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Lorshan in Chicago - Anyone met him?

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I blocked him after trying to set something up. He has a really bad attitude, with his "I have a real job so I don't need to do this" vibe.

He wanted a picture or a full description,  including my ethnicity. I balked at that, asking him why my race was important.  He replied I was free to hire someone else, so I took him at his suggestion. 

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42 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

I blocked him after trying to set something up. He has a really bad attitude, with his "I have a real job so I don't need to do this" vibe.

He wanted a picture or a full description,  including my ethnicity. I balked at that, asking him why my race was important.  He replied I was free to hire someone else, so I took him at his suggestion. 

When escorts are unionized and required to adhere to union non discrimination  policies, have health cards, etc, guys like him will be relegated to street hustling or dark corners of the internet

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"He has a really bad attitude, with his "I have a real job so I don't need to do this" vibe."

Good for him. Who wants to meet a client who is only interested if you have an attitude that that says "I'm financially desperate so I'll tolerate more from you"? Providers are entitled to as much discretion as they want with who they meet. No matter how ridiculous their criteria, they have the final word on their body.  

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1 hour ago, Cz.erdkuckuck said:

Also just cuts down their clientele base too lol

Sounds like he's doing just fine or at least fine enough to be selective, which some of those commenting have an issue with. They want their escorts with an attitude of desperation. That says more about them than any provider. 

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1 hour ago, rn901 said:

Sounds like he's doing just fine or at least fine enough to be selective, which some of those commenting have an issue with. They want their escorts with an attitude of desperation. That says more about them than any provider. 

That makes sense. I respect having boundaries. I do not appreciate his poor communication though. He can do what he wants, it’s just not the type of provider I’m looking for. 

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7 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

If I'm paying a provider 2 or 3 times what I'd pay a therapist with a Ph.D., they damn well better have a good attitude. 

Sounds like some providers want to have their cake and eat it too. That's fine. Don't expect me to fund it.

Your underpaid therapist isn't sleeping with you (well hopefully). A therapist can also kick out a client and decide which clients they see.  You didn't object to him having a bad attitude, you objected to him having an attitude of "I have a real job so I don't need to do this". On the one hand this isn't a real job? On the other you expect the same attitude as your therapist with a PhD, trained in mental health? You wanting an escort to have an attitude of financial desperation suggests you don't want reality where people have a balance of power in deciding what they do with their bodies. Too bad. You'll have to deal with the real world sometimes. Most escorts also likely don't have the same training of dealing with difficult clients as your underpaid underappreciated therapist, god bless them. 

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8 minutes ago, rn901 said:

Your underpaid therapist isn't sleeping with you. A therapist can also kick out a client and decide which clients they see.  You didn't object to him having a bad attitude, you objected to him having an attitude of "I have a real job so I don't need to do this". On the one hand this isn't a real job? On the other you expect the same attitude as your therapist with a PhD, trained in mental health? You wanting an escort to have an attitude of financial desperation suggests you don't want reality where people have a balance of power in deciding what they do with their bodies. Too bad. You'll have to deal with the real world sometimes. Most escorts also likely don't have the same training of dealing with difficult clients as your underpaid underappreciated therapist, god bless them. 

What reality do you live in?

Guess what. If I go to a store, and they act like they don't want my business,  I walk out. I work hard for my money, and worked even harder to get where I am...far too hard to be shamed by some quasi-Marxist spouting bad analogies.

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44 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

What reality do you live in?

Guess what. If I go to a store, and they act like they don't want my business,  I walk out. I work hard for my money, and worked even harder to get where I am...far too hard to be shamed by some quasi-Marxist spouting bad analogies.

The nature of the business of selling one's emotional labor and body isn't the same as selling merchandise to little miss Karen at a store. He had just as much as discretion as you in this transaction. Too bad. Get over it. 

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Very nice guy. And don’t mention his package. One of the nicest dick I ever had - the size, the shape, it was perfect. 
 

If you think provider should sleep with you just because you have money then shame on you. It needs to be a two way street for both of you to have a good experience. 

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