BIG GUYS?

[happyguy2]

Hey Guys

 

In another forum, Four Aces asked a question about size and travel. In my reply, I spoke about a good friend who is a big guy and made a passing reference to his having no problem 'connecting'.

 

In several frank discussions with this superb guy, he has always told me that escorts have told him he was a great sex partner! Many of them become his friends - and I have seen first hand how much they appreciate him.

 

Have you met big guys who are the same?

 

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[JamesK840]

I'm a big guy and haven't had trouble connecting with escorts... have had quite a lot of fun. Even picked up a couple regulars on Craig's List, and even SMB who have been great. I'm honest about my stats and it's never been a problem with a 'board' escort, a couple from CL weren't interested, but that's no problem, and I think avoiding escorts who demand your picture is good advice for anybody.

 

Even more surprising to me (started this under 2 years ago with low self-esteem an no experience) I've had many great free hookups, and several regular fuckbuddies. There's something for everybody, especially in LA...

[Funseeker 22]

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>Even more surprising to me (started this under 2 years ago

>with low self-esteem an no experience) I've had many great

>free hookups, and several regular fuckbuddies.

 

And you`ve certainly been making up for lost time in a hurry. (lol).

 

 

:-) :-)

[Vincent_Michael]

I was chubby most of my life and lost all my weight at 19 so I understand to some extent, I personally have a very hard time hooking up now as I fear rejection to no end because of many years of rejection.

 

But I have always have fun with chubbier guys.

[nate_sf]

I've met lots of big guys who have been a lot of fun in bed. I think sexiness has more to do with attitude than physical things, so if someone is exuding positive sexual energy, other guys will pick up on that.

[Vincent_Michael]

I like good attitude too but something about chubby men gets me going! I sometimes am in the ood for more leaner thiner men but I love something to grab onto!

[Spida]

I had only one bad experience with an escort it was quite a while ago and I actually reviewed him on here. He is retired.

 

Other than that I have never had a problem with escorts. I had however, had a problem with hooking up especially in gay clubs. I think i am a fairly good looking guy, but I am sure it is more than just gay guys wanting someone perfect. I think alot of it had to do with my attitude and my not being self assured. After loosing some weight I have a whole new outlook, I don't think it is all due to my improved body but also my self assuredness (is that a word??)

 

But no problem with escorts, and James I am with you making up for lost time isn't it fun!!

 

Spida

[BARR1965]

JK you are my new role model now ... and Funseeker you are still my mentor ... I can't keep up with you guys }(

 

I totally concur with Nate that sexiness comes from within. It is not how much the person weighs what makes him sexy. It his positive attitude towards life and the way he handles himself.