what to say to an escort if anything ?

OceanTraveller · October 4, 2005

I just entertained an escort here at my home . He is extremely well reviewed on this site . When we went to bed and started to play around... I was turned off by a smell coming from "down there." He had not showered when he got to my place and had been traveling since early morning .He actually never showered the entire weekend and I had bought him some clinique supplies to use. This was very surprising to me given the good reviews. What if anything should I have said to him ? If I have him back what should I say . I don't want to offend , but this taints the experience for me .

Okliehomo · October 4, 2005

Since my main deal is rimming....and all the boys know that before they get here...I always ask them if they are going to shower before we get started. If they would say no (and no one ever has) then I would probably say, are you sure? You've been travelling all day???

Can't imagine someday not wanting to shower the whole weekend..

Email me privately...so I can avoid that issue. Please.

Okie

October 4, 2005

You should DEFINITELY say something! I always shower at my place

before I head out to see a client, so it has never been an issue

with me, but I would not be at all offended if someone emailed me

before the meeting and asked me arrive "freshly showered." In fact,

one guy that I had never been with before did just that - he simply

said he had a thing about guys being REALLY clean, and could I

please take a shower right before I came over - so I was spotless.

Nothing wrong with telling someone that it is important to ya!

Or, if you feel strange talking about it (like he might be offended)

then start to work the shower into the foreplay. I personally love

scrubbing a guy down in the shower, knowing that my mouth is about to

go all the places that my hands are exploring. That way you can

have fun AND make sure he is germ-free

Hope this helps!

Eric

October 4, 2005

Unpleasant body odors are such a turn-off, during sex. Guys should have enough brains as well as consideration to be nice and clean before getting naked, but sometimes they don't. :-(

Another thing that bugs me is guys that smoke just before play. Even a mint doesn't always do the trick. Then there are guys (a surprising number) that have halitosis, perhaps from poor oral hygiene. That's a real moment-killer

augustman · October 4, 2005

Ah! I too have run into this before. Worst thing was I did not notice it much until the second time we got together. I think when you do only hour or two these things are not quite as noticeable. But the guy I was with was muskier the second time around and it was a major turn off. Nothing terrible when it is sweat from the current activity but when it was from the day before ugh. I ahd already given the guy a favorable review after the first time and there was not much I could say or do publicaly. I did try to work a shower scene but showere was two small for two and he specifically said no soap please. Needless to say I have never gone back to him.

whipped guy · October 4, 2005

> I don't want to offend

Some guys ask if you want the “squeaky clean showered version” or the “sweaty from the gym stink pot version". If you are going to spend an extended period with the guy you have every right to request your preferred version… and for what he is charging you… He has an OBLIGATION to provide the version you requested… this should be part of escorting 101… no questions asked… there should be no qualms on either side…

When patients see their physicians they are often intimidated and never SPEAK to the guy even though he is getting paid BIG BUCKS for the visit… The same phenomenon occurs with escorts… for the big bucks they charge SPEAK YOUR PEACE… and then some... and don't worry about rubbing him the wrong way!

JT Brooklyn · October 4, 2005

The first thing I do when the Guy arrives is ask him to Freshen Up, "Wash his Hands". The Subways are definitely Germ City! I wash my hands a few times during the day...So you can Imagine my answer to any Foreign Odors anywhere else on him. This is not to say that, "I want them smelling like a French ####" either! LOL :+

escortaaron_m · October 4, 2005

that's so simple..............

i can off hand think of a couple of ways:

one: while setting up the next appt, pretend you're going for a preppie theme this time....sy\uggest both of you @dress up@ like reall clean and sma\rt and preppie.....combed hair and colgne and after shave and all...then hopefully he would arrive cleana d freshh, and you can mess him up you can ravage him and EAT him up.....

2: when he arrives suggest a shower together...and say oooh... i have to clean XXXXXXX.....hopefully he'll get the hint and do the same as you

3.: tell him point balnk.....a professional will meet it head on with calmes\ness and sagesse. i know i do ( i hope)

BradBoyd · October 5, 2005

Easy peasy...just hop up and say, "Very nice! Let's go grab a shower together and then we'll get down to the serious stuff."

That's what I say to clients when I'm in the same position.

I recommend against telling him that he's not smelling like a sweet boy...it might make him feel a little self concious so his mojo might suffer a bit.

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Okliehomo · October 5, 2005

Hey Ocean,

I replied to your email (at length) but got an automatic reply and the page won't load, so I don't know how to get it to you and I had lots of good advice....

Hey Eric,

Kristian has lots of good things to say about you...you need to come to Okc in the Spring.

And as for you, Brad,

I emailed you last week and still no reply??? Know that you are travelling...but you need to give OKC and Milwaukee some serious thought...

Okie

FrancoDiSantisxxx · October 6, 2005

Escorting 101

>> I don't want to offend

>

>Some guys ask if you want the “squeaky clean showered version”

>or the “sweaty from the gym stink pot version". If you are

>going to spend an extended period with the guy you have every

>right to request your preferred version… and for what he is

>charging you… He has an OBLIGATION to provide the version you

>requested… this should be part of escorting 101… no questions

>asked… there should be no qualms on either side…

>

>… The same phenomenon occurs with escorts…

>for the big bucks they charge SPEAK YOUR PEACE… and then

>some... and don't worry about rubbing him the wrong way!

This has been discussed before and there is even another thread running now about showering together. The consensus, by both clients and escorts, as you see here, is that suggesting a shower as part of the sex play is a good way to avoid the issue.

I do agree with this client, as I have always stated, that good communication - about anything - is important to making any client escort session go not only as smoothly as possible, but be a positive and enjoyable experience for all involved. This would include mentioning, as this client states, whether you want the escort "squeaky clean" or "sweaty from the gym." However, even this is not always specific enough. To some escorts, if you say "squeaky clean" they may not clean as much as you might like, for example, if you wanted to rim the guy. Conversely, a client's idea of "sweaty from the gym" might not be my own or that of another escort. Therefore, being clear and specific is not going to hurt or ruin the experience - on the contrary, it can only serve to make it better.

This also goes for so many other questions that get raised on here: who is responsible for bringing the lube and condoms, do you want conversation or drinks to relax you beforehand, do you like to kiss, please refrain from smoking beforehand, if you smoke, and so forth.

One last comment. You should bring all these things up with an escort, yes. Being courtesous and considerate about it is simply taking into account everyone's feelings and there is no harm with that. However, this consideration should not be taken at the expense of the reasonable needs of a client.

Best of luck!

Traveller · October 6, 2005

>Hey Eric,

>

>Kristian has lots of good things to say about you...you need

>to come to Okc in the Spring.

>

>And as for you, Brad,

>

>I emailed you last week and still no reply??? Know that you

>are travelling...but you need to give OKC and Milwaukee some

>serious thought...

Christ. When you factor in travel to the middle of the country, your annual expenditures on w****s rivals mine. Which airline are you keeping afloat?

Later.

Okliehomo · October 6, 2005

United from the West and American from the East....

And add in the fact that it's an overnite, not hourly and the hotel and dinner and breaksfast..and trust me, these boys like to eat....