411 on Richardporter

[cjazzed]

https://rent.men/RichardPorter

I want to hire him for an overnight. He seems extremely sexy. Any information? Is he trustworthy? Does he provide what he agrees he will provide?

Edited January 4, 2019 by cjazzed

[+ azdr0710]

sorry, I have no information, but you may want to try a one- or two-hour meet first just to check that you guys get along......if you live in the area or can manage it somehow......

[cjazzed]

I don't live in that area, is all. So how do I go about this then? I'm new to hiring. He's a really hot guy, I wanted to have him for as long as possible. He says he does everything, he will let me sit in his face and he is vers.

[rvwnsd]

you may want to try a one- or two-hour meet first just to check that you guys get along......if you live in the area or can manage it somehow......

 

@azdr0710 gives very good advice. I would N E V E R hire someone for an overnight when I had not met them previously. The risk of not being compatible sexually or non-sexually is too great not to mention the risk of the guy being a thief.

 

I don't live in that area, is all. So how do I go about this then?... .

An approach that has worked well for me is to schedule a trip to the city in which the escort lives and then schedule an hour or two to see how well you get along. If you do, next time hire him for an overnight.

[cjazzed]

@azdr0710 gives very good advice. I would N E V E R hire someone for an overnight when I had not met them previously. The risk of not being compatible sexually or non-sexually is too great not to mention the risk of the guy being a thief.

 

 

An approach that has worked well for me is to schedule a trip to the city in which the escort lives and then schedule an hour or two to see how well you get along. If you do, next time hire him for an overnight.

Ok, sounds good. I will do so. Thanks guys. ?

[Muscle Lover 2]

I agree. cjazzed, I agree Porter is HOT! I also agree with the posters about not doing an overnight with someone not thoroughly vetted and reviewed by others first. But I wanted to share one more thought. I've gone before and scheduled a 1-2 hour appointment for the first day I am in town and a tentative overnight for the following night if all goes well on the first appointment. At a minimum, you should get his best performance on the 1st appointment if he's an intelligent one. Good luck!

[alexslaveboy]

Bumping for an update.....perhaps a bit too many tattoos for me, but I always look at his profile as he's definitely built to my liking

 

Plus he has the name Richard Porter then in his text calls himself Porter then phone number says ask for Kyle

How many names does this guy go by???

 

Big muscle guys are scare in the South Jersey/Philadelphia area

[cjazzed]

Bumping for an update.....perhaps a bit too many tattoos for me, but I always look at his profile as he's definitely built to my liking

 

Plus he has the name Richard Porter then in his text calls himself Porter then phone number says ask for Kyle

How many names does this guy go by???

 

Big muscle guys are scare in the South Jersey/Philadelphia area

 

This is what a person who hired him told me:

 

He's a nice guy. His pictures are mostly accurate, but I didn't quite find him as attractive in person. I wouldn't recommend him, personally. Hes very low energy and there was no sense of excitement or interest on his part. He doesn't get hard easily either. I'm not going to speculate on the reason. He doesn't kiss or cuddle. He's in it for the cash. The entire time felt like he had somewhere to be. He told me that he really just give massages to older men so I guess anything else is a chore for him. He bottoms reluctantly... I didn't enjoy that at all.

 

He does say he has a girlfriend and a child. So maybe he's not truly interested in guys. . . However, if you put a dick in your mouth and ass, you have a homosexual side. ?. I also know to an escort, they give different services for clients they like, BUT I am a little weary now, not gonna lie.

What would you guys do? I'm new to this.

[cjazzed]

I agree. cjazzed, I agree Porter is HOT! I also agree with the posters about not doing an overnight with someone not thoroughly vetted and reviewed by others first. But I wanted to share one more thought. I've gone before and scheduled a 1-2 hour appointment for the first day I am in town and a tentative overnight for the following night if all goes well on the first appointment. At a minimum, you should get his best performance on the 1st appointment if he's an intelligent one. Good luck!

 

 

/Philadelphia area

This is what a person who hired him told me:

 

He's a nice guy. His pictures are mostly accurate, but I didn't quite find him as attractive in person. I wouldn't recommend him, personally. Hes very low energy and there was no sense of excitement or interest on his part. He doesn't get hard easily either. I'm not going to speculate on the reason. He doesn't kiss or cuddle. He's in it for the cash. The entire time felt like he had somewhere to be. He told me that he really just give massages to older men so I guess anything else is a chore for him. He bottoms reluctantly... I didn't enjoy that at all.

 

He does say he has a girlfriend and a child. So maybe he's not truly interested in guys. . . However, if you put a dick in your mouth and ass, you have a homosexual side. ?. I also know to an escort, they give different services for clients they like, BUT I am a little weary now, not gonna lie.

What would you guys do? I'm new to this.

[cjazzed]

Should I ask him about what this client told me? Or just not hire him? Or try him for a hour myself?

[+ azdr0710]

Should I ask him about what this client told me? Or just not hire him? Or try him for a hour myself?

 

certainly you shouldn't discuss with a provider what another client said about him (!), especially negative comments......he may know/remember the other guy and give him trouble......

 

if you have your mind set on him, try an hour and do all you can to make it ok for him.....smile, offer him sincere compliments, don't bring up drama, ask him what he'd like YOU to do, don't be a weirdo.......

[cjazzed]

certainly you shouldn't discuss with a provider what another client said about him (!), especially negative comments......he may know/remember the other guy and give him trouble......

 

if you have your mind set on him, try an hour and do all you can to make it ok for him.....smile, offer him sincere compliments, don't bring up drama, ask him what he'd like YOU to do, don't be a weirdo.......

 

Why am I a weirdo? You definitely are making this a negative turn. I am new to this, that's why i'm asking for help. Thanks tho

[rvwnsd]

Why am I a weirdo? You definitely are making this a negative turn. I am new to this, that's why i'm asking for help. Thanks tho

He isn't saying you are a weirdo, he is saying don't behave like one. Those of us (like @azdr0710) who have been Forum members for a while have seen innumerable new members and guys new to hiring who incessantly message an escort, discuss what they want ad nauseam, try to plan out every minute of a session, objectify them, discuss other clients and escorts, etc. He's suggesting that you don't do these things.

[cjazzed]

He isn't saying you are a weirdo, he is saying don't behave like one. Those of us (like @azdr0710) who have been Forum members for a while have seen innumerable new members and guys new to hiring who incessantly message an escort, discuss what they want ad nauseam, try to plan out every minute of a session, objectify them, discuss other clients and escorts, etc. He's suggesting that you don't do these things.

 

Oh, cool cool. My bad. Yeah, I'm just going to hire him for 2 hours and try him out. Really, thanks for yall help. Yeah, i'm not texting him at all. I only texted him to set up everything.

[+ azdr0710]

I apologize if I suggested you are a weirdo, @cjazzed ...of course, I wasn't implying or saying that.....as rvwnsd says, I'm trying to help make this work for you....I don't want the meet to be like what apparently happened to the person you quoted upthread......

[cjazzed]

I apologize if I suggested you are a weirdo, @cjazzed ...of course, I wasn't implying or saying that.....as rvwnsd says, I'm trying to help make this work for you....I don't want the meet to be like what apparently happened to the person you quoted upthread......

 

No probs man. I judged too quickly. I appreciate you guys' help. Thanks again!

[cjazzed]

Bumping to see if anybody new has any information. . .

[Gymowner]

heres the thing guys...and boy am i gonna be unpopular by some on here for saying this but oh well. for most men "jr" has to get some kind of emotional stimulation as well as physical stimulate to raise to full mast and work. some of the sensational escorts in the past were able to emotionally get involved just by being worshiped, drooled over etc without any kind of physical attraction whatsoever. that i am afraid is very few men in our population of straight and gay men that escort.

 

that being said if you are not an attractive person physically it can make the situation even harder. pardon the pun. now here is the bright side of the equation. i have been told by more than one escort that it becomes much much easier for them to "go there" mentally and get aroused when the emphasis is on THEM and they feel good being in that room at that time. what i mean is 1.) are you clean cut and smell good? 2.) do you show up on time? 3.) do you text them over and over before the appointment and make their lives hell so as for them to not even want to go on with the session? or do you just let them know you are on your way and show up promptly? 4.) to you ogle them in a "weird" sort of way in the session or do you get into them both body and personality wise? 5.) biggie here.... do you make them feel COMFORTABLE?

 

believe it or not even though these guys are big muscle men most of the time with a new client they have their guard up. laying face down anyone can swing anything at anyone and create a very dangerous situation. this has happened on more than one occasion guys believe it or not and dont think they dont think about that!... especially if your personality is creepy. i always try to make the person feel great when the door opens. i make sure i shower right before the session, use mouth wash and have cologne on and many times i will get a hair cut the day of the session. i always make sure i have good lotion with me to start each session out with a massage...for them. nothing does a muscle guy like better than to have his sore muscles stroked and to relax. this most of the time gets even a 100% breeder aroused. put your self in their shoes and be honest about it. would you like a creepy, fat old fart that smells with greasy hair to be slobbering all over you? yes this is a lot of the make up of their clients so get over it. in my conversation before hand i almost always let them know i think it is awesome that they can do what they do for a living. i tell them that i for one could not. i say it in a way that makes them relax and feel somewhat good about the statement and about themselves. and compliment, compliment compliment!

 

and if you really like this guy, love his body and think he is cool and want to see him again even before the session starts...go with the flow. do not be rigid in your wants and needs that first time. we all have a bad day, fight with a partner or boss that is being a looney. things happen. the escorts that see you are working with them and you feel are genuine and maybe something is going on in their lives and not just a hustle to get your money..may need a second chance. ive said this many times. this is an expensive sport fellas. if all you want to do is get off as quickly as you can maybe a back alley $50 trick is more in order.

Edited January 13, 2019 by Gymowner

[coriolis888]

Bumping to see if anybody new has any information. . .

 

 

After reading through this thread together with reading the rentmen ad for the escort being discussed, I am surprised that no one commented on the profile of the escort wherein he states that he is straight.

 

That self identified classification (straight) certainly contradicts with an earlier statement said by you above such as " He says he does everything, he will let me sit in his face and he is vers. " His ad would be a concern to me in trying to understand his agreeing to something that a straight man would not do.

 

Further, if you were advised that he has trouble getting aroused and now you see that he self identifies as straight, do you really want to risk paying someone for an all night stay when there are credible signals that you could very well have a disappointing evening with him?

 

I wish you luck whatever you decide. You said you were new at this. Be sure that your inexperience is not the basis for you to chose the wrong escort.

 

Not to abuse an old idiom, but - - - - - there are a lot of fish in the sea -

[cjazzed]

I agree with all that you guys are saying, just wanted to see if anybody has taken the plunge with him on here. Just curious. . . He might claim he's "straight", but is full on gay for an attractive guy. I am a young & very attractive guy. I'm going to meet with him in Feb for 2 hours first, then will see if I choose to hire him longer. I hope he's a pleaser, wouldn't care about a deep emotional experience, I just want him to please me sexually good. He can be a human robot as long as he is getting the job done. ??

[cjazzed]

There are a lot of fish in the sea, but not all the guys are good looking, muscular, and hairy like him. He looks like he smells like a god when he hasn't showered all day and just finished working out. ??? That's my idea guy

[caramelsub]

He’s definitely my type. I would hire him in a heartbeat if I lived in his area.

[InFL]

Any update? Very interested in him as well.

[coriolis888]

On January 13, the OP wrote that he planned to meet with the escort in February. Well, here it is April and nothing is reported by the OP.

 

Either the meeting went bad or the OP did not meet with the guy.

 

Curious how things sometimes don't work out.

[hornytwells]

The profile now states he is Bisexual, and (which amused me ) opens with " I am rich". I assume he means his name is Rich.