Revisiting an escort

[Guest quester]

After a year of being a slut and visiting several different escorts, I decided to revisit one that I had seen 6 months earlier. I sent him an e-mail, asking if he wanted to repeat the experience, but there was no reply. Should I take his silence as a polite way of saying "NO!"? Is it true what mother always said, "men won't respect you if you sleep around"? Or doesn't this rule apply when your paying?

 

By the way, I don't think I smell and the escort didnt have to do anything more unpleasant than a hand job. Futhermore, I was gone within the hour and I paid the agreed sum.

 

I don't know whether to send another e-mail. He might consider it as harassment. Paying for sex wasn't meant to be like this.

 

What is the correct protocol for revisiting an escort? Should I let him know that I've seen him before or should I surprise him (even if it's an unwelcome surprise)? How would you react if you were revisited by a client you didn't like first time?

[+ Lucky]

This is a good question. I waited several months to call someone, and he seemed a little put out that I was hoping to see him that same day. (He said no.)

For me, I cannot plan these things ahead, because I only call when I am in the mood right then and now.

So, should we just move on rather than try to revisit an experience?

[Huey]

This time of the year many people vacation or travel for other reasons. It simply could be he is not at a location where he might be able to retrieve his email at the moment.

 

I would suggest sending one more follow up email. If you do not receive a reply move on to the next escort.

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[Guest jeffOH]

I really appreciate it when a client tells me that they have seen me before. But, I do need more than,"this is Bob...I saw you six months ago." ?? ;-)

 

I would politely excuse myself from the situation you described. There have been maybe a dozen or so clients who've made it to my DO NOT SEE list. Most made it there because of their attitude, others due to hygiene or alcohol/drug related problems.

 

Some clients are so polite and ask as they're leaving if they can call me again. I think you should just call and tell him who you are and that you saw him whenever it was and that you'd like to see him again.(and enjoy yourself!!)

 

JEFF

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[langster]

I myself love revisiting escorts. I do mostly overnight's and that usually helps me make my decide if we are to see each other again. Location, availablity and price also has alot to do with it also! I have been real lucky in the past, or should I say because of M4M, to find some extremly wonderful men who have always said yes to a revisit if I have asked for one or if they have asked me the same. Now sometimes it takes them awhile to get back, remember clients most of these guys have other lives and jobs to take care of and don't get back right away. Give them a few days and if you don't hear back, go out and find someone else, there are plenty of them out there. I just found one on another sight, sorry HooBoy, and will be writing a review on him soon and the best one I have found in New Oleans. To me the first encounter is always some what awkward and if you and the escort have a good time and click it is reasonable to go for the second because BOTH of you are over what we will look like, like sexually, ect. I also know that there are some of you out there who don't see an escort more than once, but everyone needs to float their own boat. So I say go for it.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Revisiting

 

Same day calls and last minutes, even with repeats, may not be accepted for any number of valid reasons. I prefer to do only one client a day and would only agree to see a repeat client if he understood and accepted that I did not feel I could give him my best as I had already done a client today. If the unexpected request was for before a scheduled appointment with someone else, I would advise the client that I would not be able to see him due to the prior engagement.

 

In any event, I do think the escort should have been courteous in his response.

 

Now for the specific question, one valid possibility has been raised, which is that the escort was on vacation. Another may be that the escort may not be retired. It would not hurt to state that you saw him before, when, etc. as Jeff suggests, and to send another e-mail. If that receives no response, it would certainly be appropriate to try another escort for a repeat or seek someone new.

 

Love is no substitute for sex.

[Bilbo]

Do email anyone at least twice. Remember that escorts get a lot of email including a lot of spam and you might have been accdidenly erased before your note was read.

 

When you are letting him know that it is a repeat, please remember that he probably has seen a lot of men in the last six months. If there is anything nonsexual that you can remember about the last visit, mention it. Don't make yourself sound like a stalker, but do give yourself some credentials.

 

On a semirelated matter, never mention that he has been recommended to you by someone else unless you can use that person's name and a short description. Otherwise, it comes off as a lie and would probably make me reject you as a client.

[Guest Charon]

Some Email addresses get shut down with no bounceback. AOL in particular does this to escorts. You might try phoning instead.

[Guest elwood]

When hiring escorts,I love the variety of meeting new people...but I have re-hired several escorts who I found that I particularly liked or "hit it off" with. In most cases,the repeat meetings were as good or better than the first. Most of my rehires are in cities which I frequently visit for business purposes. I have not developed any real relationship with any of these great guys outside of the business transaction but on repeat visits we are more relaxed and comfortable with each other.The escort I have seen the most times has indeed become a good friend..and we no longer have any financial or sexual relationship but see each other for lunch,dinner,movies etc.about once every couple of weeks or so.He lives in the city where I live and he has not been reviewed here and out of respect for his privacy,I have not reviewed him. But...back to the thread...yes...re-hires can be great......but newbies are too.

[Guest Dash]

Accept that each escort will run his business differently... Just be true to yourself and try not to whine.

[+ Lucky]

Okay.

[Guest BareBoy]

Surely if you like an escort and get what you want from him - both in the way of sex and just friendlin ess - nothing should prevent you from seeing him again? In the past I've had guys I've revisited regularly for two or three years. Why on earth not?