Escorts' Manners and Courtesy

[Lookin]

RE: Who's lookin' for a good time?

 

Lookin’, I'm surprised by your "outstanding escort" analysis.

 

Not my analysis. I haven’t had the pleasure. It’s his clients - the folks who have been with him - who think so.

 

 

Maybe rose-colored tri-focals are skewing "everything you see.”

 

Maybe, hell. I ain’t wearin’ ‘em for the looks!

 

 

Or maybe you have a soft spot for all escorts.

 

Not yet, but I’m working on it! :9

 

 

Whatever.

 

Precisely. ;-)

[Guest novabear22031]

I did what what most would have been a total no-no. Hiring a companion without a first meeting. Hopefully that review of will be up in a few more days.. He was Dirk #2 from NO.

 

As my review will state he was a total gentleman in regards to my taking him on my vacation/trip. Almost to my embarrassment at times. He always seemed concerned when I wanted to order wine for our dinners.

 

And when we had the opportunity for some quiet time on the ships deck. he asked me if it were OK to get a drink in one of the Monkey Heads that are popular on the cruise ships.

 

I gave him total access to my ship's account. He never abused it. And when we were ashore he had a great respect of what was to be expected from our travels together and what I should pay for.

 

I can only hope that I meet up with the likes of Doug #2 again. He was most apologetic every time he asked for something. Which I found sweet and reassuring.

 

So far there have been only two "escorts" here that I feel that I could trust. And that is based on my conversations. One os Dirk #2 and the the other was Lydnen. In some way you have to trust your instinct.

 

I truly hope that I can meet others that feel the same way about life,,,,

[Luv2play]

I'm confused. You switch back and forth between Dirk#2 and Doug#2. Or are you confused? :o

[+ Tygerscent]

RE: Good manners, for Escorts and Clients

 

I have to say, Juan... that was well written! Your entries always seem well written to me! I found some of the points you brought up very important! I think we hear plenty about the short fallings of Escorts... (as well as the good via reviews),and I fully get that they are service providers and that Clients have an expectation there. You want to be a good customer too though. There is not much recourse for Escorts who encounter the client who has a rash on his butt or is basically unclean hygiene-wise and wants you to go there, does not come financially prepared, cancels without telling you, requests that you set up the hotel and says he will re-imburse you for it but then does not show up or hires you and then after the session says, "this is free time off the clock now right, because we are friends?". These things happen. They have, they do and they will continue to happen. Perhaps more important is how does one deal with those situations? Assertiveness on either side might be difficult or seem ubrupt but can also clue a person in to improve. Realistically we are not perfect. Assuming we will always do and say the right perfect thing is mispresumptious. People will make mistakes and sometimes unknowingly. Polity and courtiousness varies by definition from person to person, state to state, city to city, culture to culture. People may or may not know they are displaying bad behavior. When it is obvious that someone is, I think there is some benefit to addressing the issue and saying, "Your behavior is unexceptable". If the person is not intentionally being creepy, the conversation is lighter, more polite and delivered with more diplomacy perhaps.

I think that it is harder for the Escort to make the call and say, "this is inappropriate", because it could lead to a bad review for him or he might not get paid. He has a livelihood to think about. I think it is especially difficult if the Escort encounters a bad Client and the conversation does not dictate a submissive, gentle stance in order to protect himself. Somehow it seems more fair to both parties to say something though. Not saying something simply allows the bad behavior to go on unnoticed or assumed so. I would Respect and feel Honored to have soemone call me on some bad behavior because it gives me the opportunity to correct myself. We have the potential to learn and most people do not want to be seen as an unfriendly asshole. A few just don't care and so you avoid them in the future. Some people may be called on their bad behavior and become angry or fearful, defensive or just quietly slip away. Of course you never want to put anyone or yourself in harm either and so having some good sense in how to approach and gauge the importance of an issue is a good skill for a person, in general,to have whether he be Client or Escort. No Client wants to hire a bad Escort and no Escort wants to be hired by a bad Client.

Tyger!

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[Ethan]

>I don't feel that good manners should be limited to extended

>periods of time. Good manners should be shown in every

>interaction starting from the first contact to the farewells.

>Just my half cents worth.

>

>Hugs,

>Greg

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Well stated gorgeous. And you are an inspiration to all the 'scorts on how to be sweet, genuine, caring and successful. Cheers--Ethan