Saw a young hot chipotle staff

[MikeBiDude]

Come on. I don't think one can claim sexual harassment just become someone gives you his e-mail address. Unless there's stalking or something else going on, the person receiving the e-mail address can choose to ignore it. Now, if you keep bugging him when he shows no interest, that's another story. There is an employee at a Total Wine store around here that I've thought of asking him if he'd like to have a cup of coffee some time. I don't think I'll ever do it, though. I have over 750 messages on Seeking Arrangements from men who are interested. Why risk alienating someone at a store where I shop?

I didn’t necessarily mean this particular case could be viewed as customer versus employee harassment in California, nor did I mean just giving an email address was the issue. I just meant to say it could happen, and if in fact it did… The employee would have have some contact info for the customer...the email address.

[+ E.T.Bass]

I didn’t necessarily mean this particular case could be viewed as customer versus employee harassment in California, nor did I mean just giving an email address was the issue. I just meant to say it could happen, and if in fact it did… The employee would have have some contact info for the customer...the email address.

I agree.

As a witch once said "these things must be done delicately."

I know from experience at a department store, a nice young man might be giving you special treatment because he is a nice young man. Though my friend told me "did you see the way he looked at you?" We were both wrong.

 

Use emotional intelligence. Don't imagine verbal cues. Be respectful as you carefully drop your pearls.

[+ SundayZip]

As a witch once said "these things must be done delicately."

 

Yes, I've done my share of "flirting" with pretty young things although I doubt they even knew I was flirting. You have to be astute enough to know when you might offend someone and self-aware enough to know when you're acting like a lecherous old creep.

[+ friendofsheila]

I once knew a very cute teenage hottie who when propositioned by men at his ticket-taker stand in the movie theatre replied, "Lay it in my hand, I'll show you something you've never seen before!" Which resulted in laughter until he exclaimed, smiling, "The OTHER end!"

 

I don't understand this.

[+ friendofsheila]

I once knew a very cute teenage hottie who when propositioned by men at his ticket-taker stand in the movie theatre replied, "Lay it in my hand, I'll show you something you've never seen before!" Which resulted in laughter until he exclaimed, smiling, "The OTHER end!"

 

I don't understand this.

[+ Gar1eth]

I once knew a very cute teenage hottie who when propositioned by men at his ticket-taker stand in the movie theatre replied, "Lay it in my hand, I'll show you something you've never seen before!" Which resulted in laughter until he exclaimed, smiling, "The OTHER end!"

I don't understand this.

 

Thank gosh, I feared I was the only one.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

I once knew a very cute teenage hottie who when propositioned by men at his ticket-taker stand in the movie theatre replied, "Lay it in my hand, I'll show you something you've never seen before!" Which resulted in laughter until he exclaimed, smiling, "The OTHER end!"

I don't understand this.

 

Thank gosh, I feared I was the only one.

 

Gman

[Islesguy]

Thank gosh, I feared I was the only one.

 

Gman

It's a really bad joke. The punchline basically means the end your holding when you go to hand it to him. Since you are holding that end of the ticket, you can't see it. Once you give the ticket to the taker, you can see the end you were holding.

[Islesguy]

Thank gosh, I feared I was the only one.

 

Gman

It's a really bad joke. The punchline basically means the end your holding when you go to hand it to him. Since you are holding that end of the ticket, you can't see it. Once you give the ticket to the taker, you can see the end you were holding.

[+ Gar1eth]

It's a really bad joke. The punchline basically means the end your holding when you go to hand it to him. Since you are holding that end of the ticket, you can't see it. Once you give the ticket to the taker, you can see the end you were holding.

 

That almost helps. But I still don't really get it.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

It's a really bad joke. The punchline basically means the end your holding when you go to hand it to him. Since you are holding that end of the ticket, you can't see it. Once you give the ticket to the taker, you can see the end you were holding.

 

That almost helps. But I still don't really get it.

 

Gman

[Islesguy]

That almost helps. But I still don't really get it.

 

Gman

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before.

 

Like I said, it's a bad joke.

[Islesguy]

That almost helps. But I still don't really get it.

 

Gman

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before.

 

Like I said, it's a bad joke.

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before.

 

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm not sure I can explain it better. At the movies, you buy the tickets right there. You grab them and take them right to the ticket taker so you never "see" the end you hold. (In reality, you do for a second to take the tickets.) When you hand them to the taker, you expose the end you hold when you let go; ergo, you now "see" the "side" you never saw before.

 

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

[MikeBiDude]

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

I still don’t get it ?

[MikeBiDude]

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

I still don’t get it ?

[Islesguy]

I still don’t get it ?

Come back to the 20th C. We miss you!

[MrMattBig]

Yes, I've done my share of "flirting" with pretty young things although I doubt they even knew I was flirting. You have to be astute enough to know when you might offend someone and self-aware enough to know when you're acting like a lecherous old creep.

Being the worker in this type of situation in the past, a nice flirty exchange can make work feel amazing!!!!

[mike carey]

Being the worker in this type of situation in the past, a nice flirty exchange can make work feel amazing!!!!

I suspect you get that flirty attention more than most do!

[Ghadd]

To me, it all depends on signals, and I'm usually very bad at reading signals. You'd have to straight up tell me you find me attractive for me to realize it.

 

One time I was at a cafe with coworkers, and the (very cute) barista chats me up. We talk about the weather, my plans for the day and how his shift is going. I get my order and we leave.

Coworkers swore the barista was very much into me, how he was flirting and laughing at what I said. I'm 100% sure he was just being friendly.

 

That very night, on a dating app I'm on, I recognize that same guy! Thinking about what my coworkers said, I message him, saying it was nice chatting with him earlier today, offering to go grab drinks sometime. And then he blocks me.

 

So, yeah. He was not into me.

 

Signals can get very confusing coming from customer service employees, since ITS THEIR JOB to be nice to customers. If you've worked retail, you know. Unless they made an obvious pass at you, or you meet them outside their work environment, don't attempt it.

[+ PapaTony]

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

You do? I still don’t.

[+ Gar1eth]

Ok, now I get it. Thanks.

 

Gman

You do? I still don’t.

 

A paper ticket is a rectangle. You hold one end and give the other end to the ticket taker. The ticket taker in this case says hand me the end. Supposedly you haven't seen the end you give the tickettaker while you are holding the opposite end. The ticket taker says now I'll show you something new. The new thing is the other end of the ticket that the tickettaker was holding -or something close to that.

 

Gman

[+ PapaTony]

A paper ticket is a rectangle. You hold one end and give the other end to the ticket taker. The ticket taker in this case says hand me the end. Supposedly you haven't seen the end you give the tickettaker while you are holding the opposite end. The ticket taker says now I'll show you something new. The new thing is the other end of the ticket that the tickettaker was holding -or something close to that.

 

Gman

Yeah, I get that but relative to it having anything to with “flirtiness”.....it WAS a bad joke.

[Guest]

Getting propositioned by guys at my day jobs was one of the ways I felt welcomed and encouraged to give escorting a try. Feeling noticed and desired felt good. I figured if the offer is good, why not let someone enjoy me, my looks and body in full. If the guy seemed like a good trustworthy guy, then it seemed only fair to be negotiable and arrange a fun win-win for all. I’ve met at least a dozen guys this way. Never know when a diamond in the rough could be a bonafide new whore in the making lol ?