Note to Clients: Vulgarity.

[marylander1940]

I don’t think it’s necessarily a wealth thing. My client who owns a home in Michigan and the Florida Keys, talks vulgar leading up to our encounters. He even alludes to such jokes over dinner too, which initially annoyed me on our first overnight...but then I found it to be cute, letting people in our adjacent restaurant tables know how much “protein” Im giving him later.

 

Sometimes guys who talked the nastiest things by text specially act like lambs in person or so I've been told.

 

I guess they are a different person behind their iPhone but in person reality sets in.

[rogerG]

My personal favorite is when a male says "breed my pussy"

So true. Makes me scream in horror every time.

[tj_forplay]

Wow, I never thought clients would be that vulgar to say some of those things out loud. I guess I'm a prude when it comes to sex. I'm very vanilla in general.

[rvwnsd]

My personal favorite is when a male says "breed my pussy"... HUH? I just think for many., hiring an escort is akin to their being in a porn fantasy or video and they think the verbal assaults are HOT and sexy ?

A friend told me that he and his ex decided to "get verbal" as they do in porn and one of them said "tease that hole." The other said "nyay, nyah, nayh, nyah, nyah, nyah." Last time they "got verbal."

[+ E.T.Bass]

A classmate came out after too many years in the closet. Part of his gay celebration seems to be messaging to me a lot of naked pics, including his erect pee-pee.

There are times I feel like telling him to stop being vulgar and giving him a piece of my mind.

I guess we need to pick our battles.

I don't envy your position.

Edited August 23, 2019 by E.T.Bass

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

A classmate came out after too many years in the closet. Part of his gay celebration seems to be messaging to me a lot of naked pics, including his erect pee-pee.

There are times I feel like telling him to stop being vulgar and give him a piece of my mind.

I guess we need to pick our battles.

I don't envy your position.

 

Your classmate is an idiot: You don't get a schmuck hall pass just because you waited to come out.

 

It's like people who put their bare feet on airplane bulkheads and seatback tv monitors. If they're not called out on their absolutely ridiculous and selfish behavior, they'll never stop.

 

This is why we scold animals when they misbehave.

[Milo Farnsworth]

Manners and respect are free to give and receive.

[+ E.T.Bass]

Your classmate is an idiot: You don't get a schmuck hall pass just because you waited to come out.

 

It's like people who put their bare feet on airplane bulkheads and seatback tv monitors. If they're not called out on their absolutely ridiculous and selfish behavior, they'll never stop.

 

This is why we scold animals when they misbehave.

 

Yup. He's a bit of a mess.

 

How the OP mentioned having to deal with even more extreme vulgarity sounds quite frustrating.

 

I always add a kind word when getting in touch and again during the meet and at the departure. Hopefully most of us do more of that and less of what's unwanted.

[blightuponyou]

I try to treat escorts with the same respect and decorum I would use with any other professional. Dirty talk is for the bedroom.

 

And as an added note, I do not want my Grindr hookups sending me photos of their “cum holes” or “boy pussies” ( or using those phrases for their anuses in the first place.) I can imagine how off-putting it can be.