Exmormonhunk in LA

[Becket]

On 5/16/2023 at 6:37 AM, musclvr said:

First time I have seen this in an ad on rentmasseur:

"Must be showered, respectful and between 18-60. Clients above 60 will have a better experience elsewhere, thank you."

Good ol' Mormon honesty about his prejudices.

Lots of guys don't look their age. Not sure what a 60 year old looks like. So how does he do the screening? ID's at the door. 

Sorry @ajac. Somehow I missed your initial text on this question. Sending you a check to cover copyright violations.

Edited July 22, 2024 by Becket
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[Wanderoz]

1 hour ago, Redwine56 said:

He ran out of breakfast foods!  😂

That’s deep dish pizza!

[whmf]

Any recent experience?

[jeezifonly]

I'm glad he's honest about age limits before booking. 

[whmf]

34 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

I'm glad he's honest about age limits before booking. 

He doesn’t seem to have that written on his rentmasseur anymore. 

Hoping someone’s had recent actual experience to share...

[jeezifonly]

6 hours ago, whmf said:

He doesn’t seem to have that written on his rentmasseur anymore. 

Hoping someone’s had recent actual experience to share...

tbh I didn't read through the entire profile only because he's a type I would never spend money on. 

[Albi]

I saw him recently. Great body, great personality, very solid massage. Both naked, MT. HE was standard.

[whmf]

I’ve been trying to see him, but he’s flaked twice so far. He did ask for a picture. One appointment he chose a time frame, agreed he was available, then the morning of ignored the messages for confirmation address. The next day he had chosen a new time for another day, gave location for meeting, and then cancelled the morning of the appointment again.

[MeyerCuriousNYC]

Very flaky. But damn he’s hot.

[whmf]

So, I can’t help but wonder (but not accusing) if he screens people now with the photos for attraction. After he received the photo, he suddenly wasn’t available that day, and told me to check back the next day. I did, no answer. Messaged for general availability again later, and no answer. Prior to the photo he had availability. It seems that it’s at least possible that the photo is for screening.

[tsgarp]

16 hours ago, whmf said:

So, I can’t help but wonder (but not accusing) if he screens people now with the photos for attraction. After he received the photo, he suddenly wasn’t available that day, and told me to check back the next day. I did, no answer. Messaged for general availability again later, and no answer. Prior to the photo he had availability. It seems that it’s at least possible that the photo is for screening.

Sounds like you're on to something.

[whmf]

1 hour ago, tsgarp said:

Sounds like you're on to something.

haha I didn’t want to assert it as fact, just to give some benefit of the doubt. 😃

[wallnut]

3 hours ago, tsgarp said:

Sounds like you're on to something.

I haven't tried to hire him, but that sounds like it would be consistent with his prior screening of older clients. Seems like being personally attracted to potential clients is important for him. 

[whatswhat]

First review for this site. I read the reviews and decided to give him a shot. I had a really great experience. I'm 60 and average looking. He asked for a picture and said it was for his safety....When I go there he was sweet, and really hot. Built like a rugby player. His place is pretty, and comfortable. We talked about lots of stuff...he shared a very harrowing story about an experience with a client and now he asks for pictures. It made the request make more sense. About the massage - he's very strong and we were both nude and I left feeling happy and relaxed. I would go back weekly if I could afford it.

[Typical]

1 hour ago, whatswhat said:

First review for this site. I read the reviews and decided to give him a shot. I had a really great experience. I'm 60 and average looking. He asked for a picture and said it was for his safety....When I go there he was sweet, and really hot. Built like a rugby player. His place is pretty, and comfortable. We talked about lots of stuff...he shared a very harrowing story about an experience with a client and now he asks for pictures. It made the request make more sense. About the massage - he's very strong and we were both nude and I left feeling happy and relaxed. I would go back weekly if I could afford it.

I fail to see how a photograph might prevent a harrowing client experience. If a prospective client is a well recognized area sociopath, will he send his actual photo?  If the client is a less publicly known sociopath, will he send a photo that indicates potential peril? Will he send the picture of him with his ninja sword in hand? Or his photo showing fangs and blood?  I doubt it. If a client is nefarious, he probably won’t send a photo which indicates danger to establish an appointment, right?  Presumably even homicidal maniacs keep reasonably innocuous pictures on hand for just such an occasion. 
 

it’s a nonsensical request. 

[whatswhat]

Hmmm. All I can say is that he was a sweet guy and I had a great experience.

Regarding your comment...I can imagine wanting a picture if something bad happened to me. But I always send a picture anyway because it feels more equitable that I get to see this person and they should get to see me too. I don't think you'd hire a therapist without looking at rentmasseur or masseurfinder to see what the person looks like and it's unlikely any of us would book someone we haven't seen. If we are honest most of us hire for looks or type. 

[wallnut]

5 hours ago, Typical said:

I fail to see how a photograph might prevent a harrowing client experience. If a prospective client is a well recognized area sociopath, will he send his actual photo?  If the client is a less publicly known sociopath, will he send a photo that indicates potential peril? Will he send the picture of him with his ninja sword in hand? Or his photo showing fangs and blood?  I doubt it. If a client is nefarious, he probably won’t send a photo which indicates danger to establish an appointment, right?  Presumably even homicidal maniacs keep reasonably innocuous pictures on hand for just such an occasion. 
 

it’s a nonsensical request. 

I agree. Unsure the extent to which a photo reliably ensures his safety. 

7 minutes ago, whatswhat said:

Hmmm. All I can say is that he was a sweet guy and I had a great experience.

Regarding your comment...I can imagine wanting a picture if something bad happened to me. But I always send a picture anyway because it feels more equitable that I get to see this person and they should get to see me too. I don't think you'd hire a therapist without looking at rentmasseur or masseurfinder to see what the person looks like and it's unlikely any of us would book someone we haven't seen. If we are honest most of us hire for looks or type. 

I could potentially see that line of reasoning for an escort, but not sure for a massage therapist. 

[whatswhat]

Do or don’t send one - that’s up to you.

In my experience lots of people ask for pics.

Just sharing my thoughts not looking for some big debate. Personally I don’t think it’s an unreasonable request. You do you. 

Anyway - he was a sweet and sexy and gave a great massage.

[Typical]

3 hours ago, whatswhat said:

Hmmm. All I can say is that he was a sweet guy and I had a great experience.

Regarding your comment...I can imagine wanting a picture if something bad happened to me. But I always send a picture anyway because it feels more equitable that I get to see this person and they should get to see me too. I don't think you'd hire a therapist without looking at rentmasseur or masseurfinder to see what the person looks like and it's unlikely any of us would book someone we haven't seen. If we are honest most of us hire for looks or type. 

Masseurs provide their photos because they are marketing their services and handsome fellas in general get more clients and can charge higher rates. The “equity” of the situation is that the client is PAYING, and generally they are paying multiples of the amount they could hire an unseen random person in a random storefront down the street. It shouldn’t matter what the client looks like. If a client does appear in a Grim Reaper outfit, the masseur can bolt the door! 

I think I have been asked once out of hundreds of appointments over the years for a photo. I simply ignored the request and the appointment proceeded just fine without another mention. In NYC it doesn’t seem to be a thing because there are plenty of options and most clients would move to next. But, as you say, people can do whatever they wish with photos or tipping or whatever, but a picture request of a client is, as a practical matter, pointless, unless a therapist is screening. Okay then; I’ll send a photo if I get a discount. 😅

[whmf]

Just to echo hte above - if safety is making sure the person showing up is the person who’s texting you, wouldn’t a description of what you’re wearing be enough to know? I’m not sure what extra safety it offers. 

Having said that, I did send a picture, even though I typically NEVER do that, and that resulted in being ghosted. It made me question if it was really about “safety”.