Long-winded Potential Clients

[+ HarryReems4U]

This is more of a question for escorts. Do any of you get really long-winded, introductions from potential clients? Does it turn you off?

Edited May 23, 2019 by HarryReems4U

[+ HarryReems4U]

Bump.

[+ HarryReems4U]

Thank you, Dominiking.

 

Would anyone else like to comment?

[myophile]

Just to turn this topic on its head: as a client, I always appreciate an escort who responds a little more fully, and provides some buildup. Complete sentences twitch my dick. A nice follow up text in the interim between first contact and the meeting makes me chub. An unsolicited dick pic or other teaser gives me an anticipatory raging hardon, and predisposes me to leave a generous tip. Not many guys do this, and I’ve had smoking hot experiences with guys who didn’t engage me in a little chat or banter beforehand, but the ones I go on to hire regularly all have that quality of showmanship.

Edited May 23, 2019 by myophile

[+ HarryReems4U]

I agree with you also, Myophile. Only a few of them have that showmanship, knowing how to keep working the audience (the client) and leave him wanting more.

[+ HarryReems4U]

I started this thread around midnight last night. I am going to bump it again and see if there are more takers during the daylight hours.

 

Anyway else want to respond?

[Kevin Slater]

The likelihood of a booking coming to fruition is inversely proportional to the amount of texts, calls and emails beforehand.

 

Kevin Slater

[mike carey]

I would totally chat endlessly with [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER].

[+ nycman]

It’s a two way street.....

 

Some escorts want endless details prior to committing to meet up.

Mostly, it doesn’t bother me, but I do find that the length of time

it takes me to set up an appointment is inversely proportional

to the amount of fun I’m going to have. That is if he ever finally

commits and shows up at all.

 

In an ideal world....

 

“I’m a top who likes to fuck.....

the rest we can figure out when you get here”.

 

Rarely is it that easy though.

[marylander1940]

Thank you, Dominiking.

 

Would anyone else like to comment?

 

the more talk (specially texting) the less likely to happen or so I’ve heard. Hiring is not rocket science.

[+ overeasy]

And so here we are on this fine forum painting the world all sorts of the same color with the widest, biggest paint brush we can come up with. Think we should realize that maybe each arrangement is different to the different parties and may require varying degrees of communication in order for both parties to be ready to meet?

[+ HarryReems4U]

I just wanted to hear people's comments on this subject.

[+ BuzzBuddy]

If I host a multi day trip which settles upon my escort a minimum of $7000 + expenses, my long winded texts would have been to his advantage...yes?

[hypothetically]

In my experience (and this is no one else’s but my own, before the hyenas come cackling out of the bushes)...

Long-winded clients correlate with bookings that never come to fruition.

 

More than half of my most successful and most monetary bookings with pleasant clients follow introductions that are short, well-written and straight to the point.

 

“Andre, love your profile, I’m interested in booking you (insert dates), would you be available to discuss (insert time).” End scene. The phone convo should also be short and sweet.

 

Clients who unload about their most intimate desires and fantasies all in one go is a turn off. I’ve entertained these clients and they continue to elaborate with no booking date in sight and simply want to engage.

 

I understand everyone communicates differently, but even my first timers and clients with cold feet get straight to the point. “Hi. I’m a little nervous, I’ve never done this...” That’s my cue as an empathetic provider to be a little more assertive and suggest we have a call to ease any anxieties and discuss how we move forward.

[hypothetically]

If I host a multi day trip which settles upon my escort a minimum of $7000 + expenses, my long winded texts would have been to his advantage...yes?

 

No. Long winded texts are not productive. Your $7,000 is Monopoly money if you cannot pick up the phone and communicate the authenticity of the arrangement by a brief chat. Saves both of us time and shows me you are serious about confirming details.

[hypothetically]

And so here we are on this fine forum painting the world all sorts of the same color with the widest, biggest paint brush we can come up with. Think we should realize that maybe each arrangement is different to the different parties and may require varying degrees of communication in order for both parties to be ready to meet?

 

100%.

[Kevin Slater]

No. Long winded texts are not productive. Your $7,000 is Monopoly money if you cannot pick up the phone and communicate the authenticity of the arrangement by a brief chat. Saves both of us time and shows me you are serious about confirming details.

 

Yeah, as their sexual fantasies play out over texts and emails, their fantasy budget seems to grow correspondingly.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ BuzzBuddy]

No. Long winded texts are not productive. Your $7,000 is Monopoly money if you cannot pick up the phone and communicate the authenticity of the arrangement by a brief chat. Saves both of us time and shows me you are serious about confirming details.

That’s why I came here... to get smarter. Unfortunately, it would seem my soliloquies were encouraged by those on the receiving end who offered me no constructive criticism to the contrary. Shame on them for perpetuating ignorance and ill will. At last, I have landed at the right spot for enlightenment, and now I know better. Thanks much...