Running into an Escort in Public

[Quincy_7]

So I had an awkward encounter with a previous escort on the subway. First time this has ever happened to me. I'm curious if you have any stories of running into escorts out of the bedroom?

[+ oldNbusted]

So I had an awkward encounter with a previous escort on the subway. First time this has ever happened to me. I'm curious if you have any stories of running into escorts out of the bedroom?

 

Why was it awkward?

 

I have had occasion to be out in public with a guy as part of the session, it's been great .

[MassageDrew]

It doesn't have to be awkward. I've had many encounters with those I've hired. Sometimes I pretend I don't know them while others we just acknowledged each other with a nod or a quick hello and get on with our business.

[+ bashful]

I saw a guy I had hired several times, but not for a long while, at the local casino. I was surprised, and for a while, wasn't sure, but then I realized it was him, and he was with another guy. Neither one of us acknowledged the other.

[hypothetically]

So I had an awkward encounter with a previous escort on the subway. First time this has ever happened to me. I'm curious if you have any stories of running into escorts out of the bedroom?

 

I crossed paths with a NYC regular at Biennale in Venice (Italy) this summer... with his wife. Imagine the shock. We both could’ve dropped dead. It’s happened before and it’s always awkward, for different reasons. I.E. I’m not alone, or the content of the exchange is unprofessional and I’m not “on the clock.” Quick nod or hello as someone said above and keep it moving is ideal.

[marylander1940]

I live in DuPont Circle and that has happened often, guys usually wait to see how I react. For the record I also recognize constantly guys advertising on RM that I haven't hired.

[+ azdr0710]

doesn't happen much in my podunk burg.....but did catch the eye of a previously-met provider at a Costco a few checkout lines down several years ago.....we nodded (both of us were alone) and then passed by each other and chatted a little bit about a fire next door at a Carl's Jr. and all the water all over the parking lot......(he's now a vice-president at a major university!)

Edited October 24, 2019 by Cooper

[+ FrankR]

I live in DuPont Circle and that has happened often, guys usually wait to see how I react. For the record I also recognize constantly guys advertising on RM that I haven't hired.

 

It doesn't have to be awkward. I've had many encounters with those I've hired. Sometimes I pretend I don't know them while others we just acknowledged each other with a nod or a quick hello and get on with our business.

 

I agree - it doesnt have to be awkward. I will make eye contact, give a quick smile and then break eye contact. At that point the ball is in the escort’s court, so to speak. Sometimes he comes over for a quick hello. Other times he just goes about his business. ?

[+ Pensant]

It’s happened twice. One time, at a 24-Hour Fitness: a lad with whom I’d had some wild role-play. The other time was at a liquor store. We gave each other a hug and he told me to call him sometime. After a few years, he’s now a regular. He also was driving down my street as I was returning from a run. No big deal, really.

[marylander1940]

@Quincy_7 awkward is in the eyes of the beholder(s).

 

what if the escort or client is not alone?

 

Thread on an escort refusing to be seen in public with a client

[+ poolboy48220]

I remember this has been discussed a few times in the forum, in the thread Marylander references and maybe a few others. I ran into a dancer from the club, I guy I'd taken home a few times, at the gym. Once with his kids :-) He said something like "Oh no, my worlds are colliding" :-) I ran into another guy I'd hired, at a mutual friend's pumpkin-carving party; he was with his boyfriend and based on his body language, I acted as if we were meeting for the first time.

 

I'll generally make eye contact and smile, and let the escort take it from there.

[+ poolboy48220]

Oh, and in the pretty-cruisy sauna at the gym, I saw a guy I recognized but couldn't place...then I realized I'd hired him earlier that year. I looked up and gave him a BIG smile, and we ended up repeating that night.

[+ Pensant]

The only mildly embarrassing, but amusing provider visit, was a very cute guy who came to my place wearing a full leather gig, including chaps that showcased his marvelous derrière. It was late, but I had wondered if any neighbors saw my visitor. I’m just glad he didn’t ring the wrong doorbell!

[+ HornyRetiree]

When I run into someone I have had sex with socially and others are around, I accept the introduction and say how nice it is to meet him etc. — small talk, chit chat — NO ONE needs to know HOW WELL I KNOW HIM.

 

It all comes down to manners!

[marylander1940]

I remember this has been discussed a few times in the forum, in the thread Marylander references and maybe a few others. I ran into a dancer from the club, I guy I'd taken home a few times, at the gym. Once with his kids He said something like "Oh no, my worlds are colliding" I ran into another guy I'd hired, at a mutual friend's pumpkin-carving party; he was with his boyfriend and based on his body language, I acted as if we were meeting for the first time.

 

I'll generally make eye contact and smile, and let the escort take it from there.

 

nodding… is the secret after that is up to us or them (alone or not) to say hi, stop, hug or just keep walking.

 

I love his reaction!

[KrisParr]

True story, I swear: several years ago I hired a very handsome escort while he was in grad school, at least 4-5 times. He stopped being a provider, and that was fine, but I did miss him - he was outstanding. Fast forward to this past summer, I had need to visit a dermatology clinic for a pesky wart. After the initial chat with a nurse, the Physician Assistant came in - yep, it was him. We recognized each other quickly, and he asked how I’d been, etc. with just a little small talk. After that, it was all business. And it was obvious that he’s no longer interested in his previous career. I did get a small pat on the shoulder as he said goodbye. Sigh.

[+ poolboy48220]

nodding… is the secret after that is up to us or them (alone or not) to say hi, stop, hug or just keep walking.

 

I love his reaction!

if we're alone, I've got no qualms about talking to them.

[marylander1940]

if we're alone, I've got no qualms about talking to them.

 

What if you're with company? How would you introduced them? How would you be introduced?

 

Not a problem for me at all.

 

I wonder the thoughts of the OP about this @Quincy_7

 

Once I was introduced by young escort in his early 20's to a friend we ran into as "uncle Schlomo" visiting from Boca Ratón. Was I his first uncle Schlomo? Well at least he didn't refuse to go to a restaurant with me...

Edited October 24, 2019 by marylander1940

[+ pepa_e_mango]

Happens all the time. Not a problem at all.

[BaronArtz]

I was waiting for taxi cab in NY. He came over said hello. It took me a few seconds to realize who he was - I was so used to seeing him naked all the time. We had a friendly chat.

 

In any event, if an escort is alone, I would make eye contact and politely nod. It is totally awkward to ignore who he is. When he is in company, that is a different story.

[+ poolboy48220]

What if you're with company? How would you introduced them? How would you be introduced?

 

Not a problem for me at all.

 

I wonder the thoughts of the OP about this @Quincy_7

 

Once I was introduced by young escort in his early 20's to a friend we ran into as "uncle Schlomo" visiting from Boca Ratón. Was I his first uncle Schlomo? Well at least he didn't refuse to go to a restaurant with me...

If I'm with company, I'd probably leave it at the smile & nod. Very few of my friends know I hire. If the escort came over & started chatting, I'd just introduce him, without giving any background on how we met. If it came up, I'd probably say he was someone I met at the bar.

 

An outcall meeting at the escorts' (two of them) house, a friend of theirs came over before we started, he was dropping something off. They introduced me as their uncle - I don't think I was Schlomo :-)

[Islesguy]

What if you're with company? How would you introduced them? How would you be introduced?

 

Not a problem for me at all.

 

I wonder the thoughts of the OP about this @Quincy_7

 

Once I was introduced by young escort in his early 20's to a friend we ran into as "uncle Schlomo" visiting from Boca Ratón. Was I his first uncle Schlomo? Well at least he didn't refuse to go to a restaurant with me...

It depends on the situation. I go to a lot of book discussions and things by myself plus I am part of several online groups with people from all over the world. If I knew the guy could easily play along, I would mention we met at such and such event or we know each other from whatever message board. No one in my company would doubt my story.

[+ poolboy48220]

If I knew the guy could easily play along

That's the key for me. Unless I knew the guy well, I wouldn't be sure if he'd play along.

[marylander1940]

It depends on the situation. I go to a lot of book discussions and things by myself plus I am part of several online groups with people from all over the world. If I knew the guy could easily play along, I would mention we met at such and such event or we know each other from whatever message board. No one in my company would doubt my story.

 

@poolboy48220 good thing we Americans are not nosy. A simple “we have friends in common” is enough

[+ poolboy48220]

@poolboy48220 good thing we Americans are not nosy. A simple “we have friends in common” is enough

I think we have different friends