my clients text or message me on WhatsApp. If they want a call it needs to be pre-arranged so I can take it somewhere quiet. Also I’ve found that clients who want to call sometimes are just looking for sex chat. They deny it but then ask questions like “what will you do to me?” etc. I have to say that I don’t do sex chat calls. This is why most guys prefer arrangements to be made by text.