How can I tell if a masseur is a top or bottom ?

[Ryecatcher]

I'm Bi, switch; dominant with women and more submissive with guys - mostly an oral bottom. I've recently joined Rent Masseur and hoping for excellent massage with more.  How might I determine if a masseur is into the inverse of what I'm into before scheduling ?

[Dirks]

Just ask. - I always seek to be clear on preferences and expectations upfront, if the provider is not into it then easy to move on and find a better match.

[pubic_assistance]

Well.

For starters a masseur is not the same as an escort.

So you're already making some broad assumptions about top/ bottom roles even being part of the conversation about a massage .

Now ..of course there are crossover providers .but you technically shouldn't be discussing anal sex positions with a masseur on a massage site.

Personally I really enjoy massage and I enjoy handsome men. I have had plenty of sexual encounters with pros, but I hired them as masseurs and anything beyond that was outside what I paid for a massage...and was discussed IN PRIVATE.

If you want to discuss sex
I suggest you use RENT.MEN not RENTMASSEUR

 

Edited August 27, 2022 by pubic_assistance

[David1024]

A lot of what a masseur puts on his ad is open to interpretation. If they list all types of massage (therapeutic, sensual and erotic) then there’s a chance but not a guarantee that it will progress to full on oral and anal. I look at the masseur’s private pictures as an indicator. Close ups of an ass indicate he’s a bottom, pics of a hard dick, maybe he’s a top but again, nothing is guaranteed. Many masseurs will take it further if they really like the client, which is why they are masseurs and not escorts. 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, David1024 said:

Many masseurs will take it further if they really like the client, which is why they are masseurs and not escorts. 

Exactly.

I have never hired a masseur for sex.

but

I've certainly had sex with a masseur.

You want a guarantee ? Hire a sex worker.