is it really about sex ?

[BigD]

Theory:

Clients are not really looking for sex (everyone can find someone

to have sex with!). Fantasy is what sells. Fulfilling the fantasy

- type, scene, role, whatever - is what brings clients to escorts.

Do you agree?

[skins1]

Nah, it's not always about sex. It's also about all the other stuff after sex that's important. You know, when you're lying together naked and your bodies are next to each other and you're watching the sun rise through the windshield. And you look into your partners one good eye and you help strap on his leg. that's when you know, you just fucked a pirate. no, you just did. hahahah

 

 

think outside the box people.

[VaHawk]

LOL! :7 What planet do you live on? Regardless of any other reason, I believe most encounters definitely include sex even if that isn't the only or even the main reason for the hire. And believe it or not, I think there are indeed clients, who for a variety of reasons only have sex when they hire escorts.

[Matt_Vancouver]

A pirates life for me

 

You know, when you're lying

>together naked and your bodies are next to each other and

>you're watching the sun rise through the windshield. And you

>look into your partners one good eye and you help strap on his

>leg. that's when you know, you just fucked a pirate.

 

OH MY GOD THAT IS FUNNY: )

matt(ahoy matey, Captain Hook-er)

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: A pirates life for me

 

Arghhh Matty...

 

(ok, so I can't spell )

 

:+

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>...Fantasy is what sells. Fulfilling the fantasy

>- type, scene, role, whatever - is what brings clients to

>escorts.

>Do you agree?

 

Not in my case. I'm not into any of that. An escort wanted to play the daddy-son scene one time, apparently he was often asked to play. I failed miserably. And I had another escort once remark " with you is not just sex is it." It is a part but not all by a long shot. Another escort once volunteered that "being with you ain't like work at all". Take that any way you want but I took it as sincere.

 

It's about sharing conversation, a walk in the park, a night at the theatre, some hot steamy sex. No demands. no scenes, just a natural flow between two people as with anyone I would meet in regular life if I thought they were worth the effort. Maybe i'm the odd man out..

[AaronScottDC]

Hey Skins,

 

That was one of the funniest posts I have read on here in a while!!! I certainly hope that you will be making other posts here soon and that your humor continues - we could all use a good laugh now and then!

 

As far as the answer to the question goes, it really depends on the guy and the encounter. Of course most guys who hire are looking for sex. I mean, come on, we are guys, right? Don't we operate pretty much using only the little head between our legs 90% of the time?

 

But, it is also very nice to be with someone and enjoy other moments in life, too. Good conversation, company, companionship - these are all reasons to hire an escort. And, you usually get to have great sex with a hot guy who knows what he is doing and who is totally into you!!

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Chuck50]

Its really about that famous line that most escorts use. Companionship. Someone you can have fun with sex and otherwise, nice meal, looks good in a suit, can dress up and take out and even looks good on your arm. Conversation, shows, music venues but most of all some one to be with = COmpanionship HUGS Chuck:P :P

[foxy]

Does this mean that escorts are really escorts? Damn...what was I thinking?

[Guest Callipygean]

C'mon guys, let's get real! A 50 something, middle aged, man decades (probably pounds) beyond love's young dream (if ever he was one), dating a 20 something, gorgeous, sexually precocious hottie. For pay! Whether it buys an elegant dinner, followed by a night at the opera, then a walk on the beach for deep, soulful conversation, or just an hour of raw, unadorned rutting. That's fantasy! LOL

[Chuck50]

Its not love it is companionship guess you didn't read it HUGS

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Define Clients and Define the Fantasy

 

The average age of my clients is still about 32 - 44, so together we do look like a couple. All of my overnights and evenings thus far, but two, have been with guys who were within ten years of my age (and according to Donnie, they probably looked younger than me). Yes, it is a fantasy, but there are different types of fantasies and yes, sometimes what the client wants, as I put it, is one hour of hot sweaty man to man action, but sometimes they want several hours of hot sweaty man to man action interspersed with several hours of dinner and conversation or simply, as Tampa Yankee said, walking on a clear fall night holding hands. I actually thought that was one of the sweetest things a client ever did, as he had just met me a few hours earlier, was feel comfortable enough to walk alongside me holding my hand. This client was 42, by the way, he just a busy bank executive with way too much salary but very little spare time. I come over, we fool around, I would not even call it sex, I have a bag of groceries I have brought over, I make us dinner, he sets the table. I guess in this fantasy, I am the boyfriend he does not (take it either way) make time for or have. Afterwards, we always go for a drive or a walk, occassionally we have seen things we both picked out and enjoyed together, and there is always plenty of "fucking like rabbits" as he puts it.

 

As for the original question, I think it is the difference between buying groceries and cooking your own food (relationships, as they work), buying fast food (tricking), casual dining (dating which may or may not lead to sex) and fine dining (true escorting). You will notice I did not put street hustlers in their intentionally.

[btmstudnyc]

Is it really about anything?

 

>Do you agree?

 

No,

Sometimes about sex only.

Sometimes about Scene only.

Sometimes about both.

Sometimes about nothing but someone to talk to.

Sometimes out of plain old curiousity (You're not my type...but I wanted to see what everyone was talking about or to see how big, how how round, how perfect, how stout, how velvetty, how in the fuck does he get my enormous cock in his butt(btmstudnyc)or mouth(rick munroe.)

DAMN, I'm sure this list can go on.

 

Do you agree?

 

JIM

 

If it dont fit, force it

btmstudnyc@aol.com

[Guest Callipygean]

Obviously, it's really about alot of different things, as different as people and their unique, individual motivations. Shouldn't really matter, as long as everyone leaves happy. I still think it's mostly fantasy, I don't delude myself otherwise, but that's not a put down. Speaking for myself (and I was), thank god there are beautiful, decent young men out there willing to indulge an old fart like me in having a little fun fulfilling some harmless fantasies. That said, the same rule applies in an escort/client exchange as in any other human interaction -- treat another as you would wish to be treated. Not as an object, either of sexual or monetary gratification, but as a human being. With mutual respect, courtesy, and compassion.

[LovesYng]

There are two kinds of "Escorts/Companions" I like seeing. 95% of the time I like seeing a companion for the compamionship & fantasies of being with a cute & hot younger guy. Really enjoy some of the conversations during our time together, most of the time he is staying overnight and that is one of the best ways to get to know someone. I try and treat them the same way I would want them to treat me, like a human being.

 

I love going out and doing dinner with him, always at his choice where he would like to eat at or even do room service, with nice bottle of wine during our talking & dinner. Most of these guys are regulars companions I have been seeing for years. Once in bed for the evening I love the cuddling, talking and whatever else happens for our evening together:P. When we wake up in the morning we have a little play time then shower & breakfast. After all is said and done a BIG hug & kiss GOOD BYE till next time we meet:*

 

Now the other 5% is when I'm really horny and want some hot & sweaty "SEX" and more:9. Just lookin for a couple of GOOD hours in bed with a hot younger lookin escort. But I will treat him the same way as a human being and I want to be treated the same:7

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

So, one man's night at the opera or on the beach is another man's fantasy.... sure why not. Depends on what is really going on in the big head I think. I see hiring the ususal escort similar to a night of fine dining where I go to an upscale restaurant for something I don't ordinarily fix myself. I don't consider it a fantasy but a treat. I don't fantasize over it before or after though I may have pleasant memories.

 

However, a recent escort experience did turn out to be a live fantasy on the spur of the moment. Certainly not preconceived in this or recent times so not a fantasy I was looking for but an unexpected occurence that probably was a fantasy somewhere in my life long forgotten or at least long unexpected. I found myself in a hour+ of totally absorbing hot passionate sex with a hot guy that approaches my ideal in all ways. I confess that when I'm with escorts I am there as a participant and also as an observer -- acutely aware of what is going on -- a third person perspecitve if you will. On this day I lost it ... I was totally abosrbed in the passion of the moment... nothing else existed or mattered except the person I was entwined with and what we were doing to each other. And he definitely made the sale that he was there right with me... wherever I was. Now that is my idea of living out a fantasy even if I hadn't entered into the situtation looking for it.

 

I've commented in other threads about looking for something of lasting value from not expensive escort encounters. I got lasting value in this encounter. It was a a hot passionate experience and finite but the memory of it will last me a lifetime. }(

[Guest ortrud45]

RE: An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

Tampa Y.:

 

Hi, I have two questions:

Who is Mr. Wonder who ultimately captivated your attention and may we

expect a review?

 

Inquiring minds would love to know!

ortrud45

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

See newest reviews 5/24.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

>... not expensive escort encounters.

 

should have read: ...not inexpensive...

 

...

:+

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

RE: An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

BTW, the pic on the review was probably taken when he was a feew pounds lighter. It doesn't capture the present package.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/rbs/5046/pictures/5046_1.jpg

[Guest ortrud45]

RE: An unanticpated fantasy found and more..

 

Thanks Tampa Yankee for guiding me to your review of Mr. Wonderboy...

and his pic is very hot!!!:9

 

Have a pleasant day, ortrud45

[Guest master12361]

Well I seen this one escort for 8 months straght a few times a week and itwasnt for sex. yes we did some things but it was for having a friend and company. i also had let him go after a while he was getting to much and wanted his was a lot and I was paying even thought we became friends and lovers to a point but he lied so I say its not all about sex. and this guy is on rent boy and dancers.:o :+