Why Do You Need My Pic

[Godiva]

I emailed an escort to set up an appointment..A few days later he replied asking if I could send him a pic of me.. Is this something new boys or should I move on?

 

BTW I will never send my pic...

 

G

[Guest Merlin]

I am not sure whether non-escorts are allowed to comment, so I will give it a try. When a escort asks me for a pic, I assume he is judgmental, i.e. looking for clients who measure up to his standards of looks, youth, etc. When I meet him I do not want to be wondering if I meet his standards, and I do not want to send him my pic and then wonder if I will hear from him again or if not, why not. If he asks for a photo, I look elsewhere.

[Guest jeffOH]

Well Godiva, there are some escorts who are very limited as to the types of clients with whom they can perform. They're asking for a pic to determine if you are too fat, ugly or old. I've never asked a client for a pic. You'll find that some of the best escorts are the ones who are able to deliver regardless of the client's physical appearance.

 

Don't send a pic. You're probably saving yourself some money.

 

JEFF

jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest JON1265]

I am not an escort either...but I will weigh in if I can...

 

I send a pic before they even ask....I like them to have some idea of what I look like before they arrive...just makes me feel better...

 

 

But I have NEVER been asked...I just do it...

[Guest Phillip]

You should not have to submit your pic; afterall, you're the shopper, the escort is the product. I agree that escorts that ask for pics may not be worth seeing, as being selective as if one were dating only shows that he is probably in the wrong business or in it for the short term.

Phillip http://www.blondegun.com

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>I send a pic before they even ask....I like them to have

>some idea of what I look like before they arrive...just

>makes me feel better...

 

I can definitely understand and appreciate the motivation behind this, and if it makes you feel better, do it, but...

 

I've found that I personally would rather NOT know what a new client looks like before I arrive, or (shameless plug approaching) now that I have a cute new apartment and can take all the in calls I want, before HE arrives. Why? Because at the hour of our appointed meeting, I am in a horny, open minded and friendly psychic space, i.e., I've got the right attitude for sparking a sexual connection with the person I'm about to meet, whoever he is. That person is about to catch me at my very best and at my most receptive (even if I'm not going to be bottoming). Sexually, I'm in Will Rogers mode.

 

When I'm reading my email? That's a total crap shoot. I might be in a giggly mood, I might be cranky, I might be tired, I might be hyper, who knows? Springing a picture on me when I'm not necessarily "on" ---- it's like you're automatically making your first visual impression under more haphazard and less ripe conditions. I might lapse into that skeptical, objectifying mode that people often occupy when they're looking at pictures on the Internet. Thumbs up, thumbs down. He's hot, he's not. Where are the flaws? Has this been Photoshopped? That's a fine attitude when one is shopping for an escort, but on the escort himself it stinks. That's why Godiva was put off by the guy that asked for a pic.

 

When I show up sight unseen? All I know about my client, apart from certain necessary details, is that he thinks I'm so hot that he would part with a nice chunk of change to spend time with me. He's already off to a great start as far as I'm concerned. :*

[Guest Dan]

I find that AOL clients will send me a pic even though i don't ask for one. However, I do like to get an idea of what the clients' build, just to get some sort of visual, but no picture is required. You're the client, not the other way around.

[Rick Munroe]

>...at the hour of our appointed meeting, I am in a

>horny, open minded and friendly psychic space

 

LOL Only in California!

[Godiva]

Is it just me? ..I guess I was taken a back..at how dare he ask me when I am payin..

I am sure he must lose alot of potential customers. Maybe he didn't realize what he did.

I don't mind if it is an unpaid get together but ......Hello

 

Is it just me guys??

 

G

[Rick Munroe]

>Is it just me? ..I guess I was taken a back..at how dare he

>ask me when I am payin..

 

I don't see any reason to take it personally. I never need anyone to send me a pic nor do I ever even ask for stats, but I think every professional escort has the right to have his own rules of operation. You may be right that he'll lose potential clients with that policy, but that's his problem!

 

What would Elaine say in this case? [h3]"Oh No"?[/h3]

:+

[Guest Dan]

whether an escort is in it for the short term or long term, there's still the right way and wrong way to do business! along those lines, i remember seeing an ad online recently for a French "authentic" Falcon star. this beauty said that only wealthy gentlemen would be "considered" as clients. (no pic requried, just your financial statement) then when you get to another one of his pics, is says "Special weekend rate for $1200."

[Godiva]

This is a good discussion..Thanxs for all of the responses..

 

I am wondering tho...For those of you who do request pics..if the client does not meet your standards do you let him know ..

 

And to you Mr Munroe....Ms Benice says.. Oh Yeah, Get Out, You want a Christmas Card?, You're through soup Nazi..No more soup for you!!;-)

 

 

G

[DaninWA]

I saw that guy's profile on AOL. I'm paraphrasing, but what it said was that only a man with a six-figure income would be considered as a sugar daddy. Then went on to mention the special overnight rate.

 

Dan (WA)

[Godiva]

So if the clients pic does not meet the escorts expectations does the escort let the client know??

 

 

G

[Guest discreet4exec]

Godiva,

 

I'm one escort who does not require a picture. Shame that there are insensitive escorts.

 

You'll run into problems time to time in dealing with escorts, but keep in mind that there are considerate ones like me out there, who you will, no doubt, also encounter.

 

Best regards,

 

Dave

 

Cleveland, Ohio - Downtown

discreet4exec@aol.com

[Guest wlalden]

I can understand that an escort may want to have some idea of your physical appearance. Many good escorts know they cannot perform properly with certain types of clients and are honest enough not to take clients they cant please. I make it a point to tell any escort what my stats and appearance are for that reason. However I absolutely don't send a pic for reasons of discretion, and If an escort insists I will not hire him.

[Godiva]

Thanxs again for the responses..Whats funny is this escort whom requested my face and body pic doesn't show his face on his website at all?

 

Whats up with that??

 

G

[Guest Masgboy]

Masgboy@aol.com

 

hi guys, Louis Jeralds in nyc, escort...

 

I would never ever ask for a clients pic .. thats very unprofessional. the escort that asks for your pic is being choosy and picking who he wants as clients by the way someone looks, thats not being professional at all.. and not a real escort .. you should avoid escorts that ask for pics.. that will tell you up front that you probably wont have a good time...

 

thanks

louis jeralds

[Rick Munroe]

>Whats funny is this escort

>whom requested my face and body pic doesn't show his face on

>his website at all?

>

>Whats up with that??

 

That's obvious. He wants to superimpose your face on his body.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>you should avoid escorts that ask for

>pics.. that will tell you up front that you probably wont

>have a good time...

 

Unless...I wonder if there are clients out there who WANT to feel like they're crossing some threshold, joining an exclusive club of people who are permitted to pay to get with this guy? Then they can say, "Well, he's VERY selective about who he'll see!"

 

I guess there's a market for everything...

[Godiva]

Hey Ricki..My head on his body with a few changes..I will substitute your ass for his and Derricks chest:*

 

Now.. where was I ....oh

 

Since those escorts who do ask for pic haven't responded to my previous question..(by the way if thats the way you do business thats fine) Then I will ask it a different way..

 

Are there any clients who were asked for a pic and after you submitted a pic were turned down or accepted.. I am curious how did it make you feel that you had to pass his test first then hand him his fee afterwards. Did it put a damper on the evening?

 

G

[N.N.]

I disagree. If an escort can't perform the same for every client,

or doesn't want to take all comers (no pun intended), that doesn't

make him anything less of a real escort.

 

If an escort and client choose to do business with each other, and

are both satisfied with their encounter(s), that's what matters.

Who cares whether the escort can also do the same for any other

client.

 

It's cool that clients are picky as hell about the looks of who

they hire, but uncool if escorts care one iota about a client's

looks? I say that's a form of double standard. I don't expect

an escort to be some kind of mechanical device, unaware or

unconcerned with something that matters to one degree or another

to most people on the planet.

 

I don't avoid escorts who ask for pics. The ones who've asked me

for a pic have all been very courteous about it, and in fact were

courteous about communicating with me in general. (If only I could

say the same about all escorts.) I note that one escort with excellent reviews on this site asked me for a pic--not as a

requirement, but as a polite suggestion.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

I don't

 

But I disagree with the man with the most pleasing if not most posted buttucks on the internet.

 

Some description is helpful, but it can be more in line of: I have sensitive nipples, I do not want more than one finger at a time in my ass, I just got the right nipple pierced, to the even more prosiac requests, which discretion suggests I will keep unstated. As I indicated elsewhere, I agree with the concept that the escort is offering the service and the client has every right to inspect the "goods" beforehand, communication is what makes for a good experience. If there is something that you think the escort should know, what do you gain by keeping it to yourself beforehand?

 

I never ask for pictures. It's unprofessional, it shows disrespect. I tell clients on line they may send them but it is unnecessary if they offer to do so. When they do, I do not react any differently. It's just another piece of information. Another piece of the puzzle and my objective always is to make the puzzle complete.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

My two cents...........

 

Confession is good for the soul I suppose,

 

I have never requested nor do I open a pic that has been sent to me for reasons stated allready. However, I have finally turned a client down after 4 years of never doing so because of the stats that where sent me. I know, I know your throwing your panties at the monitor now damning me to hell but, He stated he was 5'10 and weighed a healthy 435 pounds and wanted to top me. I replied I was a bit concerned about his size, he in turn made a very harsh remark about me only wanting "Gorgeous" clients. I replied back I have never turned away a client for reasons that regard loks, size ect, I realy was concerned about having 435 pounds on top of my 165 pound body, needless to say it never happened and to be honest sighed a breath of "Thank God".

 

I know people need affection, passion ect, but wouldnt be a bit much to ask to try for someone, or something you can manage.

 

Just my thoughts

 

Michael Johnson

San Diego, Ca

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[Guest Thunderbuns]

>He stated he was 5'10 and weighed a healthy 435 pounds

>and wanted to top me.

 

I don't want to sound rude - at least not too rude! - but I wonder if a man of his weight could top you even if you were willing. Wouldn't he have to have about a 13 inch dick just to get it to portrude beyond the rolls of fat????????????

 

Thunderbuns