How much do you fake during sex?

[Guest Love Bubble Butt]

I find this to be an interesting question. But as much as I'd like to know the answer too, I don't think you're going to find any escorts admitting that they do any faking. Let's face it, that would not be too good for business.

 

You're most likely going to get a lot of a) "I find something attractive in all my clients", b) "I just really enjoy sex", or c) "I get turned on when I sense the client is turned on." And any of these might be true to at least some extent.

 

But if an older, unattractive, over-weight guy cannot honestly tell if the young, gorgeous, muscle stud is really turned on or is just faking it, then the escort is a REAL PRO in every sense of the word!

 

(Note: I'm speaking very generally here; I'm not implying that you are any of these things.)

[Guest Fin Fang Foom]

I have one word for you:

 

Viagra.

 

Priapically yours,

 

FFF

[Guest Collie]

>I find this to be an interesting question. But as much as

>I'd like to know the answer too, I don't think you're going to

>find any escorts admitting that they do any faking. Let's

>face it, that would not be too good for business.

>

>You're most likely going to get a lot of a) "I find something

>attractive in all my clients", b) "I just really enjoy sex",

>or c) "I get turned on when I sense the client is turned on."

>And any of these might be true to at least some extent.

>

>But if an older, unattractive, over-weight guy cannot

>honestly tell if the young, gorgeous, muscle stud is really

>turned on or is just faking it, then the escort is a REAL PRO

>in every sense of the word!

>

>(Note: I'm speaking very generally here; I'm not implying

>that you are any of these things.)

 

There we go again with agism. There are many gay bars in an area where I have to pass daily, and I see, "younger", unattractive, over-weight guys all over the place, guts hanging out, etc. Ralph Lauren is probably one of the sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy. Young and sexy do not necessarily go hand in hand.

[Guest Love Bubble Butt]

>There we go again with agism.

 

No, we're not going there again. I even made a point to state that the statement was a generalization. It was a simple example to make a point. A point obviously missed by you.

 

 

There are many gay bars in an

>area where I have to pass daily, and I see, "younger",

>unattractive, over-weight guys all over the place, guts

>hanging out, etc.

 

I don't know about you, but I don't have to drive by a gay bar to see younger, unattractive, over-weight guys. Unfortunately, I see them everywhere.

 

 

> Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

 

Although I don't particularly find Ralph Lauren sexy, I know that many men (and women) do. But I do agree with you about about Harrison Ford. I also think that both Sylvester Stallone and Arnold Schwarzennegar(sp?) have aged extremely well. And Clint Eastwood, who has got to be in his late 60s (at least), is VERY attractive. But whom people find sexy varies.

 

 

> Young and sexy do not necessarily go hand in hand.

 

I agree. I never said they did.

 

It would appear that my making a point about whether escorts fake their enthusiasm or not has personally offended you or has your feelings. That was not my intention; I apologize.

[+ Lucky]

I once had an escort fake it so well I never knew he was a no-show!

[ad rian]

>Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

 

This is a joke, right?!

[jackhammer91406]

ROFLMAO

[Guest GuyNextDoor]

>>Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

>

>This is a joke, right?!

>

>

Your response is a joke, right?

[ad rian]

>>>Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>>>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>>>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

>>

>>This is a joke, right?!

>>

>>

>Your response is a joke, right?

 

No, not particularly!

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

An Escort Answers

 

Well, it depends on what your definition of "fake" is.

 

Once a week, I awake at 4 a.m. and take a quick shower. Afterwards, the twinks spend about 5 hours painstakingly applying each individual hair on my body (I am actually naturally smooth).

 

Twice a week, I stand for two hours with a 10 pound olympic weight hanging from the edge of my penile implant to give the appearance of foreskin, since I am not really uncut.

 

Every afternoon, except weekends, I attend foreign language courses for twenty two minutes per language, since I do not even speak the English language well.

 

Once a week, usually on Tuesday, I get my my B-12 shots, and my first set of testosterone injections. I also receive botox later that day. Depending on how many clients I see that week, I either get the horse Deca or the donkey Deca and the other 3ML of testosterone before the weekend (so I do not turn into a big old bottom who can not get it up).

 

My teeth get whitened twice a week, I get my hair cut every third day, and once a month I have emergency liposuction (so I can pretend I am Rod Hagen with a bad dye job).

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>I'm surprised that it's hard to find a good

>muscle-daddy escort since all that's required for the part is

>a hot muscle bod and a willingness to be dominant but also

>affectionate.

 

Maybe the wording is getting in the way. Have you tried just telling the hot muscle bods you're interested in that you want them to be dominant but also affectionate with you -- but not bringing up the D-word? A lot of people are going to associate the word "daddy" with leather scenes and/or S/M, or they'll think you actually want someone older. If the only thing that distinguishes this younger muscle guy to be a daddy is that you call him daddy, then I think you could safely wait to bring that up until you've met and gotten things going. If they're just getting an email saying you want a muscle daddy, a lot of guys are just going to assume they're not what you'd want.

 

>I try to imagine what it's like to be an escort in order to

>answer questions like this for myself, but my imagination is

>limitted because I have to admit I'd make a lousy escort. The

>escorts I really like seem to have an incredible libido, a

>magnificent body and an ability to get into sex with even

>average people like myself. I'm the opposite: average looking,

>average libido and very picky.

 

In a way I think you've just answered your own question. If the guys you like have incredible libidos and and an ability to get into sex with "even" average guys, then "faking it" probably isn't really an issue.

[Guest jeffOH]

Sure, I fake it with clients all the time. I'm fulfilling their fantasies, not mine. The better escorts can make you believe that they're really into it. I enjoy sex, but for me there are different kinds of sex. I've had clients ask me if I'm as into it as I appear to be and I always respond, "Yes I am". I may be enjoying the blowjob or whatever, but I'm not enjoying the scene in the same manner the client is. I often get off on seeing the pleasure I'm giving. Remember the TV commercials for Memorex tapes? Is is live or is it Memorex? If you can't tell the difference, what does it matter?

 

Viagra does make things easier(and harder}( ). It frees me up to concentrate on technique. I know escorts who don't want their clients to know that they take Viagra. I think it's kind of silly to lie about it. I take it before every client and I know that I'm a better top as a result.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[hiJinX]

I've got a weird role reversal thing going on. I'm more interested in finding out what the escort likes and giving him that so it is a genuine experience. If an escort prefers women', I'd rather get a voyeurism kick out of watching him with a girl than have a have assed attempt at gay for pay. If an escorts likes to be rimmed (Hi Rick!) I want to be the best ass eater he's ever had.

It helps that my preferences are pretty broad and variable that there isn't much I couldn't get into. But that is so backwards.

[Guest GuyNextDoor]

>>>>Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>>>>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>>>>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

>>>

>>>This is a joke, right?!

>>>

>>>

>>Your response is a joke, right?

>

>No, not particularly!

Well, everyone to his own taste I guess

[Guest Dan]

>>>>Ralph Lauren is probably one of the

>>>>sexiest men around........in his sixties. Then there is

>>>>Harrison Ford, 60....and they are also sexy.

>>>

>>>This is a joke, right?!

>>>

>>>

>>Your response is a joke, right?

>

>No, not particularly!

 

you have to remember that this is Ad Rian. It's not the age of the guys that he's questioning, it's the fact that they both have Jewish blood that repulses him.

 

Dan D.

[Guest Dan]

Let's see: you hire and escort and he gives you what you want and yet you are wondering if he's faking it? I'm wondering if this has something to do with the overfemnization of the gay culture. After all, when we cum, we shoot a load of spunk. I'd say that's a pretty good indication that nobody's faking anything.

 

Unless of course you're hiring tantric escorts that is!

 

Dan Dare

http://gaydar.co.uk/dandarela

[ad rian]

>It's not the age

>of the guys that he's questioning, it's the fact that they

>both have Jewish blood that repulses him.

 

No, its their age, but I am repulsed by Israelis, Zionists and hirsute mongrel Jews like you though!

[Guest lieut_kije]

I'm an average looking guy (43, 5'10", 155 lbs) but nonetheless, I have been with some magnificent muscle guys that seem to have had a great time with me. If they were faking it, I'd say they'd do better as an actor. But maybe there are lots of good unemployed actors out there that are escorts instead of bussing tables waiting for their big break. Which is it? The dozen or so best sex sessions I've had in my life were with four escorts that I'd "marry" if they were interested. All these escorts seemed every bit as excited as I was. We all professed love for each other, which of course was just the heat of the moment for them and of dubious sincerity on my own part.

 

On a slightly related theme, I'm a bottom boy into muscle daddies that are actually younger than I am (30-40). Most escorts seem to be turned off by this scene or, worse, they think the bottom wants to be abused. (I've had a problem with the latter, even when I explicitly tell them I want a dominant top but not an abusive one.) So I'm also wondering if daddy-boy scenes are considered "way-out-there". (I.e. if escorts were to be honest with me, they'd really say "grow up guy".) I'm surprised that it's hard to find a good muscle-daddy escort since all that's required for the part is a hot muscle bod and a willingness to be dominant but also affectionate. Perhaps the hardest request for an escort to fill is to make love to a client?

 

I try to imagine what it's like to be an escort in order to answer questions like this for myself, but my imagination is limitted because I have to admit I'd make a lousy escort. The escorts I really like seem to have an incredible libido, a magnificent body and an ability to get into sex with even average people like myself. I'm the opposite: average looking, average libido and very picky.

[VaHawk]

Since when does an escort always give you what you want and paid him for? I doubt if any client is batting a 1.0000 here. I guess you're a top if you are shooting the spunk, but isn't it easy for a bottom to fake it? :o

[Rick Munroe]

>After all, when we cum, we shoot a load of spunk.

>I'd say that's a pretty good indication that nobody's faking

>anything.

 

I think you're missing the point, Dan. Just because someone can make himself pump out a load does not necessarily mean he is genuinely enjoying himself. He could be having a rotten time but be able to fantasize & make his mind go to a place that gets him off. That's why I never promise that I will cum; what I say is that I like to cum (and often do) but that it isn't my primary goal within an allotted amount of time (blech...that sounded so corporate). I want quality time...period. I want to have fun & I want the guy I'm with to have even more fun. It's all about taking responsibility for your pleasure. I make sure I know what turns my partner on & I make sure I get what I want out of it, too. That way, faking never has to enter the equation.

[Guest GuyNextDoor]

>>It's not the age

>>of the guys that he's questioning, it's the fact that they

>>both have Jewish blood that repulses him.

>

>No, its their age, but I am repulsed by Israelis, Zionists

>and hirsute mongrel Jews like you though!

Gee, I'm all of that stuff! That Ad Rian is one smart guy.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

this subject really needs a book written on it

[+ Lucky]

How about "The Second Take; the First was a Fake" by Michael Johnson?

[Guest feisty1]

>On a slightly related theme, I'm a bottom boy into muscle

>daddies that are actually younger than I am (30-40). Most

>escorts seem to be turned off by this scene or, worse, they

>think the bottom wants to be abused. (I've had a problem with

>the latter, even when I explicitly tell them I want a dominant

>top but not an abusive one.)

 

I think Devon answered your question about "faking" as succinctly as is possible. But on your related theme, I just wanted to say that if the opportunity ever presents itself, you should check out Enzo (reviews in the NY section, pics on Rentboy). When I described something similar to what you're looking for without actually using the term "muscle daddy," he said in his oh-so-sexy Brazilian accent, "oh, so you'd like sort-of a young muscle daddy?" I think you two would get along very nicely! :-)

 

Michael

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

damn your good lol