Post-Covid Quality Issues

[jtwalker]

Post-Covid, I've been having a lot of trouble finding a good meetup.  I'm a shy guy, but I've learned to be up-front about my goals.  Pretty simple Kiss, Fuck, Cum type of bottom here, so nothing wacky or strange about what I'm looking for.  Three recent examples without names:

First guy is friendly via text, his fee is a little high $350 and he wants to be paid on arrival.  I talk him into $100 now and the rest later only to find out he won't kiss, barely hugs, and doesn't really want to top.  I kicked him out and he kept the $100.  Total waste of time, I left a bad review.

Second guy is rated fantastic on RM; has been for years.  He's friendly and a good top considering his small size.  But that's about all he really wants to do.  Tries to kiss, but holds his head back to keep the kiss very light, he's also not great at Oral.  Not a terrible experience, but just not what I'd expect from someone who is rated so well.  I left a good review, because at least he tried.  I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Third guy is younger (20's), not great English.  Maybe he didn't understand the text; I don't know.  He was friendly and a good kisser, but his place was dirty, he didn't have any lube, he complained about doing oral and finished me off in less than 20 minutes.  Afterward, he started to get dressed and seemed surprised when I left.  He thought I wanted to talk?  Why would I pay someone to talk?  Is that a thing?  If he's getting dressed, why would I stay?  I left a mediocre review (3-star) with the positives (friendly, good kisser) and negatives.  He initially responded with threats and then started begging and pleading.  I felt bad for him, so I deleted the review.  I really should've reported him to the webmaster about the threats, but I figured that he is just young and dumb so I let it go.  Also, there was not meat to his threats.

I would not rehire any of them.

Am I the only one struggling to find good hookups post-covid?  Are the best escorts moving to Only Fans?  I'm really not into on-screen encounters.  Whether in Central Florida or San Francisco, it just seems like the market is not what it used to be.

 

Edited April 24, 2022 by jtwalker

[+ KensingtonHomo]

We haven't had bad experiences with escorts recently but I feel like the erotic massage market has kind of taken a downturn. 

[NJF]

Had not have any new hires that were worthy of repeating. 

[Guest Looking4MuscleInSD]

I had no-shows for the last three attempted hires. They never called to say they weren’t coming. When I eventually reached them, they all had pretty lame excuses. “It slipped my mind to call you.” “I overslept and forgot to call you.” “I just broke up with my girlfriend and was bummed.” And so on. Give me a break.

[peter831]

I hear you. I have had two this year that were fun and engaging, followed through enthusiastically with all we had discussed, and were priced reasonably. Others said they kissed and then barely touched lips, had all kinds of special requirements, made it all about them, cut the session short, and were charging premium prices for subpar experiences. Another cancelled at the last minute. 

Edited April 25, 2022 by peter831

[+ Pensant]

Again, so glad to be three unique regulars aged 21 to 33.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I wonder if the reticence to kiss is COVID-related. 

[jtwalker]

1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I wonder if the reticence to kiss is COVID-related. 

I wondered the same.

[Luv2play]

Ive had great encounters the last year and been pleased that many are great kissers and follow through on the rest.

Regarding Covid, once I'm satisfied that they seem to be reasonable risks based on their profiles and our chats before setting a date, I just forget about the dangers posed by kissing. So far so good.

Edited April 25, 2022 by Luv2play

[+ DrownedBoy]

I've noticed something weird in my hiring. 

While there are good kissers out there, a lot of guys who list "kissing" don't want to really French kiss, even if I confirm before the meeting. 

For some reason, those guys have absolutely no problem shoving their tongue down my throat; they just don't want my tongue in their mouth.

Anyone else notice that?