One Piece of Advice ...

[DelawareGuy]

If you could provide one piece of advice for us to help ensure a successful meeting, what would it be? OK, if you're feeling generous, you can give two or three pieces :-)

 

Let's assume for the sake of argument that we already know to be clean, brushed, gargled, etc.

[Vincent_Michael]

Go With the Flow and Relax and be your self, nothing complicated.

[AaronScottDC]

Great advice, Michael!

 

I would say that one of the biggest things that tends to make encounters of this sort complicated, is having too many expectations and ideas of the "perfect" meeting in your head going into it. I really think that some guys have a mental checklist going on in their head as the meeting progresses. Unfortunately, this can lead to a lot of tension, stress, and difficulty in "just going with the flow" and enjoying the moment.

 

So, if you have already made a good decision of whom to meet based on reviews/email exchanges/phone conversations/ect... all conducted with your big head on your shoulders, then when the actual meeting occurs, just go with the little head between your legs and enjoy it!

 

Of course, some people's "little head" really shouldn't be called little.... }( :9

 

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Steven_Draker]

>If you could provide one piece of advice

 

Good positive attitude. Period

[nate_sf]

I'd say let him know what you like to do and don't do, what turns you on. Write it to him beforehand by e-mail if you're afraid you won't be able to say it in person, but don't be shy! This is your chance to do what you like, without judgement.

 

From the escort's perspective, the less guesswork's involved, the more he's able to just give you a good time.

[Juan Vancouver]

I love this question!

 

To begin with,I am going to mention the common causes for a session to not be amazing: Lack of communication, expectations, dishonesty, fear. And of course I will try to find a possitive way to deal with those.

SO, here are the four things that in my opinion will allow you to have an amazing experience:

 

1. Great communication before, during and after your session will allow you to get the best out of it. If it is basic for your enjoyment that he speaks dirty, let him know and he will let you know if he can comply or not. Be clear, be shameless and be as explicit as you can. One of the safest ways to create a conflictive session is to tell your escorts that you just "Want a hot time", while you actually need him to show up in black leather and submit you until you call him SIR. He is not a psychic, he is just (hopefully) a well trained service provider. Ask. Also, if during the session you realize that you have this sudden urge, let him know, and he will perhaps be able to do it with you. Tell him what feels good, and tell him what feels bad.

 

2. No expectations: If you are open to enjoy what IS instead of keep hoping for what IS NOT, you are bound to have a great time. Dont imagine stuff about your escort, dont romantizyse him in your head. Dont add inches to his cock or punds to each bicep. He is what he is. He must be doing what you liked (because you asked him to) and he must be correcting what you dont like (Because you ARE telling him what is it that you prefer). And if still it is not working, let him now and decide wether you want him to stay or not. One good friend of mine came to me heart broken because one client asked him to leave when he was fuckign him, "because I was hoping that you would like to fuck me with my legs in your shoulders... since you didnt do that, now the mood is ruined forever". (get my point?)

 

3. Absolute honesty: If you dont like this... SAY IT!! There is no reason to lie to your escort; he is there to provide a loving service to you. He is ready to take your feedback and adapt his performance to give you pleasure. Dont endure a horrible session and then complain abou it, instead of giving him the chance to correct what is not working for you (while he still can change it). If you dont like the way he looks, smells or talk or fucks, kindly let him know. If he is a professional escort, he will know what to do. (Either go away with a kind smile on his face and no charge to your wallet, or brush his teeth, or learn the way to please you.)

 

4. Fear me not: All you have to do is.... RELAX! Enjoy the trip, and be certain that he is there to please YOU. Dont worry about your shortcomings (To your escort, you have none), dont worry about your body (To your escort, you are a total hunk), dont worry about your lack of experience; he has enough for both of you. He is not judging you, he is not suffering. We engage in this profession because we LOVE to give pleasure, we get off on being desired and liked, and it is our higher calling to make you moan and groan. Smile, abandon yourself in his strong experienced hands, keep an open channel of communication and enjoy! :-)

 

All you have to do is allow him to help you to be comfortable.

 

Enjoy!

[Rick Munroe]

I can't top Juan (well, I would, but I don't know if he bottoms) but he did forget one important rule:

 

Pretend you like it when the escort has Ethel Merman's Disco Album playing in the background as hot sex music.

[Kevin Slater]

>Pretend you like it when the escort has Ethel Merman's Disco

>Album playing in the background as hot sex music.

 

I actually like that album. Played it during a dinner party once, never thought of playing it while hosting a client, til now...

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Breathe: It always helps things out

 

Seriously though, i would recommend coming into a meeting with an open-mind and the wanted ability to remain honest throughout. If you have expectations, make them clear up-front, as not all escorts are good at reading people, especially strangers.

 

Find common ground. Whether it's in the bedroom or at dinner, find something to talk about and connect on. Nothing's worse than total silence with just some sex thrown in-between for good measure...

 

Well, not for me at least.

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[Rick Munroe]

>Nothing's worse

>than total silence with just some sex thrown in-between for

>good measure...

 

That can actually be pretty fuckin' hot. }(

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You're a sicko Rick... I love you

 

Now, getting into a discussion when in the MIDDLE of sex could be interesting. I can almost hear it now:

 

*escort in the middle of getting topped*

 

'Hey, what do you think about the sociological ramifications on the US economy based on George Bush's re-election?'

 

SCREECH! I can almost hear the erections deflate. Added, any use of the word 'Bush' while having gay sex is probably a no-no anyway.

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[FLJohn]

>SCREECH! I can almost hear the erections deflate. Added, any

>use of the word 'Bush' while having gay sex is probably a

>no-no anyway.

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>Warmest Always,

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>Benjamin Nicholas

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>Depending on what type of bush you are referring to. I happen to like pubies...