How to judge if a guy is a good travel companion?

[labiologie1994]

24 year old guy here, looking to potentially hire an escort for a (solo, for now) birthday trip in a couple of months. I've never hired an escort before for anything (although I've hired masseurs), so I'm kind of nervous I might be too young - but my money is still good, right? I fully expect to pay in the $5k range for 3-4 days of companionship on top of all the travel expenses, no problem there. I just don't know how to judge a good escort!

 

Any reccs on the best guys for traveling? I prefer guys near my age (within 10 years or so). I'm in NYC, but would be willing to fly a guy in from other cities honestly. I want someone sexy and sexual, of course, but also someone who can be a paid-for "boyfriend" for a few days.

Edited July 5, 2019 by labiologie1994

[+ Gar1eth]

24 year old guy here, looking to potentially hire an escort for a (solo, for now) birthday trip in a couple of months. I've never hired an escort before for anything (although I've hired masseurs), so I'm kind of nervous I might be too young - but my money is still good, right? I fully expect to pay in the $5k range for 3-4 days of companionship on top of all the travel expenses, no problem there. I just don't know how to judge a good escort!

 

Any reccs on the best guys for traveling? I prefer guys near my age. I'm in NYC, but would be willing to fly a guy in from other cities honestly. I want someone sexy and sexual, of course, but also someone who can be a paid-for "boyfriend" for a few days.

 

The one main problem I can see is your age requirement. The escort/client experience due to its nature can be fraught with problems both on the client side and escort side. Considering how long you want to spend with this person, you'd most likely want a guy with both experience at longer meetings and a good reputation. I don't know how many 24 to 26 year old escorts have both of those.

 

Whoever you decide on, especially if you stick with your age requirements, it's going to be really important to hire a few times before to make sure you are comfortable and that he seems like a stand up guy. Also I wouldn't mention your interest in a longer hire until after you've been with him a few times.

 

Gman

[labiologie1994]

Ah, maybe I should have clarified - by "around my age" I mean anywhere from early 20's to mid 30's

[+ Gar1eth]

Ah, maybe I should have clarified - by "around my age" I mean anywhere from early 20's to mid 30's

 

That's better. If I were you, I'd pick someone with a good reputation at the upper range.

 

But if you want us to suggest, you need to tell us the type of guy you are looking. We need to know things like-thin, normal athletic, or muscular physique, top/bottom/versatile, into vanilla or kink, kissing, yes or no, tallywacker requirements (cut, uncut, normal or equestrian sized), and etc.

 

Also what will the outside-the-bedroom activities consist of?

 

Lots of things go into choosing a longer hire.

 

Gman

[labiologie1994]

Gotcha. Athletic/muscular, vers (or bottom), kink preferred but definitely not a requirement, would definitely like kissing, preferably not super hung in case I were to bottom, clean cut, if he's blonde then even better. Fine if he's feminine, fine if he's masc, fine if he's "straight acting".

 

Outside the bedroom, the trip I'm planning is to San Diego. Flying out of JFK via JetBlue Mint. Staying downtown. Plenty of beach time, going to the zoo, parks, restaurants. Maybe some snorkeling and surfing. Not necessary that the escort does all of that with me, but wouldn't mind if he did. Totally understand he'd want personal time.

Edited July 5, 2019 by labiologie1994

[labiologie1994]

I actually was looking at Kiddo's profile since he's been recommended a lot on here and seems to be my type, but haven't seen anything about longer hires with him.

[+ Gar1eth]

Gotcha. Athletic/muscular, vers (or bottom), kink preferred but definitely not a requirement, would definitely like kissing, preferably not super hung in case I were to bottom, clean cut, if he's blonde then even better.

 

Outside the bedroom, the trip I'm planning is to San Diego. Flying out of JFK via JetBlue Mint. Staying downtown. Plenty of beach time, going to the zoo, parks, restaurants. Maybe some snorkeling and surfing. Not necessary that the escort does all of that with me, but wouldn't mind if he did. Totally understand he'd want personal time.

 

 

What do you think of Mike Gaite? Look him up here on the Message Center. He's had a recent thread. The majority of people love him. I had many a fun trip with him.

 

Here's his ad. Don't be worried about it being expired. It happens frequently at the beginning for the month for lots of escorts.

 

https://rent.men/MikeGaite/

 

Gman

Edited July 5, 2019 by Gar1eth

[labiologie1994]

What do you think of Mike Gaite. Look him up here on the Message Center. He's had a recent thread. The majority of people love him.

 

Here's his ad. Don't be worried about it being expired. It happens frequently at the beginning for the month for lots of escorts.

 

https://rent.men/MikeGaite/

 

Gman

 

 

Mike does look great! Very attractive and seems pretty personable.

[+ DickyF]

Are you planning to fly with the escort from NY to SD? So are you looking for a NY- based escort? I suggest hiring a SD escort instead. That way if it doesn’t work out you can easily cut your losses. Otherwise I suggest postponing this trip to your next birthday so you can audition a lot of escorts until you find one that you’ll want spend a week with - a week can be a very long time.

[BaronArtz]

Consider taking reidreid. He will do anything you want in bed AND he is a nice guy:

 

https://rentmen.eu/ReidReid

 

As others said, take him for a one hour spin before committing to $5K ...

[buckguy]

The usual advice (which you've received) is to have an hour or two with the guy. That's no guarantee of compatibility but you'll have a better idea of who he is, although someone fun for an hour or two is not necessarily going to be good company for several days--you need to know if he can make conversation, etc. Look at the reviews and see who has been reviewed, preferably > 1 for a multi-day hire. Search here with key words like "overnight" "trips", "vacation" to see who has been discussed in the past year or two. A reputable guy who has not met you before will want to have a quite a bit of communication with you before they commit.

[+ nycman]

You sound level headed and you seem to have very

realistic expectations. I certainly wasn’t that mature

at your age. I would however suggest hiring several

different escorts for shorter time periods prior to the

big trip.

 

Since you’ve never hired you don’t even know if you

like the Escort/Client relationship. I started hiring at

a relatively young age (although older than you) and

many of my early hires were awkward because I was

the same age as the escort.

 

“My money is still good”...yes....and no. You’re still

dealing with humans and all their fucked up emotions.

Nonetheless, I encourage you to explore, do your

homework, hire before the “big event”, and keep your

expectations low.

[builder boy]

Well I know a bit about this.

Don't take anyone without meeting first. Been there done that.

Set ur expectations and fees your willing to pay

It can be great or well let's go with great !!!!

[Gymowner]

there are many uber hot guys that have in their ads... "looking for a regular" or "looking for someone exclusive". some even have "can travel on a moments notice". hire one of those for a one hour session. if there is a real connection invite that guy for an overnight. if things really go well then say something like " your ad says you love to travel and we are really getting along well. i've been having an itch to go to x. if i get online and buy the tickets would you like to go now for a few days"?

 

if the guy is having a good time you may be able to get a really good deal from him since he probably would like a mini vacay and with someone he is getting along with. if the hour session is soso, then you send him on his way and just saved a ton of money.

 

perfect example here. very good looking guy, looks exactly like his pictures, nice body, fun personality and easy to be around. great one hour sessions i can vouch for that. if things click you may just have the perfect guy!

 

https://rentmen.eu/Blakeblane

[+ Gar1eth]

What do you think of Mike Gaite? Look him up here on the Message Center. He's had a recent thread. The majority of people love him. I had many a fun trip with him.

 

Here's his ad. Don't be worried about it being expired. It happens frequently at the beginning for the month for lots of escorts.

 

https://rent.men/MikeGaite/

 

Gman

Mike does look great! Very attractive and seems pretty personable.

 

He is. He's done porn in the past-not sure if that is a plus or a minus in your eyes-although he hasn't done any that I know of for a few years. But as of three years ago-at least- and there are many others on this Forum who can probably attest to the same currently-he has no porn star attitude. He's like an adorable, muscular boy next store who wants to have sex with you. Oh and some of the porn he did was for kink.com. But he was always fine with my vanilla needs. As the delicious topping on Mike's cake-he has a very pretty tallywacker. It's probably about 7 inches-I'm betting you'd find it just right.

 

Oh and in case you are wondering, I have no current relationship with Mike. I don't hire anymore. But the reason I'm so gung ho on him is that during my 14 year hiring career, he's in my top 3 hires. And the other 2 have retired and would be outside your age range even if they still escorted. (They are both in their 40's).

 

 

 

perfect example here. very good looking guy, looks exactly like his pictures, nice body, fun personality and easy to be around. great one hour sessions i can vouch for that. if things click you may just have the perfect guy!

 

https://rentmen.eu/Blakeblane

 

This guy looks really nice, but he advertises as a top. And the OP was looking for a versatile or bottom guy who kisses. Of course I hear positions are mutable and kissing can be discussed. And you may know something outside the ad copy.

 

Gman

Edited July 5, 2019 by Gar1eth

[+ JEC]

Saxon West is based in SD, blond and verse. Probably 40 but looks younger. Lots of porn online if you want to check his vibe. I haven’t hired him but have chatted and he seems very friendly and down to earth. Sorry can’t post link