Overnight sessions

[sashek]

Hi Guys,

A thread in another topic got me thinking about this question. In it, the escort said that one of the things that he expects from an overnight session is 8 hours of sleep. This would seem reasonable. However, I wondered if there are any "rules" about overnight sessions? For example, how many times can/should a client expect the escort to perform? If the client wakes up in the middle of the night - or isn't able to sleep at all, because of the excitement - is it fair to wake the escort up? I guess communication beforehand is the key to this, as to so much else, but some guidelines about what escorts think is fair and appropriate, as well as input from clients who hire for overnight sessions, would be much appreciated. Finally, if an escort is hired only for an hour or two, but both he and the client fall asleep afterwards, should some additional payment be offered on waking up the next morning? Thanks! Sashek

[+ Lucky]

Personally, I would not awaken the escort more than a couple of times. At some point, he is not going to like it. However, if the session is only for two hours, it is fair to awaken the escort if he falls asleep. In the event that both parties fall asleep and the session goes overtime, the escort should not expect to be paid for sleeping. However, if the client dreams of the escort while sleeping next to him, a tip would be in order.

[guyinsf]

I think the answer to your question is: It depends.

 

Just remember that you are dealing with people, not machines. Everyone is different. I think it's reasonable to "expect" sex in the evening and sex in the morning when you hire an escort for an overnighter, but whether and/or how an escort will perform in the middle of the night is variable. Some people require a full nights' sleep and, in fact, are such sound sleepers that awakening them in the middle of the night won't really get them moving anyway.

 

As in so many things involving escort/client interactions, communication is key. This is particularly true as one's expectations become greater. Probably no escort would mind being allowed to sleep all night, so you'd get no complaints if that's what you expect. If you think you'll be awake and horny all night, though, you should make that clear when scheduling the appointment with the escort. Then the escort can decide for himself whether he wants to accept your request, depending on whether he feels he "has it in him" to perform as requested.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

A tip

 

>Personally, I would not awaken the escort more than a couple

>of times.

 

Scientific studies have proven over and over again conclusively that to awaken someone who is fucking you in their sleep is dangerous and, not to mention, potentially fatal. The sudden rush of blood to their head would cause them to lose their erection and they could die of embarrassment, not to mention the likely poor review that would follow.

 

 

 

Water is something else you do not need to pay for, but tell me, do you?

 

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[Rick Munroe]

In a perfect world, I'd love to get 8 hours of sleep on an overnight but that doesn't usually happen. Of course there's action before the lights go out, and often in the morning (when I'm super horny), but sometimes the client is so turned on (and usually Derek and I are too) that there is action/sleep/action throughout the night. I'd love to have one of those "I MUST have 8 hours of sleep" rules but my attitude has always been that I'm there for the client's pleasure. I'm very service-oriented (whether I'm being a top or a bottom) and so is Derek. Just don't get me a cocktail at dinner because I'm a real lightweight with that stuff and I'll pass out before lights out.