411 on Dennymass in LA

[Exploritor]

https://rentmasseur.com/Dennymass

Reasonably starts at 120.  Any info?

[Exploritor]

89 views, but no one has tried him? 

Other names he may have used?

[Exploritor]

Bit the bullet.  I texted him I saw him on RM, he asked if I wanted in or out call.  I said "in". In call was done at a medical facility, complete with new client form that asks for a lot of your info, which I would've rather avoided.  It asked how I found him, but I did NOT mention RM there.  He did say to get comfortable under the sheet, and then he'd come back to discuss my "wants and desires".  That sounded good, but I didn't bite, considering the setting.  It was entirely therapeutic, but that could be my fault, because I treated the place professionally, as it was presented.***  It was an excellent massage, and he found issues that I knew about, but didn't report to him.

When I was paying, I asked the difference between his in call and out call massages.  He said that he would text me later, and then went into a very professional detailing of what he found and worked.  Looking forward to his text.  Either way, I'd definitely see him again for therapeutic.

 

*** I did feel mildly bait-and-switched, considering i found him on RM, and it says that he offers therapeutic and erotic.  That could totally be on me, because I didn't give any signals that I wanted anything other than therapeutic.  See my thoughts on this: 

 

[RubMyThighs]

Sounds like bait and switch to me. 

[MassageConneisseur]

I just texted with him and was very specific about what I was looking for: erotic, undraped and both of us undressed, my release. He texted back that he only does therapeutic/sensual. I asked him what his sensual massage included and he didn’t get back to me. So I assume nothing particularly “fun” happens. 

[MassageConneisseur]

I went ahead and tried Denis and he gave a great therapeutic massage. He did not insist that I be draped, so I went full commando. 90+ minutes. He touched/rubbed me everywhere except my genitals and was very clear about his boundaries - at least for the first session. I’m fairly sure if I book him again there’s a good chance of a more interactive experience. He’s cute and sweet, and an excellent masseur, so there’s a high probability there will be another opportunity for us to get friendlier 😉

[TracerMain]

7 hours ago, MassageConneisseur said:

I went ahead and tried Denis and he gave a great therapeutic massage. He did not insist that I be draped, so I went full commando. 90+ minutes. He touched/rubbed me everywhere except my genitals and was very clear about his boundaries - at least for the first session. I’m fairly sure if I book him again there’s a good chance of a more interactive experience. He’s cute and sweet, and an excellent masseur, so there’s a high probability there will be another opportunity for us to get friendlier 😉

Ugh it’s always the tease. The more they tease and the give some hopes that there could be more opportunity than just the massage, the more we plan on going back to them for repeat business. 🤪

Did you get baited-and-switched set up too, as someone shared here a while ago?

[MassageConneisseur]

@TracerMain he was very clear about his boundaries, so I didn’t feel bait-and-switched at all. I’ll pm you with a few more details. 

[Exploritor]

16 hours ago, TracerMain said:

Ugh it’s always the tease. The more they tease and the give some hopes that there could be more opportunity than just the massage, the more we plan on going back to them for repeat business. 🤪

Did you get baited-and-switched set up too, as someone shared here a while ago?

That was me, and I was more asking if it was.  The only real "switch" for me, was that in my own mind, I expected an "in" call to be at his place, but it was at a spa, which he was very clear about, when I booked.

EDIT:  I should also add, that he never misleads someone's hopes.  He's very clear in his communications that he's strictly therapeutic.

Edited April 27, 2023 by Exploritor

[Westcoaster]

Wow, 90 minutes is $250 according to his masseurfinder ad:

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45174/

for therapeutic only?  Yikes  

 

thanks for taking one for the team. So glad I didn’t pursue this one  

sam

 

 

[Exploritor]

My experience was confusing.  He's now 170 in/220 out, for 60mins, on his page.

When I first met him, "in" was at a clinic, and was 120.  Therapeutic, excellent, tipped 40.  Second time was at my place (I have a table, so he just had to show up with oil), for the same 120, and I tried to tip 60, but he said it was too much, and gave me back 20.  Third time, I handed over 160, and he made a comment.  I said, the first time, he told me it was too much, so I gave him the same amount as last time, and he just said, "Hmm, old price... 'sOK, 'sOK, no problem."  He never told me there was a new price, so I didn't feel TOO bad about it.  How would I know there was a change?  Not sure how many more times I saw him.

While there was some vaguely progressive teasing, all were therapeutic, with the last time going the farthest, and him taking me right up to being blueb*lled, without specifically touching anywhere too graphic, and saying, "Okey, good.", and going to wash his hands.

Again, the therapeutic is incredible, but I'm not sure what he considers "sensual" and who he's willing to do it for.  Also, his Grindr went off once, so it's not because he's straight, and he very clearly hinted that he wasn't.

Edited November 2, 2024 by Exploritor

[starman05]

No matter how physically fantastic a massage may feel, it’s not worth it if there are even the most subtle mind games over extras, established fees etc.

Part of the service I like to pay for is unwinding in a safe environment. 
 

the last thing I want to feel when I leave an appointment is that the provider feels offended or was purposely messing with my head 

 

[Pittlookalike]

4 hours ago, starman05 said:

No matter how physically fantastic a massage may feel, it’s not worth it if there are even the most subtle mind games over extras, established fees etc.

Part of the service I like to pay for is unwinding in a safe environment. 
 

the last thing I want to feel when I leave an appointment is that the provider feels offended or was purposely messing with my head 

 

concur