How do you handle it when a client owes you, but refuses to reimburse?

[Thomas_Belgium]

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[Jamie21]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

You mean you're not !?! 🤔😂😱

Well, I am idle for 12 hours a day of course. I just hang around naked with a semi while watching porn (doesn’t everyone?), but clients always call just when I decide to wash my hair. 

[Thomas_Belgium]

In my opinion, moving to another city won't solve the problem. The "instasatisfaddicts" will find you, no matter what city you live in & try to lure you into their "ratrace pandemic".

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 9/3/2022 at 8:21 AM, Luv2play said:

In my view, there was no commitment on the part of the client. Based on the communication you posted, he just expressed an interest in the two packages he was interested in but did not commit. Period. You have no basis to ask for a payment. 

Absolutely not. I beg to differ. And as an update: he did make due on his end after I reasserted that THERE WAS an expectation to get paid for the session. He told me he wanted to go with X amount and was going to send the deposit, and I would be meeting him in the city location he was at. That never happened. He psyched me up all afternoon and then ghosted me over the weekend, until I reached back out to him and find out what happened. By that time he was, “already home”. 
 

So then: why the F*CK did you make like we were going to be meeting? Complete waste of my time!

the communication I posted was only a snippet…it wasn’t everything. There was some other stuff leading up to that, which included some explicit questions.

 

I will admit: I have been that flake “client” (not technically but figuratively) this past weekend. I had agreed to do something Saturday with someone that had been planned a month ago. I was all for it, up until the day of. I hated to cancel, but I felt I would have to “kill” myself in order to do it, so I manned up and gave the person a detailed reason as to why I could not attend. 

I seen him read my messages, but no response. So it’s nice to see the other end of how people would handle someone who flakes. Each time, I see they cut me off and don’t bother. The message to me always shows I guess I wasn’t that important to them anyway, and maybe God showed me a reason to flake 🤷🏾‍♂️ 

On 9/3/2022 at 10:39 AM, Jamie21 said:

Well, I am idle for 12 hours a day of course. I just hang around naked with a semi while watching porn (doesn’t everyone?), but clients always call just when I decide to wash my hair. 

This is #1 irony pet peeve lol! Sometimes I joke: if I want a client today, I need to engage in something else that will be very inconvenient to break away from. That’s when I’ll get a request lol.

I can literally be sitting in a hotel room free all day long, or even 2 days long: bed made, dick out, horny as a rock. Then the moment it’s time to check out, someone asks to meet.

That’s why I stopped doing that and have cut down on the same day bookings without deposits. I have also made a disclaimer that I’m not always available for same day bookings, unless they really hit me up like first thing in the morning for LATER in the day.

Like last night, I had this beautiful middle eastern guy hire me (I will say: it seems the clients are getting younger as I’m getting older 😆). He hit me up at like 4:30 in the morning. I was sleep but that gave me enough time to schedule him later in the evening when I arrived to his city.

On 9/4/2022 at 9:41 AM, Thomas_Belgium said:

In my opinion, moving to another city won't solve the problem. The "instasatisfaddicts" will find you, no matter what city you live in & try to lure you into their "ratrace pandemic".

Hmm…well, sorta but not really. Moving to a different city can fortunately change the whole game. Often just visiting a different city, never fails to get things chugging along again. 
 

The less competition, the better in most places. And competition isn’t always in the form of other escorts, but of what the general gay scene is. 2 cities that come to mind are Milwaukee and St. Louis: Both can often go from $0 to $1,000 and back to $0 week by week. But because they are both very White and very Black…you’re either hot to some or, just another “one of them”. The dichotomy is: a force to be reckoned with.

A city where I’m able to stand out without having to indirectly compete with “demographics” would be great. If Hawaii and Alaska weren’t so far out, I’d of moved there. May have to settle for Maine or Key West instead.

Edited September 6, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut