Anal play and concerns about hygeine

[Guest jase]

This may be a dumb question but here goes. I have been with guys for nude massages, mutual masterbation, etc; but not for intercourse. I am planning on hiring an escort who has been reviewed here for that purpose and am concerned about hand and finger contact with the anus and rectum. I would enjoy fingering the guy and lubing and loosening him prior to intercourse. Being in health care I know that a number of diseases (not the least of which is hepatitis) can be spread by the anus, rectum and their contents. Also, it would not be pleasant if you happened to get even a little bit of a surprise on your fingers (I know that most people prepare for the event but nothing is 100%). Since the condom protects your dick from these things would it be appropriate or even OK to use a surgical type glove for this part of your encounter? Of course I would remove it once intercourse has started or anal play has ended. Am I being too cautious? Again, not only from the standpoint of disease but from the standpoint of cleanliness.

[CT Dick]

> Being in health care I know that a

>number of diseases (not the least of which is hepatitis) can

>be spread by the anus, rectum and their contents

 

Assuming that you have been immunized, that should not be an issue. Also, unless you have a break in the skin, aren't you pretty safe?

 

>Also, it would not be pleasant if you happened to get even a >little bit of a surprise on your fingers (I know that most people

>prepare for the event but nothing is 100%).

 

I have hired a very large number of escorts and NEVER have I had unexpected surprise.

 

Most guys are concerned with the issue of putting their tongue in an anus. I can't picture you being in risk putting your finger there.

 

NOT AN MD,

Dick

[+ Lucky]

Since you are in health care, I think you should definitely use gloves, and a dental dam if you are going to rim.

[Guest dstud4hire]

>Since you are in health care, I think you should definitely

>use gloves, and a dental dam if you are going to rim.

 

I would agree that a dental damn or surgical gloves should be used, it mat be less attractive, but certainly is the most hygienic. Also, from those of us who are bottom or versatile bottoms,we are very concerned about any extra surprises, so work hard at it, though of course, perfection isn't always gauranteed. But there are very little chances noheless, because of our concern for you ads well as our own safety.

 

I have to admit, if you are going to finger him, the idea of a surgical glove is a considerate one. Though I've had people finger me, (and I love it) very few have used a glove type apparatus, and to that extent, I've been ok, but have often wondered how closely trimmed their nails are, so in a very discreet way, I try to just get a feel for things, and if I even detect that someone isn't as finely manicured as they should be, then I try hard to avoid them fingering me.....anyway, just learned that from experience. IT is possible to be cut afterall....

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>I would agree that a dental damn or surgical gloves should

>be used,

 

Probably good advice but realistically, why would anyone even want to rim through a dentak damn. To me, all the pleasurable sensation would be lost and the taste - yuk!

 

 

Thunderbuns

[Huey]

> Am I being

>too cautious?

 

Probably. Though you should stay within your comfort zone.

 

Now if you really want to be safe I recall Howard Hughes used tissue boxes as slippers, one never knows what nasty bugs are lurking on the floor or worse the bedspread }>

 

 

 

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[foxy]

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[Chuck50]

Lets Just jack off and have no fun at all and we will be safe unless we buy the wrong kind of LUbe.. LOL HUGS Chuck

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Comfort Zone

 

>> Am I being

>>too cautious?

>

>Probably. Though you should stay within your comfort zone.

 

There really is not such thing as fully SAFE sex. We can only engage in SAFER sex practices, involving risk REDUCTION. Your own individual needs (and those of the escort involved) need to be taken into account.

 

Gabe's point about nails being not only short but well filed is an excellent one. I always trim my nails on what tend to be slow nights and make sure to file them several times and soften them with lotion as well. Not only is there the risk of a cut as Gabe mentioned, but there is also simply the consideration factor of having even a slightly rough, hard object inside you that lacks the give of a penis.

 

I am very concerned about guys being clean because even with a condom, there is always the risk of a urinary tract infection, particularly given that I am not circumcised. It can happen simply upon rolling down the condom or I that "surprise" is near the base which is not covered by the condom and the client asks me to slip the condom off and jerk off on his chest (as often has happened - the jerking off, not the "surprise').

 

However, by and large, guys have been clean. If a client requests to rim me, that is the one time I do prepare myself for his safety requirements and why I decline to have that done if that has not been the case in advance.

 

If you finger someone, I would keep a warm wash cloth with antibiotic soap lightly on it to rub your hands with and keep your hands away from nipples or the neck or the mouth area (and comparable) where the escort (or client) might transfer something to himself as well.

 

Of course, even if not uncut, you should urinate after sex, if you were the top, and you should shower and clean up. Not the sexiest and most romantic thing in the world, granted, but this is our health we are talking about here.

 

Be well and play SAFELY and SANELY!

[chrismac]

A Bottom's Pleasure

 

I had thought about starting another thread, but this one is close enough, so I'll divert a little here with this related question:

 

As a bottom, I try to be as clean as possible. This (for me) usually involves the following: not eating at least 12 hours beforehand (I have a pretty high-fiber diet, so I worry about "regularity" at the wrong time), using an enema several times starting 2 hours before the date, taking Immodium after the enema, then a shower to thoroughly clean out.

 

If this were just a once-a-week thing, it would seem OK. But more frequently than that, I worry about harming myself with all this activity at my bowel. Not to mention the insertion of a sometimes rather large penile member in rapid fashion. For those others who bottom frequently, how do you manage this? If I'm fortunate enough to have 3 dates or more in a week, I get a little anxious at the idea of constant preparation. How do the escorts do it? Any negative side effects?

 

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