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[BDSfan4Life]

I wanted to share with the group a recent experience because I need to talk about it to someone.

 

I've deleted the post.

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Edited February 2, 2020 by BDSfan4Life

[Gymowner]

where do i begin......

 

if i am thinking about the guy i think you are talking about thats too bad. "my" guy i met a few times a year or so ago when he was new las vegas and to the business. was a really cool guy back then. very smiley and happy. didnt see him since, then and all of a sudden i get a text that he needs $50 and that we should have a session and i can just subtract that amount from the session. told him "no can do". he tried to persuade me to do so then he realized from my texts that im not one to mess with like that. he stopped the texts.

 

unfortunately, many "straight" guys feel that this becomes a fucked up dead end life for them and the issues start to flow. a few understand the enormous business potential that this can create for themselves and they do quite well in life. zeb atlas and ryan from new york both come to mind.

 

now for you. i feel bad about this. many men have such a need to be liked and loved that THEY ruin a good part of their lives. usually the financial part. you met a guy once and felt compelled to dump over $35 grand on him after a few sessions? wow. send me $5 grand and i'll be happy to fly anywhere in the world you want to go! lol

 

first off, you make way too much money too easily and really have no respect for it. two, what you are truly looking for (love, support, kindness) has very little to do with a business transaction. i'm glad you realized this toxic situation but i sense this isnt the first and unfortunately wont be the last one. i feel for you. i really do. but as i've said many many times on here, this is and has to stay a business relationship. then and only then can this work. i hope you come to terms with your own personal issues and not think this has anything to do with the escort. it doesnt. he is spiraling out of control and you just happened to be there at the wrong place and at the wrong time. thanks for sharing your story. "feelings" has to rarely if ever come into play when your pocket book is involved. good luck

Edited January 30, 2020 by Gymowner

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Hard lesson learned, but sorry for your troubles.

 

Next time, do a little more homework and make a more suitable choice: A lot about choosing the right escort boils down to the old Greek saying 'know thyself.' Too many guys end up making the same mistake repeatedly and then come here saying why me?

 

Don't be that guy

[MrMattBig]

Just like escorting is a career, people make scamming and living off others a career. I echo, know the signs. I usually follow a 3 strikes approach when it comes to any similar situation of helping someone.

[+ azdr0710]

Hmmmm.....the saga is more complicated than we've heard so far.... don't forget there are three sides to every story!

Edited January 31, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Hmmmm...

 

 

Poirot ain't got shit on azdr

Edited January 31, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[studchaser]

Look - I didn't mean to start something here. I just wanted to put my story out there. I didn't call out his profile or name in a public forum. He is a nice guy for the most part and I overstepped the working relationship. I'm sure there are 3 sides to every story - and I shared my side.

 

You sound like a really nice guy. Anyone spending that kind of cash should not leave meet ups feeling anything less than refreshed. These are broke ppl problems. You pay all this mobey for your problems to go away(temporarily) not for new ones.

[studchaser]

Look - I didn't mean to start something here. I just wanted to put my story out there. I didn't call out his profile or name in a public forum. He is a nice guy for the most part and I overstepped the working relationship. I'm sure there are 3 sides to every story - and I shared my side.

 

Check messages.

[down_to_business]

As soon as I read your post (and before any names were mentioned) I had guessed this was who you were talking about even though I had only met him once and for an hour.

Sorry you had this experience and I hope you can learn from it in the future.

[Guy Fawkes]

Once you name a name it drifts into the realm of a review. The OP was careful, the rest should be also.

[Guy Fawkes]

Once you name a name it drifts into the realm of a review. The OP was careful, the rest should be also.

[+ Balthazar]

I've never spent 35K on a guy, but I've certainly put time and money into guys who were just using me. It's not a good feeling. I hope you find someone who is more appreciative of your generosity.

[+ Balthazar]

I've never spent 35K on a guy, but I've certainly put time and money into guys who were just using me. It's not a good feeling. I hope you find someone who is more appreciative of your generosity.

[Despardo]

There is an old expression: You don't need to drink a whole quart of milk to know that it's sour.

[Despardo]

There is an old expression: You don't need to drink a whole quart of milk to know that it's sour.

[BDSfan4Life]

Once you name a name it drifts into the realm of a review. The OP was careful, the rest should be also.

Thank you and thanks to whomever removed the links to the post. I really appreciate it.

[BDSfan4Life]

Once you name a name it drifts into the realm of a review. The OP was careful, the rest should be also.

Thank you and thanks to whomever removed the links to the post. I really appreciate it.

[sexymonk]

I wanted to share with the group a recent experience because I need to talk about it to someone.

 

I went to Las Vegas in Nov '19 and prior to going I set up an overnight with someone from rent.men - I was only in town for 1 night. I'm not going to use his screen name on here. We set an overnight rate ($1500) to include dinner and I usually stay at the best places/suites in Vegas when I'm in town so I was at the Aria Sky Suites. He was running late which turned into almost 2 hours late so we skipped dinner. I met him downstairs because of security for the suites and we went back to the room. We talked, watched TV and ordered room service. He was nice, looked exactly like his pictures (although I found out he is 26, not 22 like his profile states and that is not an issue), he just recently started work on a huge back tattoo (which I was more than happy to rub lotion on) and we had an overall enjoyable evening. The next morning we showered and hung out for a bit. He opened up to me during our conversation and gave me his real name and showed me pictures on his IG account. He told me a little about the business he is in and I was curious and asked a lot of questions. Before leaving he gave me his real phone number and I told him I'd be interested in seeing him more in the future.

 

He immediately started texting me and told me he had a great time. I was smitten and after a couple of days of conversation I told him I would "sponsor" the rest of his tattoo work and I sent him some money. A day or two later he was in a "bind" and needed some help so I sent him some more money. I knew I wanted to see him again and I was going to Huntington Beach, CA for work and invited him to come along. I bought his first class tickets (he provided me with all of his info so I knew his age at this point, birthday, address, etc.). He asked me for an advance and I was more than happy to do that for him. He needed supliments for the gym and food. All in all prior to our meeting in California I sent him around $8k and I figured for a weekend we would be close to what he would charge - but he asked for additional money and I obliged. I noticed a few things out of the ordinary but didn't put much more thought into it - but I did find out he was a heavy steroids user and has bazaar sleep pasterns as well as a heavy smoker. He wanted to go shopping and ended up buying him $800 worth of "stuff". It was an expensive weekend but again - I was smitten and was just being happy to have eye candy. I was already planning our next trip - this time to Florida.

 

I bought him an iPhone 11 to replace his outdated iPhone 6 and got him a new pair of AirPod Pros.

 

During the 2 weeks between California and Florida we texted daily. Good mornings, afternoons, etc and he sent daily pictures of what he was doing. These text also came with monetary request. His truck would break down. He got sick and needed to go to urgent care (2x). He would overspend at the bars and not have enough money to pay his tab (these calls would come in the wee hours of the morning).

 

The trip to Florida! This was a 3 day trip and I was excited to spend time with him. I promised him a "night off" so he could go and do whatever he wanted around the city. I got us a great room right on the beach. Then everything started to spiral... The night before he flew out he spent at the bars in Vegas (his local bar to be exact - and I know a lot about that place from what he told me). When he got here the weather was awesome but all he wanted to do was sleep. Ok, no big deal because we had lot of time. We had dinner reservations that night but he didn't want to go so I canceled them. He slept while I watched TV in the living room of our suite. Then all he wanted to do was go to a strip club (a tiddy club as he called it) so I put him in an Uber and off he went. I'd get calls that he was out of cash and stranded so I sent him more money until I max'ed out the amount I could send on cash app. The weekend sucked and I felt ripped off. On check out day I just took him straight to the airport even though his flight was 6 hours out.

 

At this point I was done - but once he got back to Vegas he put the charm on again. I had a work engagement in London and I was following it up with a week vacation in Greece and I asked him to go (OMG am I stupid?). He said he wanted to go but I had to fly him first class (which is no big deal because that is the only way I fly). I purchased the tickets but things started to really fall apart before this trip. He told me he "quit" working as long as I would be there and take care of him and I was good with that. Why not, I could make it happen and I thought about renting him an apartment in Vegas and started looking around. Then one day he needed a rather large sum of money because his truck broke down and needed $3k worth of work, he had a $3k marker at a bar and this chick he fucked "one time" was pregnant and needed an abortion. I called bullshit and started to question a lot of stuff. I hired a PI out in Vegas to give me a run down on him and found out much more than I ever wanted to know. I told him I'd send him money to get his truck fixed but the rest was on him. This is when the roid rage came out in full force! Over the course of 3 days I got blasted in text telling me I'm a piece of shit, I ruined his life, I was a liar about who I am (and I never lied or hid anything about myself), blocked and unblocked reblocked and unblocked from text/calling. Even at the end I felt bad (stupid me) and I told him I'd send him $1000 to help him get out of the bind he was in and instead of getting a thank you I told how much I promised him and how I destroyed everything for him. Granted I knew he was still working because the PI sent me pictures of him going on "dates".

 

So I write this as a lesson learned for myself. Even as I sit here typing this I have feelings for this guy but I know they will pass. In total I spent $35k (not including the airfare to Europe that I'm trying to get refunded). I wanted to know if anyone else has done something this stupid and wanted to share their story with me. I feel shame and feel stupid. I guess I knew what I was getting myself into but I didn't want to believe it.

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Sorry to hear! However, his is the outcome when people think from waist down rather than shoulder up! Well “dopamine” is indeed very strong chemical that brain secretes and it hijacks rationale thinking. I would say only will power is big thing to overcome the drooling over eye candies! I am not saying that not to spend money on someone whom you like but do it not at first time. First build mutual trust! Understand integrity of a person and then take the move. I am glad that I made conscious choice to meet @peterhung85 who is indeed a person of integrity. It is exactly the reason why many respect him and like to meet him.

[sexymonk]

I wanted to share with the group a recent experience because I need to talk about it to someone.

 

I went to Las Vegas in Nov '19 and prior to going I set up an overnight with someone from rent.men - I was only in town for 1 night. I'm not going to use his screen name on here. We set an overnight rate ($1500) to include dinner and I usually stay at the best places/suites in Vegas when I'm in town so I was at the Aria Sky Suites. He was running late which turned into almost 2 hours late so we skipped dinner. I met him downstairs because of security for the suites and we went back to the room. We talked, watched TV and ordered room service. He was nice, looked exactly like his pictures (although I found out he is 26, not 22 like his profile states and that is not an issue), he just recently started work on a huge back tattoo (which I was more than happy to rub lotion on) and we had an overall enjoyable evening. The next morning we showered and hung out for a bit. He opened up to me during our conversation and gave me his real name and showed me pictures on his IG account. He told me a little about the business he is in and I was curious and asked a lot of questions. Before leaving he gave me his real phone number and I told him I'd be interested in seeing him more in the future.

 

He immediately started texting me and told me he had a great time. I was smitten and after a couple of days of conversation I told him I would "sponsor" the rest of his tattoo work and I sent him some money. A day or two later he was in a "bind" and needed some help so I sent him some more money. I knew I wanted to see him again and I was going to Huntington Beach, CA for work and invited him to come along. I bought his first class tickets (he provided me with all of his info so I knew his age at this point, birthday, address, etc.). He asked me for an advance and I was more than happy to do that for him. He needed supliments for the gym and food. All in all prior to our meeting in California I sent him around $8k and I figured for a weekend we would be close to what he would charge - but he asked for additional money and I obliged. I noticed a few things out of the ordinary but didn't put much more thought into it - but I did find out he was a heavy steroids user and has bazaar sleep pasterns as well as a heavy smoker. He wanted to go shopping and ended up buying him $800 worth of "stuff". It was an expensive weekend but again - I was smitten and was just being happy to have eye candy. I was already planning our next trip - this time to Florida.

 

I bought him an iPhone 11 to replace his outdated iPhone 6 and got him a new pair of AirPod Pros.

 

During the 2 weeks between California and Florida we texted daily. Good mornings, afternoons, etc and he sent daily pictures of what he was doing. These text also came with monetary request. His truck would break down. He got sick and needed to go to urgent care (2x). He would overspend at the bars and not have enough money to pay his tab (these calls would come in the wee hours of the morning).

 

The trip to Florida! This was a 3 day trip and I was excited to spend time with him. I promised him a "night off" so he could go and do whatever he wanted around the city. I got us a great room right on the beach. Then everything started to spiral... The night before he flew out he spent at the bars in Vegas (his local bar to be exact - and I know a lot about that place from what he told me). When he got here the weather was awesome but all he wanted to do was sleep. Ok, no big deal because we had lot of time. We had dinner reservations that night but he didn't want to go so I canceled them. He slept while I watched TV in the living room of our suite. Then all he wanted to do was go to a strip club (a tiddy club as he called it) so I put him in an Uber and off he went. I'd get calls that he was out of cash and stranded so I sent him more money until I max'ed out the amount I could send on cash app. The weekend sucked and I felt ripped off. On check out day I just took him straight to the airport even though his flight was 6 hours out.

 

At this point I was done - but once he got back to Vegas he put the charm on again. I had a work engagement in London and I was following it up with a week vacation in Greece and I asked him to go (OMG am I stupid?). He said he wanted to go but I had to fly him first class (which is no big deal because that is the only way I fly). I purchased the tickets but things started to really fall apart before this trip. He told me he "quit" working as long as I would be there and take care of him and I was good with that. Why not, I could make it happen and I thought about renting him an apartment in Vegas and started looking around. Then one day he needed a rather large sum of money because his truck broke down and needed $3k worth of work, he had a $3k marker at a bar and this chick he fucked "one time" was pregnant and needed an abortion. I called bullshit and started to question a lot of stuff. I hired a PI out in Vegas to give me a run down on him and found out much more than I ever wanted to know. I told him I'd send him money to get his truck fixed but the rest was on him. This is when the roid rage came out in full force! Over the course of 3 days I got blasted in text telling me I'm a piece of shit, I ruined his life, I was a liar about who I am (and I never lied or hid anything about myself), blocked and unblocked reblocked and unblocked from text/calling. Even at the end I felt bad (stupid me) and I told him I'd send him $1000 to help him get out of the bind he was in and instead of getting a thank you I told how much I promised him and how I destroyed everything for him. Granted I knew he was still working because the PI sent me pictures of him going on "dates".

 

So I write this as a lesson learned for myself. Even as I sit here typing this I have feelings for this guy but I know they will pass. In total I spent $35k (not including the airfare to Europe that I'm trying to get refunded). I wanted to know if anyone else has done something this stupid and wanted to share their story with me. I feel shame and feel stupid. I guess I knew what I was getting myself into but I didn't want to believe it.

 

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Sorry to hear! However, his is the outcome when people think from waist down rather than shoulder up! Well “dopamine” is indeed very strong chemical that brain secretes and it hijacks rationale thinking. I would say only will power is big thing to overcome the drooling over eye candies! I am not saying that not to spend money on someone whom you like but do it not at first time. First build mutual trust! Understand integrity of a person and then take the move. I am glad that I made conscious choice to meet @peterhung85 who is indeed a person of integrity. It is exactly the reason why many respect him and like to meet him.

[sexymonk]

Just like escorting is a career, people make scamming and living off others a career. I echo, know the signs. I usually follow a 3 strikes approach when it comes to any similar situation of helping someone.

I would say that the op had everything in life except that one who he finds attractive! When he met the person, he fall for him and it is natural as a human being. However, for that boy who wasn’t appreciative and didn’t had any respect or any real connection with op, treated him as ATM! That boy thought that OP is emotional fool and so took him on a ride. But he forgot one thing that OP was not fool but just trusted that boy more than what he deserved and was worth of! Nonetheless, just scammers are heartless and don’t realize that other party is not fool but seeing patiently that how much those boys can stoop low!

[sexymonk]

Just like escorting is a career, people make scamming and living off others a career. I echo, know the signs. I usually follow a 3 strikes approach when it comes to any similar situation of helping someone.

I would say that the op had everything in life except that one who he finds attractive! When he met the person, he fall for him and it is natural as a human being. However, for that boy who wasn’t appreciative and didn’t had any respect or any real connection with op, treated him as ATM! That boy thought that OP is emotional fool and so took him on a ride. But he forgot one thing that OP was not fool but just trusted that boy more than what he deserved and was worth of! Nonetheless, just scammers are heartless and don’t realize that other party is not fool but seeing patiently that how much those boys can stoop low!

[+ nycman]

I wanted to share with the group

Go ahead, we're listening....

I usually stay at the best places/suites in Vegas when I'm in town

My, my, my....aren't you fancy!

He was running late which turned into almost 2 hours late

Stop.

Cut bait RIGHT here.

Seriously. Would you ever allow ANY of your employees to show up 2 hours late for work????

But of course...you kept going.

I was smitten

Oh lord....this isn't going to end well. Is it?

after a couple of days of conversation I told him I would "sponsor" the rest of his tattoo work and I sent him some money

Ahhh, you're baiting the hook.......

A day or two later he was in a "bind"

And now HE'S baiting the hook......this is gonna be GOOD!

I bought his first class tickets

Again.....Fancy!....and more "bait" on the hook.

He needed supliments for the gym and food

Baby, they ALL need suppliments for the gym and food....that's WHY they're escorting!

And he continues to add bait to HIS hook.

Unfortunately, we all know which fish is gonna get caught.......

All in all prior to our meeting in California I sent him around $8k

Ok, I'll say what everyone in the room is thinking......you're an idiot.

 

Go on....

I bought him an iPhone 11

Why exactly?

Are you in the habit of buying random people expensive gifts?

If so, I can't WAIT to be friends!

These text also came with monetary request

You're still clueless aren't you.....oh baby.

His truck would break down

Sigh, you're taking the bait and swallowing the hook.

He's just eating the bait and running....see the difference?

He would overspend at the bars and not have enough money to pay his tab

Have you noticed a theme yet?

I mean other than the obvious one where all your decisions are being made by your cock.

Then everything started to spiral...

No, things started spiralling when you opened the door after he arrived 2 hours late.

You just finally started to notice the spinning.

I'd get calls that he was out of cash and stranded so I sent him more money

This is starting to sound like a broken record.

You obviously have more cash than brains....that never ends well.

The weekend sucked and I felt ripped off.

This is where I slap you and scream "SNAP OUT OF IT".

If only I could reach through this damn keyboard!!!!

At this point I was done

It took a long time, but we got there!

I was following it up with a week vacation in Greece and I asked him to go

Oh no....we're on the road to heartache again!

(OMG am I stupid?).

You know the answer.

He said he wanted to go but I had to fly him first class

Again....Fancy!....and stupid....and more bait.

He told me he "quit" working as long as I would be there and take care of him

Who wouldn't?

Where do I sign up for this free lunch?

Then one day he needed a rather large sum of money because his truck broke

At this point is ANYONE surprised?

I called bullshit and started to question a lot of stuff.

Better late than never.....sigh

I hired a PI out in Vegas

What?

No baby, no.

Now you just sound creepy and obsessive.

Granted I knew he was still working because the PI sent me pictures of him going on "dates"

Again...creepy.

Even as I sit here typing this I have feelings for this guy

You need help.

Serious.....professional....help.

And friends to smack some sense into you....that's what we're for....grin

I know they will pass

They will.

In total I spent $35k

A fool and his money.

Don't worry, you're not alone.

Lots of heart broken fools in these parts......stupidity runs in packs.

I wanted to know if anyone else has done something this stupid

Maybe not THAT stupid...but damn close.

Live and learn.

I feel shame and feel stupid.

Remember these feelings...next time you start thinking about obsessing over and throwing money at an escort.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Oh, baby.....the pleasure was all OURS!

[MichiganMan]

Would make a great movie !!

[DR FREUD]

Go ahead, we're listening....

 

My, my, my....aren't you fancy!

 

Stop.

Cut bait RIGHT here.

Seriously. Would you ever allow ANY of your employees to show up 2 hours late for work????

But of course...you kept going.

 

Oh lord....this isn't going to end well. Is it?

 

Ahhh, you're baiting the hook.......

 

And now HE'S baiting the hook......this is gonna be GOOD!

 

Again.....Fancy!....and more "bait" on the hook.

 

Baby, they ALL need suppliments for the gym and food....that's WHY they're escorting!

And he continues to add bait to HIS hook.

Unfortunately, we all know which fish is gonna get caught.......

 

Ok, I'll say what everyone in the room is thinking......you're an idiot.

 

Go on....

 

Why exactly?

Are you in the habit of buying random people expensive gifts?

If so, I can't WAIT to be friends!

 

You're still clueless aren't you.....oh baby.

 

Sigh, you're taking the bait and swallowing the hook.

He's just eating the bait and running....see the difference?

 

Have you noticed a theme yet?

I mean other than the obvious one where all your decisions are being made by your cock.

 

No, things started spiralling when you opened the door after he arrived 2 hours late.

You just finally started to notice the spinning.

 

This is starting to sound like a broken record.

You obviously have more cash than brains....that never ends well.

 

This is where I slap you and scream "SNAP OUT OF IT".

If only I could reach through this damn keyboard!!!!

 

It took a long time, but we got there!

 

Oh no....we're on the road to heartache again!

 

You know the answer.

 

Again....Fancy!....and stupid....and more bait.

 

Who wouldn't?

Where do I sign up for this free lunch?

 

At this point is ANYONE surprised?

 

Better late than never.....sigh

 

What?

No baby, no.

Now you just sound creepy and obsessive.

 

Again...creepy.

 

You need help.

Serious.....professional....help.

And friends to smack some sense into you....that's what we're for....grin

 

They will.

 

A fool and his money.

Don't worry, you're not alone.

Lots of heart broken fools in these parts......stupidity runs in packs.

 

Maybe not THAT stupid...but damn close.

Live and learn.

 

Remember these feelings...next time you start thinking about obsessing over and throwing money at an escort.

 

Oh, baby.....the pleasure was all OURS!

 

FINN FANG FOOM revisited

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

FINN FANG FOOM revisited

 

... With just a smidge of Rockhard and Doug69 thrown in for good measure