Golden Rule...

[Guy Fawkes]

Literally for centuries the golden rule: "Do onto others as you would have them do onto you!" as been around. I try to live my life by that rule. In the last few weeks or so I've come across several instances of people that seem to believe differently. I'm asking myself, why should I continue to be a resource for these people?

[+ funguy86]

It is sad that fewer and fewer people are living by the golden rule anymore. Keep setting the example and hope others follow.

[+ sync]

I understand your feelings. There have been times in my life when people have pushed me past my breaking point and I have responded in kind, and while it gave me a fleeting sense of satisfaction, I ultimately felt I had let myself down by becoming one of them. For me, it's an emotional catch-22.

[+ easygoingpal]

Years from now you'll know the answer, if you don't already. The inherently goodness in you is what will bring you peace and happiness during the alone moments when we are contemplating life... Cheers!

[Guy Fawkes]

"Giving him the benefit of the doubt." However I'm also going to remember: "Burn me once shame on you, Burn me twice shame on me"

[+ poolboy48220]

It's difficult. There are always people who will take advantage of one's good nature.

[Guest Calix_K]

May I ask, in what context are you noticing this; is it more interpersonal or an everyday observation (ie in public, on the street, etc)?

As far as everyday occurrences, it is most definitely noticed by those who try to follow that rule. Riding the subway in Toronto will give you a great taste of that, sadly. But you may be referring to something more personal. Care to elaborate?

[KeepItReal]

Literally for centuries the golden rule: "Do onto others as you would have them do onto you!" as been around. I try to live my life by that rule. In the last few weeks or so I've come across several instances of people that seem to believe differently. I'm asking myself, why should I continue to be a resource for these people?

 

I too believe in, and apply, the golden rule. But keep in mind the silver rule: To thine own self be true! Said another way - don't confuse my kindness for weakness.

[+ poolboy48220]

"Don't mistake my silence for ignorance" - oh, there are so many people at work who I wish would take that to heart.