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I didn't read the link but I trust you. So, how can one expect to be rimmed if there is this risk around?

You can protect yourself by taking precautions like talking to your partner as part of consent - ask him when he was last tested and if that testing includes oral and anal swabs.

 

Practice good hygiene by making sure you are super clean down there; douching and enemas can help with that.

 

You can also use a latex dental dam or tongue condom. ?

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You can protect yourself by taking precautions like talking to your partner as part of consent - ask him when he was last tested and if that testing includes oral and anal swabs.

 

Practice good hygiene by making sure you are super clean down there; douching and enemas can help with that.

 

You can also use a latex dental dam or tongue condom. ?

Haha, thank you! The dental dam or tongue condom could be too extreme as a precaution for me but having a conversation certainly could give a sense of how careful the provider is. I love being rimmed but I understand not all providers do this. I think I've been lucky enough to have hired good tops that would do this for me, yet not having any health issues down there, after any encounter.

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Can I ask a dumb question? Are there extra fields you get to see in the info block if you are a paid member? I don't see any field for top/bottom or safe/bb when I look at profiles on rentmen. Some people include it in their text or in hashtags but most don't seem to.

 

I think it's another USA-limitation. You won't see the detail when looking at the ad, but you can search by both of those criteria to determine which ads have those choices selected.

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Well, at least I always try to keep my dish squeaky clean and in prime condition ?

 

They all say the same... but how often do they use their own dishes and soap them good before and after. If I had a dollar for every time I heard "but I just took a shower"... The finger test is always right.

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I take it you've met escorts who didn't douche before bottoming for you ...

 

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We were talking about rimming, not about unclean bottoms. Remember?

 

All the escorts I ever met were very clean....

 

I was referring to comments from escorts (about clients) and hookups.

 

The subject was escorts who rim ALL clients... but now that you brought douching a kind reminder to clean with soap and water or some odor might remain in the area.

 

if you search we have plenty of threads about rimming with some frequent posters constantly posting to shame those of us who love to rim...

 

don't want to turn this into a rimming thread. I thought @FrankR reply was clear enough for you, I guess not.

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don't want to turn this into a rimming thread. I thought @FrankR reply was clear enough for you, I guess not.

Ok but now I feel it was you who changed the topic? One thing is STDs, which can be transmitted despite using water and soap, and another different thing is proper cleaning of dirt and odors before a sexual encounter. I got confused by your comment because I can't conceive the idea of not cleaning properly if I'm going to be rimmed.

 

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I understand that not everyone is diligent and some might think they are already "clean", but not making sure of it 100% is unacceptable, especially since they are being paid.

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Ok but now I feel it was you who changed the topic? One thing is STDs, which can be transmitted despite using water and soap, and another different thing is proper cleaning of dirt and odors before a sexual encounter. I got confused by your comment because I can't conceive the idea of not cleaning properly if I'm going to be rimmed.

 

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I understand that not everyone is diligent and some might think they are already "clean", but not making sure of it 100% is unacceptable, especially since they are being paid.

 

unacceptable or guys in denial?

 

Sorry but it happens... finger test, please!

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U know me, dont give a shit about tops and its a lot easier for a top to bb than a btm. Where the hell can i find bb musc btms.

Stats, easy, just fake gps yourself in the middle of US and do search by distance

 

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I don’t get the stats with all the tops. I hear there are more bottoms in the gay world than anything. I don’t necessarily believe that but finding a porn model muscle bottom is like discovering a two headed unicorn. Damn near impossible unless your willing to travel to the big city. Plus the BB info maybe skewed because most guys won’t advertise that unless you ask. A more accurate way to get a true number would be number of safe only responses.

 

I was just discussing this with a friend who is a provider: perhaps bottom escorts end up moving out of the market as the majority of clients are bottoms - at least that's been my experience. Without hard data, I'd expect that upwards of 90% or more of my clients across 5 years have been bottoms. In the last 5 months, I can remember less than six clients who were tops (COVID probably contributing to this low number).

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In the US, on rentmen (including Toronto and Montreal)

3700 escorts

17% bareback ("anthing goes")

27% tops

23% vers top

29% vers

9% vers btm

4% btm

(8% ask me, but who cares)

 

1200 muscle escorts

16% bareback ( "anything goes")

35% tops

27% vers top

22% vers

5% vers btm

1% btm

(10% "ask me" but who cares)

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I'm stunned there are 3700 rentmen between Toronto + Montreal... damn... you can go to my page to see what catagories I fall in... ?

 

The "strictly top" versus "top" can be a discussion on it's own merits...

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I don’t necessarily believe that but finding a porn model muscle bottom is like discovering a two headed unicorn. Damn near impossible unless your willing to travel to the big city.

The other thing that seems to be unicorn like in nature are twink tops.....there are some, but I find a correlation between twink and bottom......

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Bareback and the city

Ratios of "safe only" to "anything goes"

 

So LA wins, dam those lucky Californians.

 

New York 1.5

Los angels 1.4

Miami 3.5

 

Toronto 2.2

 

London 1.5

Paris 7.7

Berlin 2.0

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I'm stunned there are 3700 rentmen between Toronto + Montreal... damn... you can go to my page to see what catagories I fall in... ?

 

The "strictly top" versus "top" can be a discussion on it's own merits...

U hot silly hot man

3700 escorts in the US including Montreal and Toronto... can u imagine? 4000 escorts just here in ca...

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In the US, on rentmen (including Toronto and Montreal)

3700 escorts

17% bareback ("anthing goes")

27% tops

23% vers top

29% vers

9% vers btm

4% btm

(8% ask me, but who cares)

 

1200 muscle escorts

16% bareback ( "anything goes")

35% tops

27% vers top

22% vers

5% vers btm

1% btm

(10% "ask me" but who cares)

 

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This is an interesting poll; if something like this is done in the future, I'd like to see a category in reference to the identity of the escort: Gay/Bi/Straight or Ask me category.

 

Thanks for posting this thread.

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This is an interesting poll; if something like this is done in the future, I'd like to see a category in reference to the identity of the escort: Gay/Bi/Straight or Ask me category.

 

Thanks for posting this thread.

Sorry but if there is one thing that makes me wanna vomit it s this fukn orientation crap. U a male escort having sex with men: U gay. Done. Nothing sadder than gays wanting straight men.

But feel free to do it if that s your thing

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