As a Provider, What About This Question?

[tanman4u]

I have quite a bit of travel coming up and traveling is my only time to hookup with guys.  I'll probably have time for two separate multiple hour meetings on this trip.  Typically with any Q&A with an escort I'm considering, he'll say something like "what are you into"?  

Here's my question, would it be wrong for me to answer with "whatever turns you on the most"?  Since I rarely get to spend time with a nuclear hot guy damn near anything will be pretty amazing for me.  The escort obviously spends WAAAAY more time with guys so I'd be more about whatever makes him happier or hornier or whatever.  I don't mean does he prefer to top or bottom as I'm always going to choose a top.  This would be more like wild versus mild?  Role play?  More oral than anal?

What do y'all think?

[+ Trebor]

I agree with you @tanman4u!  I always want to know what the guy I hire enjoys doing during our encounter. Part of what really turns me on is having my escort really turned on and enjoying the pleasure I enjoy giving as much as receiving!!

[+ DynamicUno]

I think about it like asking someone what they want to eat when going out.  If they answer "whatever you think" or something like that, I'm actually a little peeved.  At least give me a general idea I can work with.

I think a provider would prefer it if you answer with at least a little bit of your preferences.  If you say something like "I like bottoming and pleasing a guy, what really turns you on with a client?", it gives him just enough to know what you're looking for in a session and he'd probably say "that's great" or even elaborate on what he likes.

 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

When an escort asks you this kind of question, it's because he wants to know not only what your specific hot buttons are, but also if there are any things to avoid.  

A tiny map is better than no map at all.

[BuffaloKyle]

I agree with the responses so far. A provider might see that as a bit of a red flag and that you might not be serious. Asking what you would like to do and to hear back whatever you wanna do. Don't feel bad about telling him what you wanna do. You are paying him after all. You can ask then what things turns him on the most after you have laid out what things you like. I have a detailed client page on RM too to avoid this question. I also say in my initial message to a provider check out my page for all my stats and info. 

Edited April 4, 2022 by BuffaloKyle

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, tanman4u said:

I have quite a bit of travel coming up and traveling is my only time to hookup with guys.  I'll probably have time for two separate multiple hour meetings on this trip.  Typically with any Q&A with an escort I'm considering, he'll say something like "what are you into"?  

Here's my question, would it be wrong for me to answer with "whatever turns you on the most"?  Since I rarely get to spend time with a nuclear hot guy damn near anything will be pretty amazing for me.  The escort obviously spends WAAAAY more time with guys so I'd be more about whatever makes him happier or hornier or whatever.  I don't mean does he prefer to top or bottom as I'm always going to choose a top.  This would be more like wild versus mild?  Role play?  More oral than anal?

What do y'all think?

I think they mostly want to know if you are a top or a bottom.

Back to your question I think most of them would like to have a would be client asking that kind of question as long as he doesn't expect a detailed depiction of the encounter and how it will develop.

 Escorts don't have time for endless texting. 

 

 

[FewBricksShy]

My experience has been answering this question, if the escort even asks, in negative terms – saying what you don’t like. I’ve never had an escort actually do what I asked for if it was more than “fuck.” I’m pretty certain they’ll tell you they’ll do whatever and keep no record of what they’ve said before meeting you. Likely in large part because they see so many guys. So instead of being disappointed by having any expectations, I say what I don’t like. 

[Luv2play]

6 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

When an escort asks you this kind of question, it's because he wants to know not only what your specific hot buttons are, but also if there are any things to avoid.  

A tiny map is better than no map at all.

This is a very perceptive comment. It's not just what turns on both partners but what specifically is a turn off. Since we are talking about strangers getting together for an intimate encounter, getting things out on the table about what the client does not want to happen is absolutely essential for a pleasurable date. 

I always give a new escort a short list of things that I don't like. Its pretty short, thank goodness. So easy to remember. 😜