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[Guest Casden24]

I was just wondering if anyone had any comments on the following situation. I have seen this one escort a few times in the past few months. He has recently said that he is retired but has kept making appointments for me. Should I keep the appointments and is this a usual thing? I do not want to see him if he is not into it but I was wondering if this is just a way for him to not take on any new clients? Any suggestions or comments would be welcome. Thanks

[KY_TOP]

If he still wants to see you...and you him...why not? Many Escorts are in it for the short term for a specific financial reason (i.e. school, getting out of debt, down payment for house, etc...). I have seen several that are paying their way through school. I have seen a "regular" a couple times this past year that "has reached his goal" for school funds and is now only going to see a few regulars, no one new. He is also afraid of, in his words "getting caught" by friends or family or even the authorities.

 

Did he say he was only willing to see you or other regulars also?

[phage]

Don’t over think it. If he didn’t want to see you anymore…he wouldn’t. But don’t read anything into it either. It is highly unlikely that he is continuing to see you because of any kind of emotional attachment.

 

I’ve actually had two guys do this. They wanted to cut back on the risk and unease of meeting new clients and just see some regulars. They made it clear that they would like to continue seeing me and I took it as a compliment – that I was a good client – nothing more.

[OneFinger]

I'm not an escort but here's what I did when one of my "regular" escorts retired.

 

I asked him if that meant no more new clients or no more clients at all. He said no more new clients but that I was still welcome to call him. I thanked him for the clarification but told him that I wanted him to be up-front and honest with me when he stopped seeing all clients. I think I bluntly told him that he could pull the plug whenever he wanted but to be sure and clearly communicate that to me.

 

We continued meeting for almost a year. He then indicated he was giving up the business entirely and was in a long-term relationship. We still exchange Christmas cards and see each other at some social functions and concerts.

 

If your guy continues to make appointments then don't worry about it. But, please, don't send him referrals.

[ad rian]

>I asked him if that meant no more new clients or no

>more clients at all. He said no more new clients but that I

>was still welcome to call him. I thanked him for the

>clarification but told him that I wanted him to be up-front

>and honest with me when he stopped seeing all clients. I think

>I bluntly told him that he could pull the plug whenever he

>wanted but to be sure and clearly communicate that to me.

 

This is very good advice. I suspect that if the escort retires and goes part-time, over time, it will be harder to fit you into his schedule. It must be difficult to be professional about appointments when you are no longer a professional, or at least that has been my observation from a recent experience.

[nate_sf]

It's not unusual for an escort to retire gradually, initially by stopping advertising and taking on new clients, but still continuing to see existing clients. This can sometimes go on for years, so keep your appointments as long as he keeps making them with you. It's also not unusual to for an escort to stop taking new clients when he's getting too busy but keep seeing the existing ones, and then later on start advertising again when circumstances change. In any case, let him know you're interested to keep having appointments as long as he is, and he'll let you know if the the time comes when he's ready to retire once and for all.

[OneFinger]

>...It must be difficult to be professional about appointments when you are no longer a professional, or at least that has been my observation from a recent experience.

 

I'm not quite sure how to take your comment. Are you claiming that part-time escorts are not professionals? I never had a problem with that escort (or any other part-time escort) treating me with respect and acting as a true professional.

 

Perhaps your recent experience was a result of you and your actions or attitudes and not a result of their part-time status. My observations of you, based on your recent postings, leaves me with the impression that you are probably rather difficult to please.

 

I'm not sure your observations are consistent with that of normal people.

[ad rian]

>I'm not quite sure how to take your comment. Are you claiming

>that part-time escorts are not professionals?

 

No, my comment was with respect to "the escort retires and goes part-time". Can you read?

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

I 'retired' in November after 12 years as an escort but i will still have clients who i will see,if the escort is still willing to make appts for you and everything is fine then why worry ?.

 

It took me a year to gradually ease out of escorting and i didn't take on any new clients from early 2001 although i've never had a big client base never more than 15 at one time-that's just how I like to work and because i was exclusive and therefore expensive it didn't matter that i didn't work every day or every other day come to that.I didn't do the 1/2hr thing for me a minimum appt was 3hrs and 95% of my business was 'overnights' or weekends and the odd week.

 

A lot of escorts 'retire' for a variety of reasons some have been mentioned already ,if they truly give up the business then you will know until then keep on enjoying their talents.

[Guest Dan]

You know, instead of this, you should have posted, "Hey, Guys! Get this! An escort I see has retired, but he's still seeing me because I'm so fucking cool!

 

Sort of like the glass is half-full. }(

 

Dan Dare

http://meetlocalmen.com/mlm/dandarela.html

[dick_nyc]

Love your response. I think you hit the nail on the head. If the escort is going to semi-retire and selects you to be on his list if you like, then you must be someone he likes to see even on a commercial basis and someone he feels comfortable around. If you weren't, then he would just tell you to fuck off!