About "Hottest Massage Video Ever"

[orville]

I watched some of the videos on another thread and saw mixed content:

• Some are proper massage videos who start as therapeutic and evolve to sensual and erotic but displaying professional technique towards a happy ending.
  
• Some are something in between with hot guys showing some technique here in and there but 50% or more of the video is just fucking.
  
• Finally there are some other videos that are plainly porn actors fucking, almost the entirety of the video, on a massage table.
  

- What do you expect from a masseur when you book a sensual erotic massage?

- Are your expectations inspired or influenced by this type of porn content?

- Do you expect your masseur to display good erotic massage technique or rather recreate with you some of the porn videos?

Edited July 12, 2020 by orville

[OCDallas]

What do you expect from a masseur when you book a sensual erotic massage?

 

A home run for me is a very good therapeutic massage. I’m booking a massage because I want to ease my muscles and release tension. Generally I’ll be very up front when booking an appointment that I want a professional deep-tissue massage that has sensual elements (brushing, teasing, erogenous zones) that ends with a happy ending by hand. I like to set the expectations that I’m not open to more than that and that I’m looking for a massage (not an escort) without saying that as to not offend anyone.

 

I also generally won’t get massages unless they’re certified and have a proper table setup.

 

Biggest pet peeve is when I’m upfront with my check list and the masseur shows up with zero training, can’t give me a proper massage, and I end up being more tense than I was prior too. I’ve ended massages before because of this scenario.

 

Are your expectations inspired or influenced by this type of porn content?

 

Definitely not as I received an amazing erotic massage when I was in Tokyo and a video of thst

 

 

Do you expect your masseur to display good erotic massage technique or rather recreate with you some of the porn videos?

 

100% need to have good technique.

[orville]

I'm 100% with you @OCDallas After watching those videos I felt like everyone is after mostly getting fuc*ed (?) When booking an erotic massage I definitely look for a trained masseur with good technique. The happy ending is just the cherry on top. If I wanted (mostly or) just the sexual experience I have my favourite guys for only that when I'm in a different mood and my muscles are not aching.

[Bluefin]

Therapeutic massage with erotic elements with someone either trained or with a lot of experience. Both nude with mutual touch and release. Open to more if there’s chemistry but not the goal of the session.

[KrisParr]

My “go to” guy who finally retired, was the perfect combination. He was a trained massage therapist and worked part time at a legit pain management clinic. The rest of his time was devoted to erotic massage. He had it all: good looks, killer body, amazing strength and a delicious appendage. Those who can combine therapeutics and erotic massage are hard to come by (pun fully intended) so when you find one, bingo!

[orville]

My “go to” guy who finally retired, was the perfect combination. He was a trained massage therapist and worked part time at a legit pain management clinic. The rest of his time was devoted to erotic massage. He had it all: good looks, killer body, amazing strength and a delicious appendage. Those who can combine therapeutics and erotic massage are hard to come by (pun fully intended) so when you find one, bingo!

100% agree as well. It can be the guy with the prettiest face, muscle body, big tool, etc., but if he doesn't have technique on his path to make me release, then the experience feels like going to a cheap rub and tug that could have costed me less, and from my experience those guys who want to make you come faster are usually bad at H.E. interaction cause they are probably trying to rush things so they are on time for the next client. I mean, I can always jerk off myself if it was only about that, right?

[+ poolboy48220]

A dissenting view, when I'm on rentmasseur/etc I'm looking for an erotic massage. Therapeutic stills are the bonus for me there, but I'm looking for a guy who'll incorporate a lot of teasing erotic play in the massage.

[OCDallas]

100% agree as well. It can be the guy with the prettiest face, muscle body, big tool, etc., but if he doesn't have technique on his path to make me release, then the experience feels like going to a cheap rub and tug that could have costed me less, and from my experience those guys who want to make you come faster are usually bad at H.E. interaction cause they are probably trying to rush things so they are on time for the next client. I mean, I can always jerk off myself if it was only about that, right?

 

I have better experiences with “less attractive” men who actually know what they’re doing than someone who deliberately looks like they walked out of a sean Cody film.

[CatDaddy]

First, lm looking for someone who has great massage skills - that's a given. A happy ending is wonderful and always appreciated. However, I tend to stick with the same provider who over time becomes my "go to" guy. My experience has been that with each visit the level of intimacy increases into many fun extracurriculars. But, a quality massage is why I'm there.

[orville]

I have better experiences with “less attractive” men who actually know what they’re doing than someone who deliberately looks like they walked out of a sean Cody film.

OMG Yes! Sometimes I feel like guys with big muscles (or a big dong) and ZERO training open a profile on Rentmasseur just as way of easy income. That is probably ok for many who just want to get mutual touching with a muscle body, and also probably jerk off themselves. That just doesn't work for me.

Edited July 12, 2020 by orville