Adam4Adam Pro Warning - NYC

[tenderloin]

Yes, I am an idiot and a fool. For the second time, I let my little head do the thinking, and hired a guy whose pictures on A4A show a massively-hung, twinkish latino who was a versatile kisser. It was very late, I was horny, and he showed "available." The guy who showed up was not the guy in the pics, and would do very little of what was advertised (I won't go into detail or name him so as not to violate the rules here). I ended the session, he became vaguely menacing, and I was glad to have him gone without incident. I got took.

 

My lesson is a simple one: if you consider hiring from A4A, ask the 'scort to do a three-finger selfie as confirmation of ID. Then get specific about your expectations. Those boys who won't comply are likely fakers.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Yes, I am an idiot and a fool. For the second time, I let my little head do the thinking, and hired a guy whose pictures on A4A show a massively-hung, twinkish latino who was a versatile kisser. It was very late, I was horny, and he showed "available." The guy who showed up was not the guy in the pics, and would do very little of what was advertised (I won't go into detail or name him so as not to violate the rules here). I ended the session, he became vaguely menacing, and I was glad to have him gone without incident. I got took.

 

My lesson is a simple one: if you consider hiring from A4A, ask the 'scort to do a three-finger selfie as confirmation of ID. Then get specific about your expectations. Those boys who won't comply are likely fakers.

 

You are not learning the right lesson. When you are hiring for a first time from any website, you should hold a verification videoconference before closing the deal. This is applicable to A4A, RM, MB, FB, or any other hookers site. Forget about pictures to verify pictures, move to the XXI century.

[marylander1940]

Yes, I am an idiot and a fool. For the second time, I let my little head do the thinking, and hired a guy whose pictures on A4A show a massively-hung, twinkish latino who was a versatile kisser. It was very late, I was horny, and he showed "available." The guy who showed up was not the guy in the pics, and would do very little of what was advertised (I won't go into detail or name him so as not to violate the rules here). I ended the session, he became vaguely menacing, and I was glad to have him gone without incident. I got took.

 

My lesson is a simple one: if you consider hiring from A4A, ask the 'scort to do a three-finger selfie as confirmation of ID. Then get specific about your expectations. Those boys who won't comply are likely fakers.

 

Review him!

[JayCeeKy]

You're not the "Lone Ranger" when it comes to making these kinds of "unforced errors" in hiring. I hired a "gentleman" off A4A a couple of years ago w/out asking for verification and the person who showed up not only was not the man in the photo, he smelled like he hadn't bathed in years. Luckily, he left peacefully with only a token remuneration. On the other hand, there are some really hot "bargains" on that site if you use prudence and DEMAND verification.

[sexymonk]

You're not the "Lone Ranger" when it comes to making these kinds of "unforced errors" in hiring. I hired a "gentleman" off A4A a couple of years ago w/out asking for verification and the person who showed up not only was not the man in the photo, he smelled like he hadn't bathed in years. Luckily, he left peacefully with only a token remuneration. On the other hand, there are some really hot "bargains" on that site if you use prudence and DEMAND verification.

Lesson learned and lesson for others: think from the grey matter and not the little junkie below waist! Let not the little John make your decisions! Control the urges and do something to decrease the libido! That will help to take decision from brain!

[hypothetically]

Do better, gentlemen. You have an incredible resource at your fingertips (this forum). It takes 15 min to do your homework to avoid getting bamboozled. And if there’s no paper trail and your gut is telling you it’s a fraud...it’s probably a fraud.

[+ oldNbusted]

Do better, gentlemen. You have an incredible resource at your fingertips (this forum). It takes 15 min to do your homework to avoid getting bamboozled. And if there’s no paper trail and your gut is telling you it’s a fraud...it’s probably a fraud.

 

 

All true and a must do, but I do feel obligated to say even here, one has to take a critical view. I'm think of all the newbies that turn up singing praises when a guy gets a little bit of less than excellent feedback and there was even an established forum member who vouched for a guy who was using the pics of a famous porn guy, but then it turned out they had never even met and the real guy was not the porn guy

Edited March 19, 2019 by oldNbusted

[Gadfly22]

The guy who showed up was not the guy in the pics, and would do very little of what was advertised (I won't go into detail or name him so as not to violate the rules here).

When a guy posts fake pics all bets are off.You are not only allowed to mention his name YOU ARE REQUIRED TO! (along with a link to his profile) if you wish to remain a forum member in good standing.[s[ Kidding of course but the #1 purpose of this forum (IMHO) is to expose fakes FBO other forum members. Tell us who he is! Just mentioning his name and/or providing a link to his profile and exposing the fact that he uses fake pics is not a review and would not be considered a violation of forum policy.

There have been a couple of posts in the last few days implying this. Anybody know why?

Edited March 20, 2019 by Guy Fawkes

[+ nycman]

"unforced errors"

I love this term for it!

 

We’ve all been there and done that btw....live and learn.

[tenderloin]

When a guy posts fake pics all bets are off. You are not only allowed to mention his name YOU ARE REQUIRED TO! (along with a link to his profile) if you wish to remain a forum member in good standing. Kidding of course but the #1 purpose of this forum (IMHO) is to expose fakes FBO other forum members. Tell us who he is! Just mentioning his name and/or providing a link to his profile and exposing the fact that he uses fake pics is not a review and would not be considered a violation of forum policy.

There have been a couple of posts in the last few days implying this. Anybody know why?

 

Alright, I'll give it a shot. This is the guy:

 

https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Drive_you_crazy

 

Caveat emptor

[Tonyko]

I have few Golden Rules but one is a first time hire should be the one who opens the door to YOU, not da' other way around Always leave myself the opt to walk away because we ALL know getting a faker to leave can be difficult costly and sometimes scary.

*I know it narrows the choices when the guy you want can't host, but its worth it.