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[Guest luv2luv]

Even though I can like an escort very much and I have, each and every one, I always go to a new one, either the very next time or after a few times with the same guy. Either I'm afraid I'm developing something special for the escort or I'm still looking for the first or new experience. If each escort knew I was doing this would he take it personally or does he expect this? Believe me , for the great times I've had over the past 4 years I wouldn't do anythig to hurt the feelings of any of the escorts I've been with. You've all been terrific! always, Joey:)

[+ Lucky]

This is a good question. I I was dating someone and wanted to end it, it would be expected that I talk to him about it. But in a commercial situation, where everything has been to my satisfaction, do I tell the escort that the thrill is gone and I want to see someone new?

[Guest fukamarine]

>This is a good question. I I was dating someone and wanted

>to end it, it would be expected that I talk to him about it.

>But in a commercial situation, where everything has been to

>my satisfaction, do I tell the escort that the thrill is

>gone and I want to see someone new?

 

I don't see why you should feel any obligation to do so. Try someone new and if it works for you, you'll know you made the right decision.

As for the present escort - well he'll get the message soon enough, that the "cash cow" has moved on.

 

fukamarine

[Guest luv2luv]

>>This is a good question. I I was dating someone and wanted

>>to end it, it would be expected that I talk to him about it.

>>But in a commercial situation, where everything has been to

>>my satisfaction, do I tell the escort that the thrill is

>>gone and I want to see someone new?

>

>I don't see why you should feel any obligation to do so. Try

>someone new and if it works for you, you'll know you made

>the right decision.

>As for the present escort - well he'll get the message soon

>enough, that the "cash cow" has moved on.

>

>fukamarine

 

always, Joey

[Traveller]

I feel the escort deserves something special after you've decided to move on to another bird of youth. When you've determined that someone else is going to pleasure you, you've got to let the escort down gently. Get him something to remember you by; and a box of candy or flowers just doesn't say the same thing as a sterling silver Felching is Forever ensemble from Tiffany. Of course you'll engrave his pet name next to yours on the frame the picture of your cum dripping down his ass. And you simply must put something pithy (and for those of you who are enunciatingly challenged, this word doesn't mean bitchy) on the rodent router. (Don't you just love the way that Tiffany's name can make the mundane seem regal.) Simple words to live by.

 

Later.

[+ Lucky]

Thanks, trav. I knew you would know just what to do!

[LovesYng]

I got five (5) regulars that are all special to me and they know about each other. Each one is different in bed and that's the fun about them. But it's nice at times for a new guy just for the spice. :9

[Flower]

> I wouldn't do

>anythig to hurt the feelings of any of the escorts I've been

>with. You've all been terrific!

>always, Joey:)

 

DUDE it's a business deal. Sure it's more personal than most, but still--does he get your permission or approval to see other clients. I really get to like a lot of the escorts that I see but I think that most escorts expect (or should expect) their clients to see other escorts without "confessing" or seeking "permission", unless there is some understanding (that is mutually benifitial) to the contrary. Certainly the good ones deserve your respect and kindness, but any more than that is beyond business-- if your relationship with them has developed to such a degree that you both feel something beyond business, then only you can answer the question. IMHO :+

 

Flower :*

[Guest luv2luv]

Thanks, That pretty much satisfies me for an answer. My perogative of choice seems to have popular consensus in my favor. Maybe it's the escort who projects an aura of vulnerability, or it's like abandoning a favorite player on the team I'm rooting for in the name of new blood. Sometimes I feel like I'm auditioning the Giants and the prospective actors for an off-off broadway play at the same time. I should just compose a script before my next encounter to make sure I get exactly what my fantasy calls for and forego spontanaity. always, Joey

[btmstudnyc]

Luv,

 

Of course most of us understand if you only want to use services once. Just one tiny itsy bitsy favor. Please just tell us if you use our services more than once, what the deal may be. I prefer the truth....for example "you were hot in bed...and I love guys and I hope the next escort I hire is hot too" Or "your a terrible cocksucker and your ass is loose"....I really would appreciate that more than to be left hanging. It also stops me from barking up the wrong tree. Otherwise, I'll keep sending you an email once a month to remind you of me....HEHE...

 

Hey, we all want to feel like we did a good job, and if I was terrible....I would like to know that too. Of course you could just blow off each one (no pun intended) It's not a big deal....but when you work...dont you like to know that your client at least appreciated you...even if they only used you for that one time.

 

Luv, You seem like a really wonderful guy. So I know I'd appreciate any email back from you regardless. And hell, I'd even give you a lead on another escort that I think you might like. Good luck to you...and Happy Trails.

 

JIM

 

 

 

:+

[guyinsf]

I try to communicate to guys I hire with whom I had a particularly good time that I enjoyed myself and would like to contact them again. Many times I end up hiring them again, but sometimes I don't. Perhaps it's just me, but I expect someone to be a little bit more "friendly" with someone who expresses an interest in becoming a repeat client. By friendly I don't mean to act like we are really friends; I mean being a little more "warm" or enthusiastic about being sought out again. If I email someone for a repeat and all he can do is reply with his phone number, I'm turned off and unlikely to follow through.

 

I generally agree with what's been posted above, even though I know that personal relationships with escorts can develop along with the business relationship. Still, the escort is obviously seeing many other clients; why should a client feel like he is obligated to be "loyal" to any given escort? Unless the arrangement is an exclusive one (ie, a "kept boy"), I cannot imagine either party having any reasonable expectation of sexual fidelity or even an endless business relationship. (That being said, I hope I stop wanting to hire escorts before my favorite guy decides to stop escorting -- I'm hooked! Is that where the term "hooker" came from?)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Common Courtesy

 

Once again, most of the very reputable, well reviewed escorts, while not in Jimmy's Nobel Peace Prize league nor the second coming of Mother Theresa, would genuinely care about the client's pleasure. We would not have the reputations we have nor the good reviews (at least those of us who do not write our own good reviews) we have, if this was not true.

 

I am not suggesting we are gods, nor that we should be cherished. But Jim is quite correct. If someone hires me once and I never hear from the again, unless they are a tourist or I am on a working vacation and meeting again is unlikely, I am certainly curious why I am not contacted again. I have a large number of regulars. Some of these are men who have hired me twice in nine months. That is what they can afford or that is what meets their needs.

 

I certainly do not question that nor do I feel I am entitled to. However, if a client hired me several times, expressed satisfaction repeatedly and then stopped hiring, I would appreciate a short, to the point explanation, as a business might provide to a vendor: we are purchasing our toner cartridges and copy paper from XYZ, Inc, because their customer service and pricing is very good. Unlike this vendor, I would not contact the client and try to under my rates. However, I would appreciate knowing if I had done something wrong or had in some way been unsatisfactory, or simply if the client was satisfied but wanted to experience something new, so that I would not wonder what, if anything, I had done wrong.

 

That is not an unreasonable way for commerce to be conducted.

[Bilbo]

Origin of word "hooker"

 

OK, I'm doing this from memory and could easily be wrong. During the War Betweeen The States, Yankee soldiers were garrisoned in New Orleans. The 'governor', General John Lee Hooker, was a fairly practical and humantarian man, evidently, as he realized that his men would need the services of escorts. He ruled that prostitutes could ply their trade but only in one section of town. Since they were in the habit of signaling where their houses were with a red porch light, it became known as the red light district. I have heard that male prostitutes used to signal their houses with a blue light, but have never seen it done, and probably won't, now, what with its connotations with Blue Light Specials at a certain store chain, thought by many to be a bit less expensive even without these sudden sales. Cheap boys do not sell well. Anyway, because of this support given them, they were often jokingly referred to by the general's last name, Hooker's, and the nickname stuck.

[btmstudnyc]

RE: Common Courtesy

 

geez Franco..your so Official sometimes.

 

I know you'd rather hear...I love your fat cock...but I want to fuck your tight hairy ass....so I have to move on because your not the bottom boy I need.

 

Or,

 

I wish you could suck my dick like I suck chrome off a bumper.

 

Any reply though is appreciated...even an official one.

 

Your XYZ Cartridge can be found elsewhere for cheaper and with a lot more thrust, and bigger and longer and can make more copies...AND does windows.

 

JIM

 

You rule Franco!..well..at least in the west....dont show your ass here..otherwise I'll have to lick your ass.....OH>>> I mean...KICK your ass.

[CT Dick]

RE: Origin of word "hooker"

 

>OK, I'm doing this from memory and could easily be wrong.

>During the War Betweeen The States.....

 

Was that also known as the Civil War? ;-)

 

Dick

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

The Rick Munroe Of The West

 

>I know you'd rather hear...I love your fat cock...but I want

>to fuck your tight hairy ass....so I have to move on because

>your not the bottom boy I need.

 

>You rule Franco!..well..at least in the west....dont show

>your ass here..otherwise I'll have to lick your

>ass.....OH>>> I mean...KICK your ass.

 

http://members.aol.com/francoonduty/Images/monument.jpg

[Guest fukamarine]

RE: The Rick Munroe Of The West

 

>>I know you'd rather hear...I love your fat cock...but I want

>>to fuck your tight hairy ass....so I have to move on because

>>your not the bottom boy I need.

>

>>You rule Franco!..well..at least in the west....dont show

>>your ass here..otherwise I'll have to lick your

>>ass.....OH>>> I mean...KICK your ass.

>

>http://members.aol.com/francoonduty/Images/monument.jpg

 

Franco - you shouldn't try and show you ass in competition with the Monroe Monument. Sorry to say but you'll never win that one.

 

fukamarine

[btmstudnyc]

RE: The Rick Munroe Of The West

 

I'd still munch and lick on both their asses....why leave anybody out...I like to INCLUDE...not EXCLUDE.

 

Hell...I'll do a review when I'm done.

 

Side by side comparisons...yummy...thats like porkbutt or beefbutt....what am I in the mood for today?

 

Jim

[Guest luv2luv]

RE: Common Courtesy

 

I don't think it's so much a lack of common courtesy as just feeling awkward. If I say "you were great but I feel it's time to move on in my pursuit of true fullfillment" doesn't that contradict my statement of reassurance? The escort trade is an unsure profession requiring so much more because it deals with so many emotions at one time. The client is dealing with alot all at once in his own possibly uncertain head too. I have always feared also that an escort might press me for info on the new guy and an internal war might start. I'd never want to be the cause of that. If there is any chance of hurt feelings I'd rather leave them wondering because I try not to think for others, just be aware of possible consequences for my actions. I deal with alot of personalities in my profession also and when a co-worker gets a glowing review of some sort from from a client I might have had responsibility for at one point I wonder did I do something wrong? But, guess what, I quickly get over it and keep going. If you guys did spend time wondering what the hell happened to that one you'd never have time for new clients. You too might connect at some point with just the right guy who will become another faithful regular. You sure have more opportunity for that than many of the clients. Thank-you sir for letting me open up. always, Joey

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

The Other White Meat

 

>Side by side comparisons...yummy...thats like porkbutt or

>beefbutt....what am I in the mood for today?

 

I am not sure how observant the young man and while I do think he likes to thing of himself as piggish in his behavior, I do not know that he would like to be called "pork butt."

 

SEE LAST PHOTOGRAPH -

UPDATED 10/18/2002 - http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

I meant an EMAIL

 

I meant a simple, to the point explanation that would require, and indicated, no response was needed or necessary.

 

And, no, I do not stay awake and toss and turn all night wondering. I have a large base of repeat business and among that business, this situation has rarely arisen, and in each instance, a very simple explanation, from marriage with it attendent monogamy requirement, to a cash flow or other financial cause, has been indicated.

[Guest luv2luv]

RE: I meant an EMAIL

 

thanks, I just mean to say I take anyone's job as seriously as I take my own. but you are right on the money sir. always, Joey

[Guest WolfXing]

RE: Origin of word

 

As a native of the deep south, I've heard some people refer to that particular war as "The War of the Northern Aggression." :+ LOL (Sorry to post so far off topic, guys, but I couldn't resist chiming in with that!) Funny, isn't it, that it still stirs up feelings 150-ish years later?

 

 

 

>>OK, I'm doing this from memory and could easily be wrong.

>>During the War Betweeen The States.....

>

>Was that also known as the Civil War? ;-)

>

>Dick