For those who advertise on “alternative” non-escort sites:

[Jarrod_Uncut]

I know some mention they post on scruff, A4A, Grindr, etc. Would you bother with these types? People like this who contact me, seem to be open to paying for my services…but have something like this in their ads:

 

and then again he says:

 

We chatted and he seemed up for it, but I was getting the impression he was trolling so I told him I read his ad and based on what he said, it don’t sound like I’m what he’s actually looking for. And if he’s not trying to pay for anything, I wouldn’t want him to waste his or my time. 
 

Seemed to blow his cover and he didn’t reply. But I asked him the same earlier and he just said, “yeah I’m open to, if prices are reasonable”. But then continued to sound like going nowhere with the discussion.

To me it comes off as red flag. A potential like that seems the type that would short change or refuse to pay, or even chargeback a payment.

Edited January 11, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut

[BuffaloKyle]

Yeah sounds like he was just playing games with you from the start. And on a side note when I used to be on A4A if I asked someone to come over I would offer 5 or 10 bucks for gas money. It's just a nice thing to do. I would never tell someone on my ad don't ask for any gas money and to instead get a job. Very rude!

[Jarrod_Uncut]

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Yeah sounds like he was just playing games with you from the start. And on a side note when I used to be on A4A if I asked someone to come over I would offer 5 or 10 bucks for gas money. It's just a nice thing to do. I would never tell someone on my ad don't ask for any gas money and to instead get a job. Very rude!

That’s what I’m saying! How do these dudes expect me to believe they can afford a couple hundred  💵 when they’re telling people on their ads that they can’t give gas money? 
 

Some people are just horrendously cheap. I did meet one guy who said something similar, he turned out to be okay. He just said that people will sometimes hit him up asking for money and it’s “different” if he approaches me for the service.

But in the end, he still only ended up being a 1 timer (as most clients on A4A tend to be). That said, I will tell clients to remove such information from their ads, if they expect to meet with me. 

[Lazarus]

Anyone who doesn’t know the difference between “dog’s” & “dogs” would be a red flag for me. 

[+ DynamicUno]

It seems pretty straightforward. He might be saying he doesn't pay to discourage the guys on A4A that act like they are looking to hook up but then want "gas money".  It's a contraction for you nonetheless. 

Either way, since you've discussed rates and how to set up a time, you can tell him he's got all the information he needs and to get in touch with you when he's ready for a meeting.  If he messages you about anything else, respond asking if he's setting up a meeting and don't answer more.  If she's a time Easter he'll get the hint.

 

 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

12 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

It seems pretty straightforward. He might be saying he doesn't pay to discourage the guys on A4A that act like they are looking to hook up but then want "gas money".  It's a contraction for you nonetheless. 

Either way, since you've discussed rates and how to set up a time, you can tell him he's got all the information he needs and to get in touch with you when he's ready for a meeting.  If he messages you about anything else, respond asking if he's setting up a meeting and don't answer more.  If she's a time Easter he'll get the hint.

 

 

He’s already been blocked. I recall he reached out before and said something to me about not wanting to pay. He popped back up again and contacted me, so me giving the chance that never should be given: I talked to him momentarily. 
 

I have to deal with trash bags 🚮 all the time in my area. One guy reached out, didn’t want to exchange numbers. When I suggested he get a 2nd phone like I do if privacy is such a concern, he blocked me. 
 

Like dude, it’s a fucking number. These clowns expect others to be gullible enough to talk to them on an app and meet in person, so they can waste my time coming over and then 10 minutes in say they can’t go thru with it. Goodbye, don’t let the door hit ya, where the last dude split ya ✌

Granted this was just an app excursion, not an actual paying client. But regardless, it goes to show how irritating alternative sites can be. 

 

Edited January 13, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut