Thank you, but I will pass. . .

[orville]

I wonder if he's new and getting advice from women? When I was first googling "how to hire a provider" and before I found this site, the how-to's were all about women, and it was a given that they wouldn't spend time with a male client without references and various other requirements that we never see on RM. Or, maybe he's just full of himself.

Yes, female escorts are much more exposed to death and other dangers, than male escorts. If it's not the case that he's been following the guidelines for female escorts, then he's taking the wrong approach.

[orville]

I understand that women are more likely to be the targets of either the police or violent clients, but why do pretty much all of them require so much verified information from clients while men seem to mostly be on the honor system. It seems weird that male escorts aren't also doing it.

We gays hiring, and those working, are just horny friendly people for the most part. If there is ever a physical fight (very unlikely though) it would be between two men. In a physical fight between a female escort and a male with intent to harm, she has high probability to die. That's why most carry small knives and handguns with them, especially in the US, so to filter troublemakers and make things easier they do ask a lot of references.

Edited July 19, 2020 by orville

[orville]

Whenever they say “babe”, I tend to move on.

Even after you've already hired?

[Daverwr]

We gays hiring, and those working, are just horny friendly people for the most part. If there is ever a physical fight (very unlikely though) it would be between two men. In a physical fight between a female escort and a male with intent to harm, she has high probability to die. That's why most of them carry small knives and handguns with them, especially in the US, but to filter troublemakers and make things easier they do ask a lot of references.

I’m amazed at the number of gents here that know what female escorts do in their business. Perhaps there are more practicing bisexuals here than I thought. Either that or crime show watchers. ?

[orville]

I’m amazed at the number of gents here that know what female escorts do in their business. Perhaps there are more practicing bisexuals here than I thought. Either that or crime show watchers. ?

Aren't we all mostly bisexuals who end up with a specific preference within the spectrum, due to upbringing, circumstances, and genetics?

[Daverwr]

Aren't we all mostly bisexuals who end up with a specific preference within the spectrum, due to upbringing, circumstances, and genetics?

Not too sure about that, but for me Not At All! The only time I wanted to touch a lady part was when I was being born. And that’s because I had no way of letting my mother know I’d prefer a c-section!

[orville]

Not too sure about that, but for me Not At All! The only time I wanted to touch a lady part was when I was being born. And that’s because I had no way of letting my mother know I’d prefer a c-section!

Good, then genetics played an 80-to-90% in your case. The sexuality of the human species might be fluid but everyone is product of different facts and circumstances.

[+ Pensant]

Even after you've already hired?

Not necessarily after; however, most of my companions rarely say that word.

[dbar123]

Ask the provider for a copy of his photo id and validated personal references in return.

[orville]

Not necessarily after; however, most of my companions rarely say that word.

I get what you mean, I feel somewhat uncomfortable by a provider calling me babe when we haven't even met. But if I already met a guy and I like him, I don't mind if it's his style calling me babe to set up a mood he's more comfortable with during our interaction. ?

[thickornotatall]

I get what you mean, I feel somewhat uncomfortable by a provider calling me babe when we haven't even met. But if I already met a guy and I like him, I don't mind if it's his style calling me babe to set up a mood he's more comfortable with during our interaction. ?

i had one man call me "my dirty bitch" after I asked for BFE....he must be psychic! ? ?

[John]

et what you mean, I feel somewhat uncomfortable by a provider calling me babe when we haven't even met. But if I already met a guy and I like him, I don't mind if it's his style calling me babe to set up a mood he's more comfortable with during our interaction.

 

I often get "babe" from Brazilians and "dear" from Eastern Europeans. I put it down to translation and ignore.

[Guy Fawkes]

Sorry, what did you just ask? ?

 

Quickest way to get me to say thanks no thanks is ignore what I asked you!

[RealAvalon]

I was kidding... unless you calculate Melania's hourly rate.

I expect that there are, with all those Chinese and Saudi Princes running around there, both male and female.

[+ Pensant]

I’m amazed at the number of gents here that know what female escorts do in their business. Perhaps there are more practicing bisexuals here than I thought. Either that or crime show watchers. ?

Hmm. I have tried to set up sessions with trans dommes before, but trying to do so has always been so frustrating that that particular urge has dissipated.