How necessary is a face pic? & weird responses...

[Guest roninx]

Ok... I've already placed 2 online ads and received my first positive review here

 

As a result of that review I was deluged with inquiries... and I don't think I was prepared for some of the weird responses that I received. One guy called me twice and I called him back once but we kept missing each other. I usually close my cell phone in the evening but he mentioned in his message that he was calling me before work so I though ok he is probably calling around 8 AM (My voicemail doesn't have date stamp:-( )

 

So i decided to leave my cell on so if he called in the morning I would get his call. Well..he called at 5:30 AM. The call proceeded normally and he was asking the usual questions, rates. etc. then he started asking me who was my favorite star that I wanted to fuck and he proceeded to tell me his... he continues describing in detail what he wants to do and then starts telling me to moan and groan... I was really taken aback and finally figured out that he just wanted phone sex...(it was early in the morning and I was barely awake) I nicely said sorry but I don't do phone sex and hung up the phone.

 

I'm not sure what other kind of responses to expect but I'm sure it will be interesting....

 

 

I've also had my share of "picture collectors" one guy was nice enough to send a reply after I sent my picture "thanks for the pic it is super" and nothing else...he was obviously only interested in my pic. Which brings me to my main question...how necessary is a face pic for an escort?

 

If I take full body shots etc and decide not to use my face pic can i get by? The only reason I ask is because of all the picture collectors that I received a response from.... I don't want any friends/family to find my pic or to have it wind up somewhere it shouldn't be..

 

 

Just wondering if it is realistic to try to get by without using a face pic. Thanks all!

[ted]

Some guys show a face picture and some don't. I know one guy who very specifically shows his face, and shows his body, but not in the same picture. So none of the nudes have a recognizable face, and the face pictures are very innocent. One would have to have the whole site, or the series of pics to be compromised. Even then of course one could claim that it really wasn't you in the nudes, unless you have a specific identifying mark, a tatoo for instance. But for the potential client all the information is there. The other way to handle it is to put out the body shots and only send the face shots when you know someone is really serious, or vice versa. But I suspect, no one who isn't serious will bug you for a face shot.

[tropikal_knight]

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DRfromFL

 

Obviously this is just my opinion, but I definitely prefer a face pic.

There are several reasons for this, (no I am not a collector), the two most important being that I get to see exactly what I am getting and secondly that I have no sense that something is being hidden from me.

 

I can respect the escorts right to confidentiality, discretion and privacy, however. I guess if that is the case then a website, possib ly pw protected or an easy way to email a pic is the only solution.

 

Another alternative might be to arrange a public meeting place with a no charge guarantee if the client is not interested.

[Rick Munroe]

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>Just wondering if it is realistic to try to get by

>without using a face pic.

 

Hey, it's worked for me.

[Chuck50]

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Our Boy Ricky is the consumate reason that a PIC is not necessary. But while it may be nice is not always needed. Escpecially when you have the other Face. HUGS Rick Chuck:P

[Flower]

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I won't hire an escort without seeing a recent face pic--sorry, but the face is a big part of the experience for me--he can have the nicest body and hard dick shot but without a face pic no hookup--the meeting idea or the money back guarantee is fine except that it is very time consuming--I've never had it take any less than a hour and usually longer from the time we say lets do it on the phone to when he shows up at my room--so if the face is not one that then works, I've wasted his time, and a lot of mine. There are some VERY nice faces out there that just don't do it for me, so maybe I'm a little strange (or maybe there is no maybe--I can see it coming) but it's that important--at least to me :+

 

When I ask for a face pic, I even suggest that it not be attached to a body if there is a reluctance to send for fear of having it cast out on the internet--a face shot by itself could NEVER incriminate anyone, so I think it's a reasonable request.

[Flower]

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>>Just wondering if it is realistic to try to get by

>>without using a face pic.

>

>Hey, it's worked for me.

 

What?? That's not ...ooops }( JK

 

Actually, you go to your web site and you show enough of your lower face so most can see it's a pretty sexy face

[Guest Merlin]

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The face is less important to me and I have hired a number of escorts on their body photo alone. But obviously you will lose some business without a face photo. And, if you have a good face you would gain business by showing it. The separate face photo is the way to go. But of course, some escorts may lose business by showing the face, and it will be hard for you to judge whether your own face is an asset or not. We all like to think we are good looking. Finally, if you do use a face photo, make sure it is a good one which does you justice. Many escorts are using bad photos which hurt rather than help. When you read the reviews, you will see that many say "he was much better looking that his photos." No photo is better than a bad one.

[Guest jeffOH]

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I believe that I had 3 reviews before I got a picture posted with them. After that, I noticed a significant spike in my business. Some escorts may choose not to post face pics to be discreet and others because their face is not in the top 5 of their best features. I've met escorts whose body/cock were quite impressive in their pics, but had faces that had been beaten to a pulp with the Ugly Stick!

 

So, some seem to do just fine posting an ASS pic or a cock shot, because that's really their best feature. Some have the whole package, face-body-cock-personality. I get more compliments on my facial features(teeth, eyes)than on my body. I'd like to have a better body, but I'm not willing to work out that much. I'd also like to have a bigger cock, but most clients and non-clients seem to think that it's more than adequate.

 

My mother had a saying about women who were of average looks, but who were dressed nicely and had a ton of makeup on, "Poor thing, I guess she's done the best with what she had to work with".

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Rick Munroe]

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>So, some seem to do just fine posting an ASS pic or a cock

>shot, because that's really their best feature.

 

LOL I love when escorts get com-petty-tive! :+ Well, in my case, my butt really isn't my best feature but I don't think my butt & torso pics being all over the internet will harm my future career plans as much as my face pic would.

 

By the way, thanks, Chucky & Flower. Maybe I'll send you both my face pic.

[Guest jeffOH]

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>>So, some seem to do just fine posting an ASS pic or a cock

>>shot, because that's really their best feature.

>

>LOL I love when escorts get com-petty-tive! :+ Well,

>in my case, my butt really isn't my best feature but I don't

>think my butt & torso pics being all over the internet will

>harm my future career plans as much as my face pic would.

>

>By the way, thanks, Chucky & Flower.

> Maybe I'll send you both my face pic.

 

LOL...And I love when escorts think it's all about them. My comment "an ASS pic or cock shot" was a NON-SPECIFIC reference to escorts I've met, hired or at least seen their face pic.

 

 

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Rick Munroe]

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>My comment "an ASS pic or cock shot" was a NON-SPECIFIC reference

 

Right, which is why I said, "in my case..." :*

[Guest AdamLVescort]

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Rick, I have to say I love seeing your ass plastered all over my screen! Maybe someday it will be all over me face muuhahahahaaaa !

 

Later,

Adam

XOXO

http://www.theadambomb.com

[Chuck50]

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I concur Adam. Rick is on my List for 2003 HUGS Chuck

[mmk]

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I do not think that it is neccessary but it does help.

 

I had a recent experience with an escort this week where we emailed each other a few times and he was going to be in my hometown (he only lives an hour away in Ohio) He said he was 38 but if he was he had some rough years on him. He did have a nice body and nice biceps and chest and a nice dick but when he arrived he was not what I was expecting. I guess the visual I had of him and what he turned out to be were two different things. I was considering calling it off (he never did send the body shot in an email that he promised) He was very interactive but he had a residual smoker's breath taste on his mouth which is a big turnoff for me. I was very close to cancelling the appointment but I felt bad that he had driven an hour here so I went through with it. (He was only $120.00 so that was not too bad) If I would have seen a face shot then I would have cancelled for sure. Oh well, such is life.

[mmk]

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I do not think that it is neccessary but it does help.

 

I had a recent experience with an escort this week where we emailed each other a few times and he was going to be in my hometown (he only lives an hour away in Ohio) He said he was 38 but if he was he had some rough years on him. He did have a nice body and nice biceps and chest and a nice dick but when he arrived he was not what I was expecting. I guess the visual I had of him and what he turned out to be were two different things. I was considering calling it off (he never did send the body shot in an email that he promised) He was very interactive but he had a residual smoker's breath taste on his mouth which is a big turnoff for me. I was very close to cancelling the appointment but I felt bad that he had driven an hour here so I went through with it. (He was only $120.00 so that was not too bad) If I would have seen a face shot then I would have cancelled for sure. Oh well, such is life.

[Flower]

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>By the way, thanks, Chucky & Flower.

> Maybe I'll send you both my face pic.

 

Christmas would then indeed be complete -- I bet you have a beautiful smile

[Guest Kenny021]

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Face pic is MUST for me...preferably attached to a BODY shot and "face,body,dick" shots a big bonus. I like to see what I'm buying and it's not unusual for escorts to send body and dick shots that are not of them. If they refuse to send face shots, I refuse to hire them.

[Michael]

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>Hey, it's worked for me.

>

 

Well, a face pic is nice but, for me, it certainly isn't essential.

 

I'm much more interested in seeing pictures of the parts of the escort's body where *my* face is going to be ...

 

.... and Rick's pictures look just fine to me :9 :9 :9

[Zeek]

As a client, the face pic is important. if I like it then I may ask for a pic of pecs (that is a big turn on to me) but the most important is the personality when he email and talk with me on the phone. I love to kiss and hug but that is not a must if I like the face pic and personality.

 

When I hire someone it is the whole person, inside and out, and I want to think we could be friends.

 

Just my $.02

 

Hugs Zeek

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>Just wondering if it is realistic to try to get by without

>using a face pic.

 

You probably won't do as well as you could otherwise but you should most likely get be able to by, especially if as more reviews come in they vouch for how nice your face is. A friend of mine who does just fine -- charges a lot more than I do, in fact -- said he's even had clients who are extra worried about discretion tell him that they prefer hiring guys who don't show their face on the net. Of course, he's got a nine-inch dick, which hasn't done his business too much damage... ;-)

[VaHawk]

I agree with all your points, but I don't know how much friendship one could expect to find in a one or two hour session, but personality and the whole package are of utmost importance if you are going to spend the weekend or more together. I have always been a "face person" so it is the most important asset to me and I would not personally hire anyone without a facial picture. It does not have to be a full facial shot but enough to give an idea of what the guy looks like. Don't have to be a matinee idol type, just attractive.

[LovesYng]

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I like seeing the face shot then the rest of the body. What is a big turn on for me is that some of my escorts travel with me and I love showing them off when we are out on the town for the evening. I want people to take notice of him and a lot do, that gets me even more horny and I can't wait to get him back to the hotel:9

[Rick Munroe]

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>Maybe someday it will be all over me face

 

Yeah, that would really get me smiling. We need to do that. }(

[Rick Munroe]

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>Rick is on my List for 2003

 

Rick can't wait for the new year already.