How to find what I need

[Guest OralBtm4Top]

This may be a dumb question, but I'd like a few escorts to give me their thoughts. I'm a goodlooking, 45 yr. old bottom guy in Toronto. I've had the pleasure of several quality escort experiences, I've reviewed many of them. My question is this, instead of me trying to find what I'm looking for, is there a way for me to post or advertise somewhere that escorts would read and then respond to me? It seems strange to even ask but it appears to me that if I post exactly what I want, the escorts that fit the bill would respond. I'm growing tired of searching and since I moved to Toronto I've had poor luck. Any thoughts?

[TerryP]

That's a good idea. I'm not sure if there are any websites where clients can place ads.

 

I know it's not exactly the same as placing an ad, but it does seem that a lot of escorts read this forum. Perhaps it would be acceptable to post in here when you're looking for certain guys. For example, I'm currently looking for a certain type of guy to spend a weekend vacation with me, either in New York or Orlando (big difference I know). I'm not sure if we could use this forum for that purpose?

[noviceny]

Oral,

 

That is an incredible idea !!! I wonder if escorts would go for it...

[Bilbo]

I would probably be a bit on the shy side of doing that, Oral. However, if you are indeed as attractive as you sound, here's an odd thought - Especially if you feel like it might be fun to post an ad somewhere and then intertain most of the men who would answer it - and money is one of your fetishes - why not become an escort? Run an ad and see who cums, ah - arrives. }(

[BostonChris]

Interesting idea.

In fact, some folks post that they are looking for certain types of escorts on these boards... but every time I have replied to those posts, I don't hear back (I guess that's how you guys feel when you get no response from other escorts!)... so I usually resign myself to the fact that if clients want me, they'll call me. If I were looking to hire, I would just follow the reviews. You can tell a lot from how responsive and attentive escorts are based on reviews (i.e. if the communication was smooth, etc.) Further, if you're looking for trip-mates, weekend companionship, and the like, I highly recommend putting in ample time for research. If you were to post that you want to spend a week with someone, you're bound to get TONS of responses... but most from escorts that you probably didn't have your eye on. Remember, it's YOUR decision, so I don't recommend limiting your selection.

Best of luck!

Yours,

-Chris C.

(Boston)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Ask And Ye Shall Sow

 

There is such a place. It is the forum on this site called the DELI, only instead of simply asking OTHER clients their opinons on what escorts are available that might fit YOUR bill (which is not a bad idea in and of itself and which I am not sure if you have attempted), but you can also ask escorts to respond.

 

Clients have often said something like I am looking for a good deep throating bottom and certain escorts have responded, clients have also stated they are looking for this type of XYZ twink in a certain town and a suitable escort has offered to send photos or an email. It might get you few responses, but not as many as you want.

 

Another thing to consider is where you are. If you do not like the home grown talent, you may be out of luck. Toronto is not a city that many escorts are likely to travel to on their own dime. From within that selection, there may not be many you might find appealing. You might have to either be willing to incorporate pleasure (or business travel) to find the escorts you particularly want, or incur the expense to ship them to you.

 

In any event, good luck. But keep trying the escort listing sites. I think that is your best bet.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Ask And Ye Shall Sow

 

>Clients have often said something like I am looking for a good

>deep throating bottom

 

My ears are ringing.

[Guest OralBtm4Top]

RE: Ask And Ye Shall Sow

 

Thanks for all the suggestions. So, if there are any masculine top guys that love to fuck and want to spend an overnight with me in Toronto, or this Wednesday in Ft. Lauderdale, give me a holler.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Toronto

 

>Thanks for all the suggestions. So, if there are any

>masculine top guys that love to fuck and want to spend an

>overnight with me in Toronto, or this Wednesday in Ft.

>Lauderdale, give me a holler.

 

When the weather warms up, I might be convinced to visit Toronto when I am either in Chicago or New York this summer. On my Boston trip, my side visit will be to Provincetown.

 

Otherwise, you could consider a visit to Palm Springs some time. It can be just as nice in the desert as it can be on the Florida coast.

[Guest OralBtm4Top]

RE: Toronto

 

Actually Franco, you and I did hook up 3 years ago in Palm Springs. You came to my room at InnDulge. I thought you were very nice, a bit too chatty, and we didn't get around to fucking.

So, in the spirit of need, I'm still looking for that masculine top guy to come spend a night in Toronto. I am pleased that Juan fom Vancouver is coming and I've booked time with him already. But one man a month is not enough....

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Tennis

 

>Actually Franco, you and I did hook up 3 years ago in Palm

>Springs. You came to my room at InnDulge. I thought you were

>very nice, a bit too chatty, and we didn't get around to

>fucking.

 

 

Ah, the gentlemen visiting for the tennis tournament? You booked only an hour (not an evening or an overnight) and I actually stayed slightly longer than an hour; although yes, you are correct, we did not get around to any anal sex. I thought you were uncomfortable and need some conversation to help you relax and get acquainted a little before any intimacy. Apparently I misread your apprehension or you did not clarify the situation. In any event, I certainly regret that you felt it was "too" much conversation and not enough action.

 

In any event, my recollection is that I offered to and you were interested in meeting again as we were both in the desert for an extended trip, so that we could get to the specific activity you desired, but you ended up cancelling the second one hour session, because of some family conflict.

 

I wish you the best of luck in finding what you seek in Fort Lauderdale or Toronto.