threesomes and pricing

[Guest roninx]

Hi all! :-)

 

I'm kind of new at this and had a question about threesomes?

 

I received an email from a potential client asking if I do threesomes and asking my rate.

 

I quoted my normal rate but should I have charged more for the threesome?

 

Also, later he said this threesome is with him and a friend... I was a little leery of doing a threesome with a guy and his friend. If it was another escort maybe or someone he didn't know...but not sure.

 

Am I just being paranoid? Just wondering. Would appreciate any input.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

It Depends

 

No, first off, you are not being paranoid about going into a situation with two men who know each other, versus one where you and another escort will come to meet one client (and, of course, these potential scenarios work both ways). Should this be a serious concern?

 

It really depends on a lot of factors: what do this gentlemen expect, where will the appointment take place, and how long will the appointment be. If you are to be in their home and they have expectations (restraints, for example) with which you are not comfortable, and you have any hesitation at all, simply decline the appointment.

 

I make my friends, the Twinks, call me and leave me a message: I am going to a house in the Hills on such and such an address to meet "John Doe" - number 555-5555 and I am supposed to be there an hour IF they have any doubts in their mind about the appointment. Then I make them call me when they get back home to make sure they are OK. You may want to set up a similar situation with a friend of yours.

 

As for pricing, that also depends on the expectations of your clients and length of appointment. I was in San Francisco for an overnight and my client asked to go on line to find a third person to join us. As I was already collecting a substantial fee, I did not request nor require an additional payment, but I did request (and received) veto rights over the third person.

 

I have done couples back to back and treated that as two one hour appointments. However, when I have done a couple at the same time, I have charged the same. I do this because when a client asks me for a second top (which is a typical request for me), the client generally pays us both our regularly hourly rate.

 

Some escorts believe that two clients or a situation which is not just a one on one involves more work and therefore want a premium. I do not, but it appears from previous comments on this board that I would be in the minority on that perspective.

 

Gentlemen?

[Uncle Bill]

Thought I'd add my two cents as a client as to the fees. I like 3-ways from time to time, but always do them with 2 escorts (I'm totally closeted). Normally, I don't haggle with an escort on fees, but 3-ways are an exception.

 

Since the total cost is so high (two escorts, dinner, etc.) and since I pick guys who will really like each other (if they don't know each other, I put them in contact ahead of time to make sure the chemistry will be good), I ask each escort if they are open to discounting his fee for the event. It may just be the guys that I hire (and I always use guys that I've hired separately before), but they have been very willing to give me discounts. While they still have to put up with me, I find that the guys I match are totally turned on by each other, so I don't feel so bad about asking for a haircut on the fees (15-30%, but since it's for a several-hour date, the guys still take home a substantial amount of money).

 

That being said, in a session that I am in the process of setting up right now, while I received offers to discount from both escorts (one offer was solicited by me, the other not), I'm actually paying one of them more than normal -- so that they both get the same amount, which only seems fair since they are both really great escorts.

 

Bottom line, while I'm willing to pay normal fees for 3-ways, I would not consider paying a premium if 2 escorts were invovled (if it was in a 2-client situation, I'd probably increase the tip if the escort was great, but I most likely wouldn't agree to a higher fee up front).

[Guest roninx]

Thanks for all the helpful info...one of the reasons that I love this place so much. :-)

 

One of the issues of pricing that came to mind was if it was another escort then I would probably charge the same since the client would be paying for both escorts but since this is a friend...aren't I then working for him AND his friends? That is what it seems like to me so maybe a slightly higher fee is needed?

 

I will be careful about the situation and talk to him about the circumstances just to be safe...I will always err on the side of caution if necessary. Thanks again for the input.

[Chuck50]

I have never had and escort charge me more if it were escorts involved. Now others maybe but I havent done that. Mine have always been with another escort and them. some 3 somes and some 4 somes. All have been with one particular escort and them. What has been hot was me and 3 other escorts. HUGS Chuck

[jackhammer91406]

chuck,

you devil. I have always been fascinated by three ways but I have only just begun to hire and get so nervous with one, I would probably have cardiac arrest with more than one , much less three and me.

 

jack

[+ Lucky]

If you are charging only for your time, as do most escorts, it would not matter if there were a second person there. But I would suspect that entertaining both would take more time, and thus extend your fee.